Love and Nivedita

I would first like to appreciate what Neha is doing as an actress in portraying Nivedita. I have also read a lot of posts putting in question Nivedita's love for Viren. I think she loves Viren really a lot. More then anything, that is why she went to him when he was in pain a couple of episodes back. 

I really Liked Ur exam paper Example...I know that feeling😆Actually U become oblivious to everything around U..Then where is question of right emtions... Edited by kavianand - 12 years ago

thanx for that and yeah i do agree

Tina and Kavita... Edited by anjubala - 12 years ago

I'm sorry Samina but I have to disagree with u here. I'm a married woman with a son who is mashallah 14 now. When I got married I was still in college and had board exams and at the same time my husband had to go through the surgery. I use to be with him in the hospital taking care of him all day and night not once I went home. But I did not forget my exams as well. I use to study when he use to go to sleep and use to be up all night studying and taking care of my husband. Itr's just a way that one should try to keep the balance between everything. When my son was bron again I had exams my law exams and I use to come back home spend all my time with him and uuse to study all night till 5. Yes I did not get sleep at all in those days but atleaset I was not ignoring anybody. My social life was active, my life as wife, as a mother and as a daughter in law was all active. It is not that coz of my exams I ignored my other duties as DIL, as a mother and as a wife. And I'm not saying that these r my MIL words. So what I mean to say just for one thing or one person one cannot ignore the other responsibilities. Nivideta does not feel the pain coz uptil she has not been ignored by the people she loves. Everybody wants to feel important otherwise that persons get shattered and that's what Viren wants to feel that he is important in Nivi'slife and Nivi re[peatdly has failed to give him that feeeling. She can ignore him once or twice but not everyday and not the whole life. 

@ Anju and Zarmeeno

Nobody asks u that question when they know that u r there for that person. And I was with him too and I made sure that I do not have the paper on the day he has the surgery. Nobody could have asked me that coz they knew that I was always there with him. And I was no ruining his life and me going giving exams in no way was affecting him. I was just away from him for like 2 or 3 hrs. But for Nivi does it looks like that she is ever there for Viren or even she feels anything for Viren? And if u do feel please do let me knwo coz I still have to remember the instance where she stands by Viren. Edited by zarmeeno - 12 years ago

I will not be blaming Nivi for not standing by Viren at this stage of her marriage. There is no doubt that she loves Viren. But you have to understand she is married less then a year and it does take time to understand and start be with your husband at each step in the best of situations. In any case I think Viren was a better judge then Siddharth. What Sid did today.. whatever be the intention also brought one thing about this character that has not changed.. He uses Nivi and then stomps on her heart right and left when his need is finished. Where was he when Nivi started taking care of Dwita? She was in pain too and Dwita was not her responsibility, but she took care of her and fell in love with her and was considering to give her whole motherhood for this child and what does she hear... you are not her mother. Even Viren did not tell her that and he had every right to and it made me just remember that Sid is good at one thing and that is giving advice but not good that following them himself.Edited by samin096 - 12 years ago

neha's a really good actress and doin a superb job as nivi...

Samin I know Nivi is under stress but more than that she is having guilt consious and she is not understanding that her decision is not right so some steps ha to be taken. She is thinking whatever she is doing is right and everyone will understand it later and she is not even listening to the family. Now NT dadi will have to come and give her peace of mind though It will take some time. 

 

Viren, DS and complete family tried politely to convince her but she is not getting anything. Viren loves her so much so he gave in to her demands but someone has to take strict action to bring her out of her guilt mode that is what Sid is doing. Today even DS was disappointed. I know she will soon come out of it and realize how big sin she was going to do in her guilt. 

 

Nadz Nivi doesn't want any chances of that if by chance she forgot to take pills then what so she is removing everything like Na rahega bans na bajegi bansuri.