I think the whole jay-issue is 2 overdramatic. Jay had to stop in the middle of his performence because the wrong cd was playing, which was not his fault. Even though the judges say that he could had said that after the performence, i do not believe he was going to get good marks, and maybe then the judges would say that he should have stopped, when he realized that the wrong cd was playing.
Also i dislike specially geeta's behaviour because she can't understand where jay is comming from. He feels a big responsibility to the whole team, since his marks r going to decide wheather they win this week or not. And besides i think he was right about getting lower marks! He deserved a 9, 9, 9. but the judges would not give him that, i'm sure. The judges in such indian shows often think that they r the reason behind the succes of the contestens and therefore the contestens r not allowed to say anything against them. They call it disrespect. Jay was wrong because he should care about his team, but maybe that was what he was doing, when he said he will leave the show. But geeta calling it disrespect and even after he is crying and on his knees apologising, she just not wants to forgive! In american shows the judges never feel themselves better than the contestens and they do understand such breakdown!