Posted: 22 May 2011 at 12:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by FLGators
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Maybe her intentions of saying "Mein maa hun, maa... " was for Akshara to realize that she was worried for her baby. But it certainly didn't look that way; the grabbing & the look she gave was more of "don't steal my baby" type...
Varsha wants selective help; in the early days she conveniently dumped the child on Rajsri saying Maa ko accha lagtha hai
Soon Rajsri became Ananya's maa & that is when Varsha didn't like it. Dadi & Shaurya noticed it too & picked on her but she in turn became upset w/Shaurya. Kids are parents responsibility, no questions on that one. You can take occasional help but that is where it should stop. Since it is a joint family, if you are a slacker others take over for you out of love & concern for the child. Objecting at that point is unreasonable
Like she wanted to go for a movie, nothing wrong with it but not when the baby was a few weeks old
If Varsha was nursing, the baby needs the mother
Yes, it can be frustrating changing diapers, feeding, changing, feeding combined w/no sleep... But it happens to everyone not just Varsha. There is an unexplainable bond; the baby starts crying when the mother is not around.
As a working mother, my child who was barely 3 months old would wait for me to return at exactly the same time every evening; nobody could calm the babies unrest .How would one explain that? It's nature, an unexplainable connection God bestowed on his creation. If Varsha thought Shaurya was wrong in rebuking her so is she for rebuking Akshara. It's not like Akshara never told her she kept trying till she got hold of her; she didn't blindly trust Bindiya in this case, smart girl used her brains for a change Best thing for Akshara to do is stay away from both Ananya & Varsha. When you have an adoring husband, what else do you want. Baby will come in no time...
Sarita, i agree with whatever u said and nigo also..(sorry dun know ur name)...i wanna say much but dun have time
Varsha said the last sentence with whatever intention, Akshara and all others will take it in a wrong way that Akshara is being taunted...here, Varsha is wrong .. i know why my baby is crying but nobody else can guess..chahe meri ma ho ya ma ki ma...varsha thinks that it's okay to leave ananya with rajshri bec. she's an experienced mom but not akshara ! this is very very wrong..i have 2 kids but even i can't look after anybody else's child ! i dun know ab isko kya chahiye , why is she crying...i can't look after my sister's daughter for 2 mins...aur kisi ki baat chodo ! Hence, Akshara must not take Varsha's words too seriously, AND don't feel guilty abt the whole thing..even those small small incidents like baby should not be in standing position etc. etc. therez no need to feel guilty that she doesn't know anything bec. she's not a mom...
we must also stop sympathizing with Akshara...i understand she is going through a tough phase of her life but she has to be strong..she never did anything intentionally, nor did Varsha..she didn't give a "baby stealer" look to akshara
she was genuinely disturbed...bhai, bache ka koi bhi kaam uski ma se pooch kar hi karo toh better hai.. i wud say it's not akshara's fault anywhere or varsha's like the promo said, mamta har ma ki kamzori hoti hai...she should have mind her words though since she knew akshara will be hurt..i'm sure she will apologize later...akshara needs to distance herself from ananya and get busy in some other activity...
@reguser, i loved ur post buddy
wanted to say this from a long long time when i read a few comments on rajshri's defence...motherhood is overrated in YR..too much..too irritating ! rajshri, from the time akshara has married, she's doing akshara jaap non stop ! what is this ? a woman has so many other responsibilities , her home, husband, kitchen, her son, DIL, now her grand daughter, but here , din raat, sukh dukh, bas akshara, akshara akshara ! too much interference w/o any reason...even yest. aur kahi dhyan nahi hai bas akshara akshara ! somewhere Varsha will also not like it...if not now then later, she will feel bad...on the top of it , rajshri doesn't let her spend time with her mom !!! abhi uski saheli ne aana hai , kabhi she is missing varsha and rajkumari..when will both mothers stop babying their kids? gayitri doesn't stop at anything either ! till the time they do it, their kids will never grow up and learn to face the difficulties of their life !