Well such a tough poll, as each of these women had a power and a strength of character
It is even a tougher choice because of the presence of Devi Seeta , Radha and Rukmini. These three cannot be compared as they are Direct Avtars of the Devine, So thsee three are beyond comparison
If we keep asode these three then My favourite was Deupadi, she was really a child of the fire.
She was an epitome of shakti, After the experience she went through , it becomes impossible mot to respect her
Second is her unwavering devotion to Krishna
She teaches us to remain strong in adverse condition and remain devoted to the lord