Hi my fellow saathiya forum members,
Before now I was in the category of Gopi will be educated after Aham accepts her, he should be the one to teach her, even one of my OS's points to this way of thinking but the more I watch the show the more I see Rashi exploiting her and treating her like a fool, I think gosh always she gets told off, or is made to cry, she's practically unloveable, why must Aham come there and be her master and protector, marriage is supposed to be an equal partnership and she'll always be a mouse, the way she is now she needs a watchdog constantly, she is unable to fend for herself, what husband has the time to constantly fight the wife's battles, he can to certain extent but you have to pick up the sword for yourself too. Even the the way Kokila speaks to her it's like she's talking to a kid, the tone of voice is completely patronising (today's episode).
So my question here is, were for Gopi to think Rashi behn knows so much she is really confident to speak without hesitating, she also knows so much about the world I would like to be like that and AhamJi wants an educated wife, he forever calls me an unpad and no matter about the make-up I wear I will still be that unpad (that's what he told her when she pricked him with her nail and he dropped the tea cup), let me ask Maji to get educated, as I don't want to stay this way, and Gopi attended literacy and numeracy classes for adults, have a circle of friends to chat with about various subjects and got street smart. Would it be acceptable for Aham to like her then?
As the reason I'm hating Saathiya as the moment is because Rashi has blindfolded the lot of them and Gopi is being led around by her nose to her downfall. This all could be fixed were she to be less trusting and question what is in it for them (I know Rashi behn loves herself a lot she would never do this for me without getting something in return). Hence were she to be street smart and educated does she deserve the prize then?
Now please vote.
Edited by Nafisa_blossoms - 18 May 2011 at 1:30pm