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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 1:15am | IP Logged
Just a question, Do women like Amma exist in real life?

Is it possible that a woman can be so jealous, so much against her own daughter-in-law that she would do literally ANYTHING to get rid of her? I have heard of stories where the saas has burnt the bahu alive... So obviously some MILs are pretty cruel. Thankfully I have never seen any such thing. Have you ever heard of cases where the bahu is stuck with an Amma like saas?

Also, what is the cause behind it? Would it make a difference if Amma was an educated lady? Or does a persons nature remain the same, educated or uneducated? (Coz I've heard of even educated women behaving in the worst possible way with their bahus)

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Women like Amma or worse exist in real life too,yeah i also heard some cases where MIL burnt her DIL alive and education makes no difference to these types of women.I have seen some educated women who behaves or hates their DIL more.In real some MIL do more nautanki and conspiracy to get rid of their DIL maine khud dekha hain.But MKAP is a fiction so i want truth to win not evil intention of AMMA.

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It won't make a difference if a Saas is educated or not... its all depended on the mindset and character...for tht matter even some bahus r there who treats their saas in a very bad way and put unnecessary blames on them to get rid of them... So its not tht saas or bahu...its the humanity in ppl matters...and something called guilty conscious... Evil Smile

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hmm beta womens worse then amma are present in real life educated and not educated doesnot makes a difference once u r a saas a mil u came into new avatar totally different insecurity jealousy bacame part of ur personality u wont beleive how daughter in laws words are twisted Shockedits a different kind of political game dear very difficult to understand Confusedyes but in reality instead of giving bhashand u have to listen them Ouch

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 2:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by elle45

Just a question, Do women like Amma exist in real life?

Is it possible that a woman can be so jealous, so much against her own daughter-in-law that she would do literally ANYTHING to get rid of her? I have heard of stories where the saas has burnt the bahu alive... So obviously some MILs are pretty cruel. Thankfully I have never seen any such thing. Have you ever heard of cases where the bahu is stuck with an Amma like saas?

Also, what is the cause behind it? Would it make a difference if Amma was an educated lady? Or does a persons nature remain the same, educated or uneducated? (Coz I've heard of even educated women behaving in the worst possible way with their bahus)


Yes, Elle ..People like Amma and very much worse than Amma do exist ...

Very much Possible, here at least Amma has made her intention's clear and is overt in her behaviour but in many a real cases ..it will be emotional and psychological abuse  , added to that the girls family will be  brought into the pic , and share of abuse will be reserved for them too...its not just jealousy, it's also fear of losing the favoured position in Son's life , Loss of control over Son and a insecurity  that if a DIL is treated with loove, she may climb the ladder to rule the roost..hence keeping her down the pecking order ...Having said that , let us not say that all DIL's are fresh , innocent flowers ..sometimes they can be very cruel too..


Many a times, it is educated people who will  be worse offender's..

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 2:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by elle45

Just a question, Do women like Amma exist in real life?

Is it possible that a woman can be so jealous, so much against her own daughter-in-law that she would do literally ANYTHING to get rid of her? I have heard of stories where the saas has burnt the bahu alive... So obviously some MILs are pretty cruel. Thankfully I have never seen any such thing. Have you ever heard of cases where the bahu is stuck with an Amma like saas?

Also, what is the cause behind it? Would it make a difference if Amma was an educated lady? Or does a persons nature remain the same, educated or uneducated? (Coz I've heard of even educated women behaving in the worst possible way with their bahus)


Yes, Elle ..People like Amma and very much worse than Amma do exist ...

Very much Possible, here at least Amma has made her intention's clear Thank heaven for small mercies...the at least bit troubles me...and the intentions have only been made clear to P - to everyone else she has upped the game to actually show she has genuinely reformed! 

and is overt in her behaviour but in many a real cases ..it will be emotional and psychological abuse  , added to that the girls family will be  brought into the pic , and share of abuse will be reserved for them too... they have done already albeit in the past - the face blackening for example...

its not just jealousy, it's also fear of losing the favoured position in Son's life , Loss of control over Son and a insecurity  that if a DIL is treated with loove, she may climb the ladder to rule the roost..hence keeping her down the pecking order ...Having said that , let us not say that all DIL's are fresh , innocent flowers ..sometimes they can be very cruel too..Any rational person would rest assured that in a loving family, there is always room for more love to be given and taken. If its the Asian mentality we are talking about then its for the elders to open their arms and welcome the new member as much as it is the new member's duty to try and find a niche for themselves in their new family. No room for fear, unless what you care about most is appearances and what society thinks over and above what is best for your family. The fear isn't of losing favour - its nothing more and nothing less than fear of losing control.

