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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 10:52pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by pvlaks

Very  well  said  sarita...motherhood  is  not  a competition...its  not  a  race...vaise  we  should  always  think  twice  before  talking...i  unserstnd  that  varsha  was  very  angry   without   seeing  ananya...but  the  way she  expressed   her  anger  was  wrong...afterall  akshara  was  her  childhood  friend...akshi uski  bachi  ko  kidnap  karke  tho  nahi laayi  thi...

now akshara  should  learn  from  this  experience   that   ananya   is  not  her  permanent  solution    to  her  problem...she  should  move  on...why  cant  she  divert  her  full  attention  to  naitik...taking   care  of  naitik...spend  more  time  with  her  hubby...try  to  make   her  mnd   happy  with   him...he  is  doing  his  level  best  to  make  her  happy...so  why  cant  she  do  the  same  with  hm...why  she  is  always   running  behind  all  other  bakwas  things  except  naitik


i like this never thought of it...does the family not realise she got pregnant after the batwara..they should really send them somewhere for thier own time..

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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 10:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by madhaviben

Sarita  nice  post  loved  it  Thumbs Up. the  best  line  is  motherhood  is  not  a  race. lakin  ban  hi  gayi. and  words  can  be  so  harmful  some  time  Cry for  varsha  its  just  her  anger  and  what  ever she  said  is  true  that  she  is  ananaya  ki  ma  but  the  way  she  said  and  the  whom  she  said  is  does  metters. akshar  never  said  that  she  is  ma  of  ananya  or  that  she  wants  to  keep  her  and  dont  willing  to  give  back  to  varsha . but  now  akshara  lost  it  , a  friend   and  babhi  and  mayaka  all  in  one . now  naitik  will  not  let  her  go  . but  i  think  this  is  the  only way  she  will  know  the  real  world. i  some  time  think do  AKSAHR  exist  in  real  world? i  dont  think  anyone  is  that  bholi  or  i  should  say  dumb  like  her. she  didnt  get  it  from  the  begining  that  it  doesnt  matter  how  much  u  love  some  one  that  baby  is  not  your  .
it  happend  when  my  devrani  gave  birth  to  littel  boy . and  i  didnt  have  kids.   that  time  my  saas  told  her  that  when  se  go  to  india  will  make  some  gold  bengels  for  both  of   us  so  she  can  gift  us  when  we  gave  her  the  good  news. and when  she  didnt  gave  the  gold  bangels  to  my  devrain   she  got  upset  at  MIL  and  call  me  and  said  "  aapko  to  bacceh  ho  ya  na  bhi  ho  mai  kab  tak  intazar  karu  saas  ki  gift  ka  maine  to  beta  diya  hai  na? "  so  the  next  day  i  call  my  mil  and  told  her  to  gave her  the  bengals  while mere  liya  wait  karneki  jarurat  nahi  hai. she  ask  me  how  i  know  about  bangales  ? i  didnt  say  anything  . now  its  13  year  after  that  incident  but  some  time  i  remamber  this  line .
now  no  sorry  from  varsha  will  take  that  pain  from  akshara  and  now  akshara  will not  take  ananya  that  lovely  way  she  will  think  twise  before  she  do  anything  for  ananya  and  the  bad  part  about  all  this  is  varsha  is  not  just  akshi  ki friend  but  also  a  babhi  so  she  lost  her  both  the  ways.
Sarita  life moves  on  akshi will  soon  have  her  own  baby  Day Dreaming and  i  want  akshi  to  win  but  loved  that  naitik  was  there  . and  varsah  i  think  she  got  everything  in  life  . not  like  akshara  but  akshara  have  naitik  in  her  life  and  he  will  make  her  happy  soon. and  akshi  will  move  on  without  ananya   and  varsah s  help  Clap


Agree with you MB. Although in the privacy her room she kept referring to her as "meri Ananya", she never once claimed to be her mother. She kept saying "bua ke paas aayegi..." For Varsha, anger took the better of her which should never happen. If she reflects on this with a cool head, hopefully she will realize that she was wrong in grabbing the child from Akshara & then saying what she did. The look was enough, like she was a baby stealerOuch


Akshara had the best intentions but in her excitement overlooked her friends feelings but being the maate she is she will definetly apologize without expecting anything in returnBig smile As much as I dislike this nature of maate's, I think it is a very admirable quality; not everyone can be so selflessClap Akshara's Ananya mantra had to stop & so should the Varsha hotline...Dead Hur problem ke liye Varsha,Varsha...Angry Once you are married, your husband is your best friend & confidante. When she was newly married it was all good. But talking to Naithik about the pregnancy, did it have to go to Varsha first? Is Naithik so unapproachable?Confused


In your own case, I can totally relate to that too. There are people who can be vicious and totally materialistic. It almost makes me wonder; do we get to take it when the ultimate calling comes?Confused Naksh should really take a break from Udaipur & need to reflect on their future plans. At least Akshara needs to get out more often & become a normal person; make new friendsBig smile Payal kaha gayi?Shocked 

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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 11:01pm | IP Logged
i think bas bahut ho gaye ananya raag akshi should now maintain a distance 4rm her nd move on.

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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 11:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sdhg

i think bas bahut ho gaye ananya raag akshi should now maintain a distance 4rm her nd move on.

