Yesterday I came across a quotation from someone that it is not necessary that people are born as soulmates, people can become soulmates as one progresses in life and gets to know the other person. The example given was of a marriage, where the couple initially do not know other that much but as the marriage progresses they become soulmates. That made me wonder because I always thought that soulmates are born and are not something that slowly develops after marriage. One soulmate usually senses the other but due to personal ego or some other factors might not be able to accept the other as soulmate and then slowly over time the relationship builds up.
So that made me wonder who is a soulmate? I have taken liberal help from the internet to see if I can find some answers. (Well you all know how important it is for Misti to find answers...😳..) ...and have tried to find a relation to Dev and Radhika...
Recognising Soulmate
"By taking risks," "By risking failure, disappointment, disillusion, but never ceasing in your search for Love. As long as you keep looking, you will triumph in the end." - Paul Coelho, Brazilian author, lyricist, director.
Radhika is doing this, hopefully Dev will also join her...the path might not be covered with rose petals, the path might have thorns, the path might also lead to some discovery that either did not want to encounter...
Does a soulmate force one to come out of ones comfort zone?
People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. - Elizabeth Gilbert, journalist and author of Eat, Pray Love
Radhika is unknowingly doing this to Dev...and hence Devs strong reaction.
Is the soulmate the perfect person who will cure everything?
In any soul mate relationship, you will need to let go of the illusion that there is a perfect person waiting for you who will fulfill your every expectation and give your personality everything it desires once you are together. Do not expect your ideal soul mate to be someone who is always loving and easy to get along with, who agrees with everything you say or do, and who brings you a life of ease and comfort. - Sanaya Roman, Soul Love: Awakening Your Heart Centers.
Both Radhika and Dev are looking for the person who will make everything ok...for Radhika it is her KK and for Dev it is his dreamgirl who he has decided to forget and sacrifice...and Dev is not thinking about Radhika the person and Radhika is not thinking about Dev the person. Well Dev might have started to get some inkling into what makes Radhika tick.
Helps to bring out the real person who is hiding his or her true self.
A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we're pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we're safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. - Richard Bach, author ofJonathan Livingston Seagull .
Hopefully this is where the relationship is progressing too...
So these are the thoughts of some other people whose definitions of a soulmate is close to what I feel is what a soulmate should be...not someone who forgives everything that one has done but someone who make one to rise above oneself, accept ones mistakes, face challenges and as a result become someone who is at peace with oneself and be a better human being.
This is just my POV that I wanted to share...If one has any other views that are either similar or contradicting please do share.
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