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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 9:46pm | IP Logged
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In Akshara's defense, she did ask Varsha but Varsha brushed it off saying she could use it on some other occasion. I think maate was a little too self absorbed, genuinely happy & overlooked her friends feelings. I loved that the CV's are showing her as more of a human & less of a maate in this case. Yes, she can do mistakes but she apologized every time Varsha corrected her w/o showing any ill wellClap Varsha shouldn't have let it go this far, to a point where you do not have control over your emotionsShocked


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Lovely post Sarita. Varsha's anger was justified to a certain limit...her baby went missing and she had no clue about it. I think any mom would panic in her place. I could understand Varsha's irritation as well...me being a viewer was getting irritated with Aksh's constant "meri ananya...kitni pyali lag rahi hai"...Aksh being so oblivious to the happening was quite unrealistic. It was Ananya's first festival...if she was excited to get the little baby a new dress then wouldnt her mother be equally excited? If not more? "Tu bhi layi hai Varsha?"...what was that!

Varsha vented out her anger and irritation...she held her composure for a long time but she lost it when her baby went missing. The way she handled the situation was not good...she just snatched the baby from Aksh. The words she spoke are unacceptable...irrespective of the fact whether Aksh was preg, had a MC or not. 

I just hope Aksh learns from this...her solution to the problem is not Ananya...she needs to be strong from within. She can rely on her husband for support as he is also going through the same amount of pain.

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Lovely post Sarita. Varsha's anger was justified to a certain limit...her baby went missing and she had no clue about it. I think any mom would panic in her place. I could understand Varsha's irritation as well...me being a viewer was getting irritated with Aksh's constant "meri ananya...kitni pyali lag rahi hai"...Aksh being so oblivious to the happening was quite unrealistic. It was Ananya's first festival...if she was excited to get the little baby a new dress then wouldnt her mother be equally excited? If not more? "Tu bhi layi hai Varsha?"...what was that!

Varsha vented out her anger and irritation...she held her composure for a long time but she lost it when her baby went missing. The way she handled the situation was not good...she just snatched the baby from Aksh. The words she spoke are unacceptable...irrespective of the fact whether Aksh was preg, had a MC or not. 

I just hope Aksh learns from this...her solution to the problem is not Ananya...she needs to be strong from within. She can rely on her husband for support as he is also going through the same amount of pain.


I agree with you. No matter how close someone is to their mother, brother or friends. Once you get married and are truly in love with you husband. It is important to find companionship with each other. Especially in this situation i know everyone is concerned about her pain but the only person who truly gets it is natik. 

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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 10:07pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _naksh_

i absolutely love this post,its totally awesome
with the tension varsha acting up like this cuz she thinks akshara needs her child is one part and then the other part is our pyaari bindiya..uffh
poor akshara she has suffered a MC but that does not mean she cannot concieve,if any1 would tell them about something disgusting like this especially if that some1 was your best friend,believe me you would feel horrible...i felt really bad for akshara.Varsha should have never said mein maa hu maa...n hurting akshara no matter how angry she was,if she was irritated,then fine and that milk you had put in the bottle darling was bad,hence why akshara took her home darling,btw if u knew to take care of a child so nicely you wont ask your MIL for help...sometimes i feel that varsha has everyhting,got the one who she loved,a good family and sometimes i feel she takes advantage of it..like that scene when she was pregnant and Rajshri was telling her what to do and what not she blurtted out like how she did to rajshri and she felt bad..
now what i am thinking is that naitik will take akshara from there..n varsha,some1 will have to explain to her she was wrong in a way to act like that...then she will may be come to apologise..but i have a feeling...naitik wont want anymore confusion and tell akshara that leave varsha,she can get her own children...n this will cause some awkward moment,husbands never say(as i have seen from my sisters life n BIL) anything but inside they feel it..n sometime they would eventually blurt it out...n the wife will have to respect..
n yes true friendship is indeed difficult to find..what i am wondering is that will this thing cause a problem in the relationship..i mean friends do have arguments but not over their children!!!n around here is it akshara wrong orr varsha or both in their own ways???
ooo n i feel during all this tension attention seeker bindiya would find out about MC n do her ill-jealosuly reaction..who runs her mouth n blabbs about herself..

