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What will take for you to speak up Siddharth? (Page 8)

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Posted: 15 May 2011 at 11:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by cottencandy

I understand your point view! But what Nivi did to Sid is nothing compare to Sid did to Nivi.Cry The different between Viren and Sid is Sid is a strong character Viren is a week character. Viren do stand up for Nivi but the same time he has lot of bad qualities such as jealousy, envy, childhood issues...etc. I am taking about Viren not KM!LOL Viren got envious over Nivi's project last week same jealousy he had towards to Sid since he was a child. Sid is on the other hand told her to go forward with it. So Sid and Viren are two different characters. If I have to pick a man for Nivi I would say go for Sid because he understands her mind far better than Viren. Understanding plays a major role in relationship. I agree with you don't let the look deceive you but girl friend...Sid is a HUNK! I can't help saying this. I rather marry an honest man.. a man who has integrity, value above all loves my family...girl...you don't know what you are missing...the rest I can handle it!LOL

@Sandy I don't like you are saying kill him off I don't desire they killing Viren off. I like both guys but Nivi's stand point I like to see her with Sid. She loved him because of her family she ditched him! Viren could have helped her to win Sid instead he also despised her.I happy to see Viren is changing.Smile 

hi 2 points regarding the  whole viren jealousy track although i really really hated this track- actually hated hw they went ab the whole track it shouldnt hav happend so fast it should have happened gradually coz inreality  men r often  than not afraid of powerful woman especialy  if these woman happen to be their partner n they  get ahead of them( nt all men though n the problem here is that wit viren character although the acting was great -it dnt go wit the basic nature of this character coz he has been protrayed as being very open minded. nt that i am sayin that men who r open minded wnt get jealous if their partners happen to be more successful than them( its got to do wit their ego) bt the thing is it dnt go wit this character n the place he was in.
-the thing that i also likd ab this track was that it showed that even though he realised that his family did lov him( i still wnt say as much as they lov sid  though still think he is their favourit) when a person has been so insecure 4 such a long tym it just dnt disappear into thin air coz we r told we r loved its deep rooted- it takes tym to remov it from your lif n its a path that a person has tak alon-(u have to learn to lov yourself)
 
furthermore it is a very long n hard journey to remove the selfdoubt that 1 has ab themselves- the feeling of nt being good enough, of nt being pretty enough no matter hw many ppl tell u that u r u need to believe it yourself. n alth viren has been shown to realise that his action were wrong, he needs as an individual to realise that he needs to work on himself, he needs to lov himself n if he is in a bad mood or upset he needs to speak up then n there to talk  n nt only to talk wen he cnt hold it in anymore.wish the cts could explore this in the serial bt they would mess it up.
 
bt another thing i dnt think its really jealousy that is eating this character up its someth more its lik look at me, i am aliv, look at my good qualities as well n i think we all kind of feel that way sometim as wel in lif wen we r at work or school or at home especially if we r insecure ab ourselves- n this maybe interrupted as jealousy bt in actually fact it is the insecurities that we hav in ourselves. as 4 sid n nivi i think the cts of this make them a bit to perfect 4 my likin u cnt relate 2 these character there pain yes bt overall no.
 
ab sid being the best man- i just dnt kn i mean being nice,  trustywothy being dependable is all very well bt the thing that this character lacks is that he dnt seem to have a back bone- he needs to open his mouth n speak wen someth is nt rite- his silence 4 me is worse than some1 who has done someth bad- a person who watches injustice being done is just as bad as the person who commits the injustic n his character has been shown to watch injustic being don to ppl all the tym n he justifies his actions , his silence as being 4 his family- i dnt think this charcter is an honest character sorry.- i think he is the weaker character nt viren coz viren once he has realsied his true nature will alway stand up 4 the truth 4 the 1 he loves
 
the reason i think viren is a better 4 nivi is coz in the beginn he understood how her mind worked bt he dnt kn her heart, her soul sid kn her heart n soul bt still doubted her. viren  nw kn her heart n soul he will never doubt her character.
 
sorry i said he should die- wish he was better actor though
 
 
 
 
 
 

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Posted: 15 May 2011 at 8:19pm | IP Logged
Apt topic Anjubala. I wonder you are still expecting him to speak. I lost all my expectations long ago and I think he will speak only when Bhupat sood will bash him and tell him that he lost everything due to his cowardness.

