Posted: 21 May 2011 at 10:43pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kavianand
The only condition that Nivi is being bashed up left right and centre here is that she wants to be a mother to a mother less baby...who has also incidentally lost the only precious thing a child could ever have...and that too in such a horrific manner!!
For any sane woman this trauma will takes ages to be overcome...Niveditha being such a loving and giving person is still in a trauma...Just put yourselves in her position once and U will know...
How can U expect her to go on as if everything is normal when such abig tragedy has occured,,
Remember she had sacrificed everything...her love ..her maika...her happiness everything for this girl who actully never really cared for her when she was alive..But Nivi doesnt think like that!For her her Divya DI was more than everyother relation ship...period!! she proved that!!! Now her only Solace is That DIvya Di has left her most precious part in the form of Dwitha...
HL and NIvi are goin thru the same emotions...the loss is great for them to bear...Nivi was ready to die just afew days back..remember???she lives now only for Dwitha!!!
And Viren KNows That ..Very welll..Then what is wrong with him???? how can he even be thinking of asking for a romantic Nivi and give Him all the wifely pleasure at a time like this??He even wants her to get pregnanat!!
Please let us analyse the situation like adults before bashing up Nivi this way...
Viren had not even thought of achild until CC put it in his head Isnt it??? How can he become so unreasonable at a time like this..
And taking the baby to the office and making this innocent baby as target to win the bet..all this is really too immature on the part of the CTs...can u imagine anyone doin such things especially a man who does not know ABC about babies..
One incident from Nivi and U want her to run off to Sids arms. and as if Sid is waiting there with open arms...Disgusting!!.Siddhath and Niveditha are two such people who can never ever behave or act immorally...U should never forget that!!.And u are all saying that is what Nivaarth fans want??? Honestly yaar U guys make me laugh...we would never want Nivaarth reunion at the cost of their character!! we would never be happy if Nivvarth happened at the cost of Nivedithas integrity and selfrespect or Siddharths Honour..Never..RS will never do it!!
What did Nivvi do yesterday...was it such abig crime...was it amuch bigger crime than what Viren put her through!! I agree Now viren is avery Good Guy but he was not always like this...Nivi always has been like this..And by the way she acted yesterday like how any mother would have reacted...
Nappy rashes can be really painful for the babies...My neice too suffered from it..So i know!
I am a Sid Putul fan But I really Do not want CCBM to turn Unethical or Immoral!! RS will never do it..Just wait and SEE ..He will come up with some good solution that will make all of us happy in the end!!
Here the biggest losers have been Siddharth and Us NivaArth fans...Inspite of that i cannot take it If Nivi gets abad name or her character is tainted...Its OK to get angry with her...Even we have got very angry with her before but Please do not make her sound like she deserves to get humiliated..please...she has not done anything like that...She is still her naive innocent self ...The Child like woman whom we all have come to love...She is same Nivi who is stubbron at times and will never hesitate to admit her mistakes...the same Nivi who has given u umpteen no of scenes with Ur fav hero and made u ecstatic...Why are u scandalising her like this...
Inspite of Our loss when we cant stop loving her...How can U hate Her...
@kavianand, again a very well written thoughtful post. I like a lot of what you've said and agree with a good bit of it. It could well be that Nivedita sharply scolded Viren in front of everyone not only because of concern for Dwita but also because she feels an apnapan with Viren - that he is hers now - and so was able to frankly state her displeasure irrespective of whether others were around or not. That was unlike her, though, she's not prone to doing things in public like this, but then she did yell at Yash and slap him in front of everyone when he ran away ages back. So if someone is really close to her, she perhaps is able to show them her anger in public, and not only her love. And on top of that she's stressed out and underslept and still grieving...but the CT's could have shown this better. They forced a stark contrast with the jovialness that everyone was feeling, including Viren and then in the precap followed it one on top of the other with the conversation about having a child and Nivi's sharp rejection. I agree that this is not the best time to bring up the issue of having their own baby, Viren could well have waited. After all it was he who took Dwita and put her in Nivi's lap, knowing that this is what would bring Nivi back and that is what happened and he is not unaware of her guilt either. So I fault the CTs for rushing through these tracks and not taking their time to develop the story and the events so that it is more believable. Instead they make it look like one or the other character is always compromised in some way.
I appreciate what you said about the moral unlikliness of a Nivi-Sid return, and i wanted to second that. I dont' know what they have in mind with the new entry (if its going to happen). But I don't believe Nivi and Viren will separate or that Sid and Nivi can come together now. It is far too late for that. Firstly Nivi and Viren love each other and have together weathered a lot of storms. DD's death is the latest one. and I believe it will blow over as well.
But assuming the worst, even if Viren and Nivi divorce, I don't think Sid-Nivi can happen. You had said very well in your earlier post that there is a distinction between Putul and Nivedita. Putul may well be Sid's always, but Nivedita is not putul; she was putul but is more than that now. Sid-Putul was a phase in both of their lives. They may well carry the essence of that phase in their hearts always, but that phase is long past now. They are no longer the same people. Too much has happened. Their experiences with Viren and Divya have changed them forever and going forward the legacy of their ties with Viren (assuming he leaves Nivi, which I don't see happening) and Divya will always be between them. Nivedita is not putul any longer. And post-Divya and Dwita, Sid today is not the same as before either. A flower that has bloomed cannot go back to being a bud again.
Moreover, given HL and Divya's past suspicions of Sid and Nivi's relationship, and Sid and Nivi's awareness of that and sincere denials I cannot conceive that either of them can ever do anything to validate those suspicions -- especially now. How could their conscience allow it? It would be the worst insult to Divya's memory, someone whom Nivi reveres, and whom Sid had accepted and come to love and had a child with.
So yes, this is a confusing and trying time in all their lives and more is still to come, and CC will have a field day, but I don't think Sid-Nivi can morally happen again. I hope I didn't offend anyone, that wasn't my intention. I just wanted to state my point of view.
Again, thanks for a very thoughtful and beautifully written post.