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Posted: 19 May 2011 at 7:34am | IP Logged

PLEASE READ THE QUESTION CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING. A SIMPLE YES AND NO SHOULD BE SUFFICIENT. THIS POST IS NOT A BATTLE GROUND.


So far I have 47 posts and no one has given me a single yes no answer. It makes me wonder Why? Read what I have asked in the question before jumping with answers.  I would have to say for the majority of the posts actually "YOU HAD NORMAL VISION IN YOUR EYES BUT YOU DID NOT SEE"


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Posted: 19 May 2011 at 7:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by samin096

I have a question for Sid Nivi Fans ...The males--You  think it is very much OK to send your wife to their old love even though you love them. And to females will you go and think it as OK the very first time a problems arises.



PLEASE READ THE QUESTION CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING. A SIMPLE YES AND NO SHOULD BE SUFFICIENT. THIS POST IS NOT A BATTLE GROUND.


So far I have 47 posts and no one has given me a single yes no answer. It makes me wonder Why? Read what I have asked in the question before jumping with answers.  I would have to say for the majority of the posts actually "YOU HAD NORMAL VISION IN YOUR EYES BUT YOU DID NOT SEE"



We can post a question but can't force people to answer.

 Marriage is forever. The past is the past...And should not interfere with the present.
Its then called adultery. In short its a NO to both your queries.




Edited by KripaRajput - 19 May 2011 at 7:44am

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Posted: 19 May 2011 at 8:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by KripaRajput

Originally posted by samin096

I have a question for Sid Nivi Fans ...The males--You  think it is very much OK to send your wife to their old love even though you love them. And to females will you go and think it as OK the very first time a problems arises.



PLEASE READ THE QUESTION CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING. A SIMPLE YES AND NO SHOULD BE SUFFICIENT. THIS POST IS NOT A BATTLE GROUND.


So far I have 47 posts and no one has given me a single yes no answer. It makes me wonder Why? Read what I have asked in the question before jumping with answers.  I would have to say for the majority of the posts actually "YOU HAD NORMAL VISION IN YOUR EYES BUT YOU DID NOT SEE"



We can post a question but can't force people to answer.

 Marriage is forever. The past is the past...And should not interfere with the present.
Its then called adultery. In short its a NO to both your queries.


 
Madhu my dear.. So happy to see you here and posting...Smile
I agree with you, we cannot force people to answer according to your wish.
Past is past, it cannot be rewound.. Nivi cannot go back to Sid. My answer is NO. Marriage is an institution that cannot be broken once both the partners accept each other whole-heartedly and in this both the parties have.

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Posted: 19 May 2011 at 8:29am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by zarmeeno

Originally posted by kavianand

Originally posted by shanil_p

instead of asking Sid-Putul fans these question u better ask CVs these questions.

1.  when Viren married his brother's lover forcefully, it was fine. ( So u ppl will do that?)

2.  Viren tried to kill his wife, it is justifiable. (So u ppl will do this too.)

I'm proud to say that i'm a Sid-Putul fan. really didn't ever like all these ridiculous twists and turns and that's my problem and i asked questions to CVs only and not to so called Nivrens.

i have stopped watching this show ever since Nivren marriage. now i really don't care who marries whom or who dies, who not... and i really don't care who sacrifices whom.. really CCBM is the most ridiculous show i have ever seen.  Actually girl Nivedita does not deserve Siddharth. he is really a great character in this show.

so better ask CVs these questions...


Very good answer..thank you...There are lot of things which happened in the beginning..almost close to incest...If It can be put that way...Should the women of today Go for Midnite dates and Take pheres with one and then marry the brother...These things dont happen in reality...atleast girls from good background will not do such things...so dont ask us these questions...Will any younger brother do this knowing his elder brothers love life...will any younger brother out of jealosy do such heinous things...In reality such things dont happen,,,its a fiction...
Now from the very beginning It was very clearly said that the story was about Sid and Nivi...many promos were made...many songs were made for them...All this was done with the script in mind ..that they will reunite them in the end...They did not even give aproper closure...becoz of this..
I know Right now Nivi looks like she loves Viren coz she feels she should and Viceversa so that is wht the storyline wants us to believe...Only when u truly love ..U can undersatnd and sacrifice...I knew that Viren will fall irrevocably in love with Nivi..Only then will he realise where her true happiness lies...But please remember Nivis heart has been a big secret,...no one has never known wht desires she has hidden in it!! 
 