Big up the cruel DILs!!!!!Evil Smile At least no one will try and kill, maim, burn or blacken their face in a rush!!!!

Do I feel sorry for the MILs in such cases - No! What do they say about God only givin you what you can handle????LOLThumbs Up So handle it girlfriend!!!


Many a times, it is educated people who will  be worse offender's..Again the red herring about education! Such behaviour has no connection with education whatsoever! It has everything to do with having a controlling insecure personality. and actually, the worst offenders are likely to be the ones that had the same issues themselves, much like being bullied early in life can turn you into bully later on...Maybe here is where education is relevant...having enough knowledge to know you have a choice as to how you act towards people and it need not be the same as how you yourself were treated.

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 3:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kEEnkEEn

Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by elle45

Just a question, Do women like Amma exist in real life?

Is it possible that a woman can be so jealous, so much against her own daughter-in-law that she would do literally ANYTHING to get rid of her? I have heard of stories where the saas has burnt the bahu alive... So obviously some MILs are pretty cruel. Thankfully I have never seen any such thing. Have you ever heard of cases where the bahu is stuck with an Amma like saas?

Also, what is the cause behind it? Would it make a difference if Amma was an educated lady? Or does a persons nature remain the same, educated or uneducated? (Coz I've heard of even educated women behaving in the worst possible way with their bahus)


Yes, Elle ..People like Amma and very much worse than Amma do exist ...

Very much Possible, here at least Amma has made her intention's clear Thank heaven for small mercies...the at least bit troubles me...and the intentions have only been made clear to P - to everyone else she has upped the game to actually show she has genuinely reformed!

Since here P is the empowered strong lead  [ and others are props ]  and as in the serials , it is the female lead who will find the solution, the lead shud be thankfulthat  the vamp has stated her intention, now whether the lead chooses to be a  Durga or Sita is in CV's hands...whereas in real life, the  DIL sometimes is simply unaware of all the undercurrents ..

and is overt in her behaviour but in many a real cases ..it will be emotional and psychological abuse  , added to that the girls family will be  brought into the pic , and share of abuse will be reserved for them too... they have done already albeit in the past - the face blackening for example...

in the past, which for some reason has been stopped, usually ..the cribbing has to get worse ..a  miscalculation ..face blackening is  a action which happened one time but verbal face blackening goes on interminably..

its not just jealousy, it's also fear of losing the favoured position in Son's life , Loss of control over Son and a insecurity  that if a DIL is treated with loove, she may climb the ladder to rule the roost..hence keeping her down the pecking order ...Having said that , let us not say that all DIL's are fresh , innocent flowers ..sometimes they can be very cruel too..Any rational person would rest assured that in a loving family, there is always room for more love to be given and taken. If its the Asian mentality we are talking about then its for the elders to open their arms and welcome the new member as much as it is the new member's duty to try and find a niche for themselves in their new family. No room for fear, unless what you care about most is appearances and what society thinks over and above what is best for your family. The fear isn't of losing favour - its nothing more and nothing less than fear of losing control.

Emotion's are not rational  !! ..and it is the general mentality the world over..it is present  everywhere... esp where the mother is a possessive sort or has only  one Son .. I think one has become indoctrinated to the scary stories , that  fear becomes the instinctive by-product..

Big up the cruel DILs!!!!!Evil Smile At least no one will try and kill, maim, burn or blacken their face in a rush!!!!

Do I feel sorry for the MILs in such cases - No! What do they say about God only givin you what you can handle????LOLThumbs Up So handle it girlfriend!!!


Many a times, it is educated people who will  be worse offender's..Again the red herring about education! Such behaviour has no connection with education whatsoever! It has everything to do with having a controlling insecure personality. and actually, the worst offenders are likely to be the ones that had the same issues themselves, much like being bullied early in life can turn you into bully later on...Maybe here is where education is relevant...having enough knowledge to know you have a choice as to how you act towards people and it need not be the same as how you yourself were treated.


No , but education aid the spoilt Apples to present a shiny surface while doing  their rotten deeds, added to that their moves  become pretty subtle...in comparison to the uneducated ..they are master dissemblers

Evil SmileWinkBig smile

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 3:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kriya2011

Women like Amma or worse exist in real life too,yeah i also heard some cases where MIL burnt her DIL alive and education makes no difference to these types of women.I have seen some educated women who behaves or hates their DIL more.In real some MIL do more nautanki and conspiracy to get rid of their DIL maine khud dekha hain.But MKAP is a fiction so i want truth to win not evil intention of AMMA.
 
LOL Even if MKAP would be real and not fiction, I would still want the truth to win. I don't think anyone will ever want anyone like Amma to succeed in her intentions. I say let Amma do as much as she can, she'll fall harder when the time comes, and I really want to enjoy that moment LOL

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