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NiVren - coping with demands of being new parents (Page 3)

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 10:56am | IP Logged

OMG! Guys you are completely forgetting the father of this baby!LOL All the mothers out their, who is better to raise your children if you die today….your hubby or your aunt and uncle? Preeti (beautiful name) should be raise by Siddharth! Nivi and Viren need to stay away from Sidharth life now on. They both did enough damage to Siddhath. Losing a mother can be very traumatic for a child and such a child has to be brought up with lot of love and care. It is very important for a child to have the influence of both a man and the woman in their growing up years. Raising a child without a mother can be quite a difficult task and it needs patience, sensitivity and sacrifice on the part of the father. Preeti has not completely isolated herself from the family. Sid has a mother she can help Sid to raise Preeti along with HL. Children should be raise by their parents not aunt and uncle off course they are part of their life.

I can think no one else better than Nivi raising her but as long as she married to Viren she needs to stay away from this little one. It will be beautiful to see Nivi and Siddharth raising this little one up than Nivi and Viren.  Nivi was raised with out a mother so she will value this baby as her own. Siddharth also lost his father therefore they both have better understanding and both can brought her up with lot of love and care. This will also put a smile on Divay's face. Nivi and Viren only gong to put strain on their marriage and Nivi will be back to score one again.

P.S: CC basically destroyed Nivi, Divya, and Sid's happiness….I hate to see Preeti is part of CC's life! Sorry for the mistakes I am on my…

 

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 11:01am | IP Logged
Originally posted by radhart

OMG! Guys you are completely forgetting the father of this baby!LOL All the mothers out their, who is better to raise your children if you die today'.your hubby or your aunt and uncle? Preeti (beautiful name) should be raise by Siddharth! Nivi and Viren need to stay away from Sidharth life now on. They both did enough damage to Siddhath. Losing a mother can be very traumatic for a child and such a child has to be brought up with lot of love and care. It is very important for a child to have the influence of both a man and the woman in their growing up years. Raising a child without a mother can be quite a difficult task and it needs patience, sensitivity and sacrifice on the part of the father. Preeti has not completely isolated herself from the family. Sid has a mother she can help Sid to raise Preeti along with HL. Children should be raise by their parents not aunt and uncle off course they are part of their life.

I can think no one else better than Nivi raising her but as long as she married to Viren she needs to stay away from this little one. It will be beautiful to see Nivi and Siddharth raising this little one up than Nivi and Viren.  Nivi was raised with out a mother so she will value this baby as her own. Siddharth also lost his father therefore they both have better understanding and both can brought her up with lot of love and care. This will also put a smile on Divay's face. Nivi and Viren only gong to put strain on their marriage and Nivi will be back to score one again.

P.S: CC basically destroyed Nivi, Divya, and Sid's happiness'.I hate to see Preeti is part of CC's life! Sorry for the mistakes I am on my'

 

 
Yes Siddharth needs to raise the baby as she is his.. But seeing his condition right now who is the other person wo can bring the baby up - Nivi (Maasi)... She has taken responsibility .. VD could have said that she will bring the baby up but she did not.. It is whole family who will have to take care of her. Raising Sid's baby does not mean that Nivi has to leave her husband... come on.. be practical.. Nivi's marriage to Viren does not mean that she is not baby's maasi anymore? That relation still remains and she will always be like a mother to this baby in the absence of Divya.. Why have you not see uncles and aunts raising a baby if father says YES to it..

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 11:06am | IP Logged
Wonderful post anju di...loved everything u said abt nivren...
how wonderfully u expalained abt a husband-wife relation..."Being a life partner does not mean that you will be there only when times are good and life is like roses. Instead it means that you will be there in times of sadness, pain and when life is not good. That is what a true life partner will do."...loved it...thank u so much for such wonderful posts and it's helping to see my life in a new manner...as a student i always believed in enjoying life...never though abt a life after marriage...and these post really giving some light in my life..thank u so much..!!

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 11:14am | IP Logged
Did Siddhath say Nivi and Viren can have his baby or Nivi is doing all this as usual? I have not  seen the Epi...nothing wong with Maasy's taking careof their nephew's and niece's but the father is there and he has a mother and ML and grand parents there is no need for a newly wed couples to take full reponsibilty of that baby. They can give the baby love not taking over!
 
 

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 11:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by radhart

Did Siddhath say Nivi and Viren can have his baby or Nivi is doing all this as usual? I have not seen the Epi...nothing wong with Maasy's taking careof their nephew's and niece's but the father is there and he has a mother and ML and grand parents there is no need for a newly wedcouples to take full reponsibilty of that baby. They can give the baby love not taking over!


I somewhat agree but not fully. Here the reason why nivi wants to take the babys responsibility because she feels that she is reason for making the new baby motherless. Won't a normal person react the same way? I too felt at first that Nivi should not take up the full responsibility but after reading Anjus post i have a different perception now. I think we should give this track sometime and see how the story shapes up.

Anju- I hope the cts read your post for getting ideas of how to further develop the story :)

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 11:28am | IP Logged
je vous l'ai dejas dis ANJU j'aime bien lire vos postes car vous avez une tres bonne analyse a chaque episode
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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 11:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by radhart

Did Siddhath say Nivi and Viren can have his baby or Nivi is doing all this as usual? I have not  seen the Epi...nothing wong with Maasy's taking careof their nephew's and niece's but the father is there and he has a mother and ML and grand parents there is no need for a newly wed couples to take full reponsibilty of that baby. They can give the baby love not taking over!
 
 


Radhart (sorry don't know your name), but I would really urge you to see the episode.  It is beautiful.  and very powerful.  As they say, it takes a village to raise a child, and by that I mean the wider family - everyone pitches in. Here too, it is like that.  Sid will definitely be there, but the others will be there too. And in that Nivi has a special place because of her love for her Di and for her Di's daughter and she knows what is like to be motherless and will not let her niece feel that... This does not have to interfere in her own married life - she is caring for the baby as part of the family.  If she weren't there, VD would have stepped in.

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 12:04pm | IP Logged
Anju - agree its new parents syndrome. And these new parents are bit different because they did not get the time to prepare for the new arrival since it is Divya's baby and they are not the biological parents. So they did not go through the phase of expentancy, anxiety or curiousness. Both of them will not know how to react to the situation and both of them will make mistakes.
CC will take advantage of this - the evil witch as we already saw that she again thinks Nivi needs to be out of Viren's life.
So whatever it is it needs to be shorter that Viren's insecurity track. CTs can have mercy on us and fastforward this track too.


Edited by vids08 - 13 May 2011 at 12:05pm

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