Bindiya ki baath muth karo baba...LOLI am waiting for it to build up tha ki like Varsha I will spit out all my venom...ROFL Trust me, it ain't gonna be prettyLOL The chat between Bindiya & Varsha was a very telling moment for me. Varsha was bragging about motherhood, rightfully so but something about their conversation didn't sit well with me. It made me wonder is this really about being a proud mother or has this become more of a raceOuch Maybe it was simply poor acting by Varsha & I read too much into it as usual...ROFL

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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 10:30pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by _naksh_

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.i felt really bad for akshara.Varsha should have never said mein maa hu maa...n hurting akshara no matter how angry she was,if she was irritated,then fine and that milk you had put in the bottle darling was bad,hence why akshara took her home darling,btw if u knew to take care of a child so nicely you wont ask your MIL for help...sometimes i feel that varsha has everyhting,got the one who she loved,a good family and sometimes i feel she takes advantage of it..like that scene when she was pregnant and Rajshri was telling her what to do and what not she blurtted out like how she did to rajshri and she felt bad..


I dont think the reason she said that was to tell akshara that she does not have a kid of her own. She said that to make akshara understand that of course she will be worried like that because she is the mother. There is nothing wrong with what she said. And also how long are people going to let everything go and treat akshara like a doll because of her MC. That does not happen real life. In reality you have to get on with your life, go to work meet you friends and stop being so fragile.

Also about varsha asking for help from her MIL. She is first time mother she needs help. Plus just because someone gets a baby sitter that does not automatically imply that they should let anyone do anything with their child just because they needed help. And even if she did say to akshara that she is not the mother, that is the truth. Akshara loves ananya but she is not HER MOTHER, and someone had to tell her that. And no mother out there will put their friend's well being or feelings before their kid. The whole day akshara hurt her feelings and did not once realize it. Varsha was hurt, frustrated and finally could not take it anymore. How would anyone feel if they heard their child crying but they cannot take the baby in their arms because someone took the baby away from you?
i agree akshara is not her mother and ppl should not treat her like a doll but she has feelings,there is a way to talk to someone esp is that person went thru something like a MC,if ananya is helping akshi then fine so,but akshara does not want to steal her away,varsha got the wrong thing...she was frustrated n stuff...also with the child these things r new for akshara she was only thinking good and trying to stop anu from crying so varsha didnt neet to react that way...so the same way this was new for varsha it is new for akshi(how would she know if the baby wanted to sleep or eat she was just trying)

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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 10:33pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by _naksh_

i absolutely love this post,its totally awesome
with the tension varsha acting up like this cuz she thinks akshara needs her child is one part and then the other part is our pyaari bindiya..uffh
poor akshara she has suffered a MC but that does not mean she cannot concieve,if any1 would tell them about something disgusting like this especially if that some1 was your best friend,believe me you would feel horrible...i felt really bad for akshara.Varsha should have never said mein maa hu maa...n hurting akshara no matter how angry she was,if she was irritated,then fine and that milk you had put in the bottle darling was bad,hence why akshara took her home darling,btw if u knew to take care of a child so nicely you wont ask your MIL for help...sometimes i feel that varsha has everyhting,got the one who she loved,a good family and sometimes i feel she takes advantage of it..like that scene when she was pregnant and Rajshri was telling her what to do and what not she blurtted out like how she did to rajshri and she felt bad..
now what i am thinking is that naitik will take akshara from there..n varsha,some1 will have to explain to her she was wrong in a way to act like that...then she will may be come to apologise..but i have a feeling...naitik wont want anymore confusion and tell akshara that leave varsha,she can get her own children...n this will cause some awkward moment,husbands never say(as i have seen from my sisters life n BIL) anything but inside they feel it..n sometime they would eventually blurt it out...n the wife will have to respect..
n yes true friendship is indeed difficult to find..what i am wondering is that will this thing cause a problem in the relationship..i mean friends do have arguments but not over their children!!!n around here is it akshara wrong orr varsha or both in their own ways???
ooo n i feel during all this tension attention seeker bindiya would find out about MC n do her ill-jealosuly reaction..who runs her mouth n blabbs about herself..

