Pashu Jealous?

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scinerd

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 2:45pm | IP Logged

I have a theory. I think Pashu is jealous of Toasty. He has always had the control of the family until Toasty came. Then Prachin started talking back to him, on behalf of Toasty and her mom. he even ran away. Tej spoke against him. Gyan think Toasty is his mom. Maybe deep deep down inside he has a soft spot for toasty but overall he is jealous of her. That why he is so fixated on knowing who voted yes. Also the fact that she still has control in the house cause of the way she placed the stuff makes him angry. He wants his control back. What do you all think?

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nikkigreen

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 3:01pm | IP Logged

You could be right.

To quote Mr. Spock, "there are always possibilities". Big smile

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anotheranfan

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 3:07pm | IP Logged

i dont think so... pashu is hurt and those wounds are deep and all his actions, thoughts are biased because of those past experiences and pains that he and his family had to go through.

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nycsweetie

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 3:35pm | IP Logged

i dont think so

akash08

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 4:19pm | IP Logged

Well we must not forget how he tried to send Tej and Toasty to honeymoon. He loved Toasty.. He also has a soft corner for Malti.. He just hates her mother (rightly so.. who wont hate such mother in law who just can not stop interferring in her daughter's life.. typical Indian mom..I have seen so many of them)

Pashu is just a person whose trust to goodness of people is severely shattered by what happened to him and has converted him to a paranoid. He being from old scool of thought (like thinking bahus are for house works only) and not being prepared to update himself with time has made the situation worse.

So, in summary, a good person at heart but converted to a paranoid by some evil character(read Malti's mom and miserable mismatch with modern time - the result is such inhuman behaviour out of furstration..

I do not know what the CV would come up with but th truth is at this age - he can hardly change. I guess if one person has understood him properly.. it is Toasty herself..

Will we ever find such a larger than life character like Toasty in real life? May be never.. hats off to Toasty..

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Naina007

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 4:21pm | IP Logged

No, not jealous. He's too hurt to want happiness. And Toasty brought a lot of happiness. So his ego is making him believe Toasty is just like Malti so he doesn't endure the same thing again. All of this is his ego which he cannot control and as a result he's become like this.

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scinerd

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 5:05pm | IP Logged

hmm I get what you all are saying. I forgot about the honeymoon thing, I didn't watch a few episodes cause I had a huge exam to study for. But still i know he's hurt but I think deep down inside he is kinda scared of losing control. I can see what naina007 is saying and it's probably true, I use to think that too but when he could not understand Tej pain today, it made me think. Is it really more his pain or his ego. I'm sure it's both but this week it's been his ego more than anything. All of a sudden it wasn't okay if Tej felt like sad but it was okay if he did. The whole victim thing is getting annoying in my opinion. I know he is good at heart and he is in pain, but that doesn't give him the license to treat people like he has. Or even be mad at his brother for supporting his wife, instead of him. Everyone tries to support and understand him, when will he try to understand others. I think its time for Pashu to stop blaming others and try to change a bit himself.

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spingirl

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 5:24pm | IP Logged

Pashu is suffering from narcssistic personality disorder. And also some more mental disorders. His attitude is, if I am miserable, I'll make sure everybody around him is also miserable.

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