Posted: 20 May 2011 at 11:25am | IP Logged
Hello friends... sorry for being late.. had no mood today after reading the update.
I could not enjoy the light moments today because of the precap and also because of the mahool of our beloved forum.. I am very sad to see what this place has become - it hurts. But there is no control over certain things and I guess we have to do what we have to. Cannot let such environment have effect on me.
Yes, we had asked for such cute moments and CTs gave us. Thanks to them, this week they have listened to our requests - i really appreciate it but they have always given us hints of the dark times and storm and I feel that it is not going to be easy. It will be harder than the stalking incidents.
It was nice to see the whole Sood house sitting and enjoying the cute moments between Viren, Nivi and Dwita. Chachu and Dwita ne chachu ko jita hi diya and Nivi ne aakhir sabke saamne haar maan hi li. But did she even realize that uski haar mein hi uski jeet hai? kyonki agar pati jeeta hai to yani ki woh jeeti hai... Husband wife mein kab se "TU, tumhara, mein , mera" aa gaya??? yeh culture to Western culture hai jahan pe sab sirf apne baare mein sochte hain - individual...not both.. Shayad jamana badal raha hai aur shayad hum apne Indian culture mein yeh changes hote dekh rahe hain.. I am not in India and I am still stuck with those old times and that is what I am giving to my kids too.. par pata nahin India mein kya ho raha hai??
Sorry for being so pessimistic today - aakhir mein bhi insaan hun aur kabhi kabhi aise phase aata hai ki sab galat lagta hai...
But I have faith in the ethics of our favorite show CCBM. We will see what is morally and ethically right, what is logically and practically possible... SO let us keep faith on RSji and he will not separate husband-wife until and unless one of them wants to quit the show then he will surley have to make the changes to the story line.
Even if he wants to then I would request him to let Nivi stay alone... or bring another man for her.. She cannot go back to her ex who is her hubby's elder brother and stays in the same house.. Wouldn't it hurt to go to another room in the same house and stay and sleep with another man??? Mujhe to soch kar hi kuch hota hai..
Let me stop here nahin to mein pata nahin kya likh lungi.. which will not be right.
Also, you do not scold your husband or wife infront of whole family and that too when his family is standing right there..damn it... Nivi ko ho kya gaya hai??? Baby ki responsibility ka matlab yeh nahin to tum baki sab bhool jao... Yeh tumhari bachhi nahin hai... She is Siddharth and Divya baby, unke pyaar ki nishani hai.. not yours... Please elders you saw how she behaved today.. Can you take some action and save her from getting nuts...
Sabke bachhe hote hain par koi aise behave nahin karta.. How many moms here have yelled at their husband infront of all???? Yes do it but in the privacy of your room...Yesterday, Viren did not shout at her infront of all rather gave her an ishaara to come up..and there too in their room he was sad but never shouted...So why did she???
It seriously saddened me today.. Ab Nivi ke sanskar kahan gaye? How can she say that to her husband "mujhe pata tha ki tum kuch kaam theek se nahin karoge."' This shows that what she thinks about him... horrible..
Precap - I do not want to go there even..Atleast seems they sorted out today's rude behavior and Viren was OK.. But I will not focus on Nivi saying "i do not want kids" as precaps are not always right.. Like yesterday they showed Dwita crying a lot in the office but today they did not show anything of that sort..
So maybe Nivi is saying "not now..maybe jab Dwita thori bari ho jaye tab hum apne bachhe karenge."
Sorry girls one more time for being in a bad mood...have a good weekend.