Aisa hoga kya? I am sure Varsha will realise her mistake and apologise to Aksh and will make up for what she said... Aksh will be overwhelmed and will start will her baby jaap again. CVs should stop this now...its getting too much. They are dragging it so much


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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 11:37pm | IP Logged
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Thank you for your feedbackSmile Maybe her intentions of saying "Mein maa hun, maa... " was for Akshara to realize that she was worried for her baby. But it certainly didn't look that way; the grabbing & the look she gave was more of "don't steal my baby" type...Confused

Varsha wants selective help; in the early days she conveniently dumped the child on Rajsri saying Maa ko accha lagtha haiConfused Soon Rajsri became Ananya's maa & that is when Varsha didn't like it. Dadi & Shaurya noticed it too & picked on her but she in turn became upset w/Shaurya. Kids are parents responsibility, no questions on that one. You can take occasional help but that is where it should stop. Since it is a joint family, if you are a slacker others take over for you out of love & concern for the child. Objecting at that point is unreasonableDead


Like she wanted to go for a movie, nothing wrong with it but not when the baby was a few weeks oldOuch If Varsha was nursing, the baby needs the motherConfused Yes, it can be frustrating changing diapers, feeding, changing, feeding combined w/no sleep... But it happens to everyone not just Varsha. There is an unexplainable bond; the baby starts crying when the mother is not around.

As a working mother, my child who was barely 3 months old would wait for me to return at exactly the same time every evening; nobody could calm the baby's unrest .How would one explain that? It's nature, an unexplainable connection God bestowed on his creation. If Varsha thought Shaurya was wrong in rebuking her so is she for rebuking Akshara. It's not like Akshara never told her she kept trying till she got hold of her; she didn't blindly trust Bindiya in this case, smart girl used her brains for a changeClap

Best thing for Akshara to do is stay away from both Ananya & Varsha. When you have an adoring husband, what else do you want? Baby will come in no time...LOL


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Thank you for your feedbackSmile Maybe her intentions of saying "Mein maa hun, maa... " was for Akshara to realize that she was worried for her baby. But it certainly didn't look that way; the grabbing & the look she gave was more of "don't steal my baby" type...Confused

Varsha wants selective help; in the early days she conveniently dumped the child on Rajsri saying Maa ko accha lagtha haiConfused Soon Rajsri became Ananya's maa & that is when Varsha didn't like it. Dadi & Shaurya noticed it too & picked on her but she in turn became upset w/Shaurya. Kids are parents responsibility, no questions on that one. You can take occasional help but that is where it should stop. Since it is a joint family, if you are a slacker others take over for you out of love & concern for the child. Objecting at that point is unreasonableDead


Like she wanted to go for a movie, nothing wrong with it but not when the baby was a few weeks oldOuch If Varsha was nursing, the baby needs the motherConfused Yes, it can be frustrating changing diapers, feeding, changing, feeding combined w/no sleep... But it happens to everyone not just Varsha. There is an unexplainable bond; the baby starts crying when the mother is not around.

As a working mother, my child who was barely 3 months old would wait for me to return at exactly the same time every evening; nobody could calm the babies unrest .How would one explain that? It's nature, an unexplainable connection God bestowed on his creation. If Varsha thought Shaurya was wrong in rebuking her so is she for rebuking Akshara. It's not like Akshara never told her she kept trying till she got hold of her; she didn't blindly trust Bindiya in this case, smart girl used her brains for a changeClap

Best thing for Akshara to do is stay away from both Ananya & Varsha. When you have an adoring husband, what else do you want. Baby will come in no time...LOL

Sarita, i agree with whatever u said and nigo also..(sorry dun know ur name)...i wanna say much but dun have time Ouch

Varsha said the last sentence with whatever intention, Akshara and all others will take it in a wrong way that Akshara is being taunted...here, Varsha is wrong .. i know why my baby is crying but nobody else can guess..chahe meri ma ho ya ma ki ma...varsha thinks that it's okay to leave ananya with rajshri bec. she's an experienced mom but not akshara ! this is very very wrong..i have 2 kids but even i can't look after anybody else's child ! i dun know ab isko kya chahiye , why is she crying...i can't look after my sister's daughter for 2 mins...aur kisi ki baat chodo ! Hence, Akshara must not take Varsha's words too seriously, AND don't feel guilty abt the whole thing..even those small small incidents like baby should not be in standing position etc. etc. therez no need to feel guilty that she doesn't know anything bec. she's not a mom...


we must also stop sympathizing with Akshara...i understand she is going through a tough phase of her life but she has to be strong..she never did anything intentionally, nor did Varsha..she didn't give a "baby stealer" look to akshara LOL she was genuinely disturbed...bhai, bache ka koi bhi kaam uski ma se pooch kar hi karo toh better hai.. i wud say it's not akshara's fault anywhere or varsha's like the promo said, mamta har ma ki kamzori hoti hai...she should have mind her words though since she knew akshara will be hurt..i'm sure she will apologize later...akshara needs to distance herself from ananya and get busy in some other activity...

@reguser, i loved ur post buddy Clap wanted to say this from a long long time when i read a few comments on rajshri's defence...motherhood is overrated in YR..too much..too irritating ! rajshri, from the time akshara has married, she's doing akshara jaap non stop  ! what is this ? a woman has so many other responsibilities , her home, husband, kitchen, her son, DIL, now her grand daughter, but here , din raat, sukh dukh, bas akshara, akshara akshara ! too much interference w/o any reason...even yest. aur kahi dhyan nahi hai bas akshara akshara ! somewhere Varsha will also not like it...if not now then later, she will feel bad...on the top of it , rajshri doesn't let her spend time with her mom !!! abhi uski saheli ne aana hai , kabhi she is missing varsha and rajkumari..when will both mothers stop babying their kids? gayitri doesn't stop at anything either ! till the time they do it, their kids will never grow up and learn to face the difficulties of their life ! 


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