U should also remember that They have always shown and maintained that Sid could never love Divya the way a husband should have..having a kid does not prove any thing...Many loveless couples have kids and then marriage breaks apart...so there again Sid is never shown to be happy...there must be a reason for it...
 
The adhoore pheres and the locket...Her accusation of sid being the stalker...Virens revelation... her marital problems...Etc nothing has stopped Nivi from thinking that Sid is her best friend...so many things have happened But Nivi is laways shown to directly or indirectly involved with Sid and his problems .Be it Divya Or their unborn child and Now Dwitha...
 
This shows that whatever the show had spoken about in the beginning they are showing that only...Divya s death has proved that now...
 
For us Nivaarth fans the only marriage that has taken place in CCBM is the Sid and NIVi one...so we dont really feel the other marriages will last...
 
It is our perspective of seeing the story...It doesnt mean that Tomorrow Nivi will leave Viren and Jump into Sids arms...that would be disgusting!!
 
Lots of things will have to happen even before Sid and Nivi will even think of each other in that way...
 
There is nothing wrong in speculating things based on the storyline which was promised to us...If it happens great..Otherwise Also i would always Feel that Siddharths character was never dealt with fairly...and it is just unfortunate!!
 
It has been a painful journey For us Nivaarth fans To see Nivi and Sid in others arms,,It has been a torture actually!! MAy be u are unaware of the fact that there are lots of Nivaarth fans who dont really Visit the Forum,,Becoz they are Bullied...But that doesnt mean they dont exist...
 
Dont talk about TRPs and Cheapen NIvren..If Nivren has appealed to so many then there must be something really good about it ...so do not commercialise it with the name of TRPs...which most of them are doin and by the way this particular point is not for the topic maker but in general  for those who judge CCBM by TRPs...
 
 
 
 
Sorry I pressed like button by mistake.
 
Wow having kid does not mean anything for u? Simply wow. Having kid in a marriage is a huge thing sweetie. Go and ask somebody who is married. U just dont go and conssumate ur marriage with somebody if u dont love that person. And even S. did do it without love. What about Nivi. She consummated her marriage with love for Viren.
 Wow! Apparently you are married. I never met an Indian woman who married and talk to young girls like this way. You always have problem with Siddharth. I have been reading your post since you came to this forum. Many people corrected you many times still you purposely instigate others. Respect is something that you earn not someone give it you in a silver platter! See you are not watching this show either Siddharth consummated Divya without love. She came to know the truth about Sid and Nivi just before she died. Sid was not faithfull to her either. When there is no trust there is no love. He said to his mom last week I promised to you that I will do my best but I failed you. What does that mean? He even told Viren recently (I do not remember exact words) you don't find a nice girl like this one anywhere.  You can't force some to love you. Love is hard to find, easy to lose and difficult to forget! I hope you don't force your children in to consummation when they are not in love. You are really making me mad. I am sorry I may not agree with every ones post but I respect them.Smile
Sid's name is Siddharth Sood!Smile
Yes I'm married and that's y I know the meaning and importance of marriage. Pls I have never instigated anybody and if for u discussing or not agreeing with a certain post is instigating so everybody here is instigating. So pls .Nobody forced S. to conssumate his marriage with DD and Nivi definitely consumated her marriage out of love. Yes Viren was a stalker but what has S. done ever for Nivi. He has never been able to stand up for her. As i have repeatdly said that he only went out to find truth when he was being blamed. Otherwise he was just standing there watching her get insulted and by the way was ready to take her to Psychiatrist. And he was suppose to be the best friend of Nivi and knew her inside out. I guess that's y he never believed Nivi. That's y he disrespected her family and let Jawahar pushed her dad. 

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Agree with you Zarmeen.. Nobody here has forced anybody.. To have a baby is a personal choice between husband and wife.. and in this case it was not forceful.. Divya waited for Siddharth as he asked for time.. She gave him time.. and when they both were ready they consummated.. this shows that yes even Siddharth accepted her and gave her love.

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Posted: 19 May 2011 at 8:40am | IP Logged

Originally posted by KripaRajput

[QUOTE=samin096]I have a question for Sid Nivi Fans ...The males--You  think it is very much OK to send your wife to their old love even though you love them. And to females will you go and think it as OK the very first time a problems arises.