Bindiya ki baath muth karo baba...LOLI am waiting for it to build up tha ki like Varsha I will spit out all my venom...ROFL Trust me, it ain't gonna be prettyLOL The chat between Bindiya & Varsha was a very telling moment for me. Varsha was bragging about motherhood, rightfully so but something about their conversation didn't sit well with me. It made me wonder is this really about being a proud mother or has this become more of a raceOuch Maybe it was simply poor acting by Varsha & I read too much into it as usual...ROFL
yes i know,here in the caribbean some1 like bindiya we would calll malicious(meaning nosey and sticking aorund to hear some gossip)..she is too much,just bcz she got pregnant fast,she telling akshara to go n get a baby the family will want one..bugger head..

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Originally posted by _naksh_

Originally posted by nigo123

Originally posted by _naksh_

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.i felt really bad for akshara.Varsha should have never said mein maa hu maa...n hurting akshara no matter how angry she was,if she was irritated,then fine and that milk you had put in the bottle darling was bad,hence why akshara took her home darling,btw if u knew to take care of a child so nicely you wont ask your MIL for help...sometimes i feel that varsha has everyhting,got the one who she loved,a good family and sometimes i feel she takes advantage of it..like that scene when she was pregnant and Rajshri was telling her what to do and what not she blurtted out like how she did to rajshri and she felt bad..


I dont think the reason she said that was to tell akshara that she does not have a kid of her own. She said that to make akshara understand that of course she will be worried like that because she is the mother. There is nothing wrong with what she said. And also how long are people going to let everything go and treat akshara like a doll because of her MC. That does not happen real life. In reality you have to get on with your life, go to work meet you friends and stop being so fragile.

Also about varsha asking for help from her MIL. She is first time mother she needs help. Plus just because someone gets a baby sitter that does not automatically imply that they should let anyone do anything with their child just because they needed help. And even if she did say to akshara that she is not the mother, that is the truth. Akshara loves ananya but she is not HER MOTHER, and someone had to tell her that. And no mother out there will put their friend's well being or feelings before their kid. The whole day akshara hurt her feelings and did not once realize it. Varsha was hurt, frustrated and finally could not take it anymore. How would anyone feel if they heard their child crying but they cannot take the baby in their arms because someone took the baby away from you?
i agree akshara is not her mother and ppl should not treat her like a doll but she has feelings,there is a way to talk to someone esp is that person went thru something like a MC,if ananya is helping akshi then fine so,but akshara does not want to steal her away,varsha got the wrong thing...she was frustrated n stuff...also with the child these things r new for akshara she was only thinking good and trying to stop anu from crying so varsha didnt neet to react that way...so the same way this was new for varsha it is new for akshi(how would she know if the baby wanted to sleep or eat she was just trying)

I agree that varsha was harsh and i am sure if it was different circumstances she would not say anything like that. But akshara really over stepped her boundaries. I just watched the last part of the episode again and she takes the baby when they are on the stairs and then goes away to try bangles like does she not even have the sense that the baby might need her mother or the decency to take varsha's permission or tell her where she is taking the baby. She could see how the place was crowded upstairs. Akshara really had no right to take the baby away from varsha. If the baby was crying and she took her for walk thats different but getting bangles. I mean what if someone snatched the baby since it was so crowded or what if while trying bangles the baby got a cut. All the blame would go to akshara.

Whenever you have someone else's child be it your niece or a neighbours kid one should always follow up with the parents and take their permission before doing something. Because if anything happens the blame will go to you because it is not your child it is someone else's. I cannot blame varsha for yelling because in a place so crowded anything could happen to the kid so akshara should have just stayed close to varsha. Then if ananya had cried varsha could hear it and come and take the baby.
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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 10:50pm | IP Logged
Very  well  said  sarita...motherhood  is  not  a competition...its  not  a  race...vaise  we  should  always  think  twice  before  talking...i  unserstnd  that  varsha  was  very  angry   without   seeing  ananya...but  the  way she  expressed   her  anger  was  wrong...afterall  akshara  was  her  childhood  friend...akshi uski  bachi  ko  kidnap  karke  tho  nahi laayi  thi...

now akshara  should  learn  from  this  experience   that   ananya   is  not  her  permanent  solution    to  her  problem...she  should  move  on...why  cant  she  divert  her  full  attention  to  naitik...taking   care  of  naitik...spend  more  time  with  her  hubby...try  to  make   her  mnd   happy  with   him...he  is  doing  his  level  best  to  make  her  happy...so  why  cant  she  do  the  same  with  hm...why  she  is  always   running  behind  all  other  bakwas  things  except  naitik


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