Posted: 25 May 2011 at 11:19pm | IP Logged
I cannot help feeling this sense of Deja Vu with this whole Nivi emotionally blackmailing the One she loves to fulfill her Vaada!!
She did the exact samething to Sid!! She confessed her love to him and she knew how much he loves her..she wore his locket ..to prove to herself..God knows wht??She created such helplessness in him that he finally succumbed to her wishes..He was not given a choice...It was a matter of life and death to Siddharth but she didinit budge..be it during the engage ment or the marriage day...We are only talking here about what Nivi thinks..Lets not end up bashing Siddharth becoz i was only comparing the similarities of the situation!!
And Now Viren ..She confessed that she loves. him..She knows how much he loves her and she again did the samething!! emotionally blackmailed him to get her Vaada fulfilled!! The way she cornered him yesterday into signing those papers was really very pathetic...For the first time i honestly felt very bad for Viren...
When Niveditha falls in love...She is one of the luckiest becoz she has done it twice and also got back love may be more than she deserves..Very lucky few will get that...She takes that love so much for granted...Not the person but that Love so much for granted..She has so much belief in her love that she can do any thing with it and that person will eventually agree...That is why she confidently takes drastic steps...
But This love which she has felt so far is definitely Not That Love a woman has for her Man...Love makes the person a bit posessive...a bit jealous...A bit selfish...This kind of love is not that selfless love which u feel for the entire humanity!!
I think Niveditha doesnt Know that love at all...Unfortunately Both the Sood brothers have felt that love for her which a Man feels For His Woman..So it is a bit Posessive...jealous and selfish also which should be the case...
She has fallen in love with these two Men Out of empathy or some other emotion...But i dont know whether a person in love can really make ur loved one suffer and go thru hell!!
For me that is not love at all...I thinK Siddharth is lucky enough to have got that Love from Divya..even for a short period of time...I think now he realises the worth of that unconditional love!!!
U can see that Divya had loved Siddharth Like how A wife should love her Huband..she would get Jealous at times posessiveat times..coz love does that Andt she gave him the most beautiful gift in form of Dwitha..I can see the contentment in Siddharths face .Coz he sees the living symbol of that love...maybe he has not loved Divya whole heartedly but Divya has!! And that makes all the difference...A woman should be able to give unabashedlly and without any reservation to her Man ..not with Conditions!!
Edited by kavianand - 25 May 2011 at 11:29pm