PLEASE READ THE QUESTION CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING. A SIMPLE YES AND NO SHOULD BE SUFFICIENT. THIS POST IS NOT A BATTLE GROUND.


So far I have 47 posts and no one has given me a single yes no answer. It makes me wonder Why? Read what I have asked in the question before jumping with answers.  I would have to say for the majority of the posts actually "YOU HAD NORMAL VISION IN YOUR EYES BUT YOU DID NOT SEE"



We can post a question but can't force people to answer.

 Marriage is forever. The past is the past...And should not interfere with the present.
Its then called adultery. In short its a NO to both your queries.


[/QUOT

Hello. I did not force anyone to answer my question. But I went through the posts and saw those responding to something I did not even ask. In any case I liked your answer
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Posted: 19 May 2011 at 9:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by samin096


PLEASE READ THE QUESTION CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING. A SIMPLE YES AND NO SHOULD BE SUFFICIENT. THIS POST IS NOT A BATTLE GROUND.


So far I have 47 posts and no one has given me a single yes no answer. It makes me wonder Why? Read what I have asked in the question before jumping with answers.  I would have to say for the majority of the posts actually "YOU HAD NORMAL VISION IN YOUR EYES BUT YOU DID NOT SEE"


Do you know any man like that in India? If you do I am so happy for him because if she still in loves with him...free her.Cry Life is only one time in this world.

 Females think as OK what problems? I am confused with your questions...little here?

 

It takes two to make a good marriage. A lot of people seem to fail to grasp that marriage is a partnership these days. It involves forming a team which means working together towards common goals and objectives. It is true, each person has their own unique duties and responsibilities but to make such a partnership work, it is necessary for both give and take, for compromise, which some people have the ability to accept and adapt to, while others can't. I personally know many Indian girls and boys divorce and re-married. If love doesn't last forever, what's forever for? Yes, marriage can last forever. Marriage is not always easy and that's a promise. It takes commitment. It requires give and take. It involves forgiveness and forgetting. It demands a lot of patience. I also know some Indian girls who have been married a long time are only there because they are too comfortable in their miserable life. Some stay for the children, some are truly happy. I just fired someone from work last night! Too many problems don't know how to stand up and say NO to him!

 
Now this has nothing to do with this little story. Sid and Nivi separated because of their familyCry. They manipulated and forced in to this mess. No one, not even the parents, have a right to force marriage upon any man or woman. Without the free consent of the woman and the man a marriage contract would be deemed void.Stern Smile In some societies women have very little power or influence and their rights are not always respected, so it can be very difficult for them to resist family pressure to marry a particular person or behave in a particular way. This is what happened to Nivi and Sid. This is the reason we are questioning Nivi and Viren's relationship. Viren, CC, HL and YD should punish for their wrong doing. That's what you call justice!Wink

 

I am not saying Nivi should divorce Viren and run after Siddharth. I don't know if Siddharth like this new Niveditha any more'.he love his PUTUL with all his heart and soul. She broke her in to pieces and berried. She has a new version (2011)LOL of putul in her hand now. We'll see what this new baby can do?

You are forcing people to answer to your questions... my dear!Smile

 



Edited by radhart - 19 May 2011 at 11:12am

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Posted: 19 May 2011 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by radhart

[QUOTE=samin096]
PLEASE READ THE QUESTION CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING. A SIMPLE YES AND NO SHOULD BE SUFFICIENT. THIS POST IS NOT A BATTLE GROUND.


So far I have 47 posts and no one has given me a single yes no answer. It makes me wonder Why? Read what I have asked in the question before jumping with answers.  I would have to say for the majority of the posts actually "YOU HAD NORMAL VISION IN YOUR EYES BUT YOU DID NOT SEE"


Do you know any man like that in India? If you do I am so happy for him because if she still in loves with him...free her.Cry Life is only one time in this world.

 Females think as OK with their husbands thinking that way what problems? I am confused with your questions...little here?

 

The question here did not include if the girl loves still the man.  The question was when the girl moved on and now and was in love with her husband. In that case, if the husband does it is it OK.? And is this action acceptable to the wife.
 Also there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. Nivedita loved Siddharth but she is in love with Viren.


Edited by samin096 - 19 May 2011 at 10:03am

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