Posted: 17 May 2011 at 6:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Cutie-NivRenI actually agree with you Minu. I love the Viren before stalking revealiation as that Viren was more selfless, more determined to get what he wants, more patient while dealing with Nivi, He knew Nivi more than this Viren, He had no great expectations from Nivi. That was multitasker Viren. Yaar in hatred he was more understanding and insightful regarding all the character that we were planning to give him CID job.
But CT's showed her behaviour towards Viren is same even when she returned back whole heartedely with Viren after understanding that he has changed and how much he loves her. She still continue to give importance to other more than him, be it Yash thing, office, DD issues and now dwita. She put each and everything above Viren. In the end she needs a wake up call to know yes Viren too needs me. But I hate the most when somehow CT's involved Sid in between husband wife insecurity matter. Firstly they shouldn't have started the track but if they did then it should be between NivRen to solve the matter without intervention of Sid atleast.
Rachu, I agree with what you say here, especially the first paragraph - you've hit the nail on the head. That Viren was really so mature, so able to listen, understand, be eternally patient, selfless and so loving. I still can't get over the amazing way he told Nivi after he came back from Delhi right after their marriage and saved her from his mom...that you have to look at yourself through my eyes to see the beauty that I see -- duniya ki sabse khoobsurat ladki tumhare saamne kucch nahi hai. and how he told her that the family that could produce someone like her could never be 'lowly.' Wasn't that amazingly mature, and heartfelt? And the awesome wedding confrontation statements of his, and many epis later when he tells Nivi that its not about fighting with my family, its about right and wrong. If they are wrong, I am not with them...So that is why I could not buy that he was the actual stalker. So you're right, from that Viren to this one is a real leap. Even last week he was so mature and understand and totally got what it is that will get through to Nivi - Dwita. No one else thinks of it, he does. So why show him so shaky about it now...it doesn't ring true.
I also see what zarmeen and you say about how CT's have shown Nivi to be more ziddi than samajhdar. And about the 3rd party communication. As I've said before I think the CT's keep dragging the Sid Nivi angle because they think that will keep the viewers guessing and will be good for the show! Wierd thinking. They could well have shown Sid and Nivi's relationship changing as they both moved forward...
So I hope they allow Nivi and Viren to resolve this current dilemma by themselves. They could get a nudge from DS who sends Nivi with Viren, but then they should talk and hash it out.