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Posted: 15 May 2011 at 9:23pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Cutie-NivRen

Cottoncandy I won't call Viren a strong character but even Sid is not a strong character. Strong character means to stand by the family in their wrong times not in their wrong doings. A strong character will help his family when they are suffering, keep them happy when they are crying not standby and watch them insulting innocent persons. Strong person always enlighten his family about right and wrong which Sid never did.  
Sid was never with his family in true sense because he never felt right to tell them what they are doing is wrong. Telling ur family that they are wrong at this point doesn't mean he has to raise his voice but he could do it with respest too but he never did. He kept watching when Chanchal was dragging Nivi out Ok she was Viren wife but she was his Best friend too He should have stood for her then too.
 
Sanib I don't agree with you Sid would have stood for DD. he would never stood up for even DD. All he could do is to shout on Nivi and Viren else he never stood up for anyone. Yaar he didn't opposed JAAL when he knew always that they are reason for company fraud and his DS heartattack. If he truly loved his DS he would have fought with JAAL too but he never did. So I conclude he loves no one but his image.
 
 
When I said Siddharth character is strong what I mean was Siddharth have great endurance and in nature that he is soft-hearted and will take all pain, but will never turn down the family's wish or reputation. He apologized to Nivi and her family soon after he realized his mistakes. How can you say he did not stand for his family? He married Divya for his family.LOL That enough to enlighten your family!
 
I can't stop laughing that you are saying...Nivi was Sid's best friend. Best friends don't deceive each other. A strong woman will never take the help of lies or deception rather she will speak her mind out and deal with it truthfully. The day she married Viren and deceived Siddharth! She disobeyed her father and married to Viren. That was her decision Sid doesn't have nothing to do with it any more. She also wasn't truthful to Divya. Divya on the other hand she went after Nivi the minute she heard the truth. Sid supported Viren all his life but Viren always jealous over him. I respect arrange marriages than forced marriages. Forced marriages can be an unpleasant experience. How can you stood by someone when you are forced?Angry We have seen the consequences now. This is something Nivi is going learn especially now she has a beautiful young girl in her hands. Some time baby's can do wounders!Smile

 

 

 

 



Edited by cottencandy - 15 May 2011 at 9:25pm
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Posted: 15 May 2011 at 10:03pm | IP Logged
I am sorry cottoncandy to intrupt you but Sid married Divya due to his inability to speakup. He was about to break his marriage with divya forgetting about family's reputation just before marriage. So this show how much endurance he has. He is a person who can never fight for anything rather live on right time to come. Now also he didn't speak up for his own daughter. If family and Nivi were not there he was ready to give dwita to HL without question.
Secondly you are talking about Sid's soft nature if he was too soft and good he would have saved Nivi regardless of what she did with him but he was mere spectator of what all happenning to her and her family. He could never support her. Next what kind of support did he provided to Viren. He never knew how Viren was in childhood and never asked him how he is doing. Ok agreed he might not have thought bad for Viren but he also never done good to Viren.
 
He didn't fight with Viren not because he love him but because he worry about his streak free image.

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Posted: 15 May 2011 at 10:35pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nature099

Apt topic Anjubala. I wonder you are still expecting him to speak. I lost all my expectations long ago and I think he will speak only when Bhupat sood will bash him and tell him that he lost everything due to his cowardness.
 
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Posted: 15 May 2011 at 10:39pm | IP Logged
Anju di, I think he is waiting for someone to bribe him for raising his voice Ermm... wud a dairy milk or kit kat work? Stern Smile

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