i dont think it was hetals fault - Page 3

According to me when a girl is married she should try to adjust to her husband's family which hetal is not even trying.The first day of marriage and she doesnt feel like eating the food.One more thing is she is trying to compete with sweety who is pregnant.Every family i have seen the pregnant person will be treated with more care..

I have not heard any on take their brother for sonography. It is generally the husband or mother/mother-in-law or sister. No one takes their brother for this.

Originally posted by: bgayathri

I have not heard any on take their brother for sonography. It is generally the husband or mother/mother-in-law or sister. No one takes their brother for this.

Originally posted by: Sonjogl

According to me when a girl is married she should try to adjust to her husband's family which hetal is not even trying.The first day of marriage and she doesnt feel like eating the food.One more thing is she is trying to compete with sweety who is pregnant.Every family i have seen the pregnant person will be treated with more care..

Edited by April2007 - 12 years ago

What about Phui trying to find another girl for Anu...he is married and she is think of destroying his marriage?  If that's not coming between a couple I don't know what is. Mona has not done anything bad to any member of Gandhi family nor has she bad mouthed them.  She is loyal to both families and puts them first before herself. 

Hetal on other hand is childish jealous little twit.  She made such big deal of the earings and now movie.  She is not trying to fit in at all.

THANK YOU APRIL!!! Mona had it so bad, remember when Mona had to make her first meal, no one helped her.  Bharti, Baa and phui ganged up on Mona and treated her like she was of lower cast.  They constantly talked low of Mona family and the Punjabi culture.  Mona does not have picture of GuruNanak at Gandhi house.  Amrit let Hetal pray and have small murti at their house.  I can go on an on about the unjustice that Mona had to face.  And lets not forget how Bharti kicked Mona out of the house!
Edited by sac58375 - 12 years ago

It is annoying to live with so many people. It's like a girl is getting married into a family not to the boy. There's no freedom. The boys get to enjoy their holidays but the girl has to slog in the kitchen 24/7 adjusting to a new home. At least in this era, men and women should have the freedom to live the life their way. Adjustment should be from both sides. It should be between the couple. Taking permission from in-laws for everything is really sad. I don't want to be in Mona or Hetal's shoes. I don't think any girl today should be in their shoes. They should have the freedom to adjust, change along with their husband. Sick of people still treating women like this.

Originally posted by: sherma

i dont think it was hetal fault,sweety shuold give little privacy to karal,she knows her bro has just cum,she cld cum little later or gone wid sum1 else for sonography,if she can go for movie so why not hospital wid mona or any1 else,sweety is married herself she was given lectures to anu yesterday so y cant she follow it,

after marriage every couple needs space,gandhis had never come between anu-mona when they were newly married,or even now,havent seen hetal sejal cuming between them wen anu-mona are alone.i know sweety isnt doing anyting intentionally but its her mistake too,today i felt bad for hetal

Hey Sherma😛
Wow u r here as Dev Team of Ram Milaye Jori, Congrats
Has been watching this show for a couple of months n i thought of checking its forum. Pleasantly surprise to see here, at least someone i know.
Agree with u that though unintentional, Sweety is not giving the newly wed couple much privacy. It's kind of weird that she needs her bro to go to hospital. She cud take her sis Mona. But Hetal is beinf very childish n unreasonable n is not even trying to adjust in a family who is not at all mean but just different. Something she was already aware since she knows perfectly well where she was heading after falling in love with Karan.
When a girl marries n enters a new home, esp an extended family, she must come with a readiness to make compromises n adjustments (of course adjustments must come from the other side too n i find her MIL very decent n loving though Vimmy is really too much at times). Hetal got married in unusual way, agree she may not had enough time to prepare herself but at least try to take it easy instead of filling ur maykas' ears n all. Her banging the try in the kitchen was also very inappropriate for a newly married girl in her new home.
I see her tantrums throwing very childish n she needs to grow up before her couple of days marriage starts collapsing
Edited by omshreejaanu - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Hey Sherma😛
Wow u r here as Dev Team of Ram Milaye Jori, Congrats
Has been watching this show for a couple of months n i thought of checking its forum. Pleasantly surprise to see here, at least someone i know.
Agree with u that though unintentional, Sweety is not giving the newly wed couple much privacy. It's kind of weird that she needs her bro to go to hospital. She cud take her sis Mona. But Hetal is beinf very childish n unreasonable n is not even trying to adjust in a family who is not at all mean but just different. Something she was already aware since she knows perfectly well where she was heading after falling in love with Karan.
When a girl marries n enters a new home, esp an extended family, she must come with a readiness to make compromises n adjustments (of course adjustments must come from the other side too n i find her MIL very decent n loving though Vimmy is really too much at times). Hetal got married in unusual way, agree she may not had enough time to prepare herself but at least try to take it easy instead of filling ur maykas' ears n all. Her banging the try in the kitchen was also very inappropriate for a newly married girl in her new home.
I see her tantrums throwing very childish n she needs to grow up before her couple of days marriage starts collapsing

hey thanks so much,so happy to see u here,i just love this show,i agree hetal is being too kiddish and throwing tantrums around,but she is the same from the start,nthing chnged so cant understnd how shld her behaviour change after marriage,

Originally posted by: sherma

hey thanks so much,so happy to see u here,i just love this show,i agree hetal is being too kiddish and throwing tantrums around,but she is the same from the start,nthing chnged so cant understnd how shld her behaviour change after marriage,