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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 12:12pm | IP Logged
Child Marriage my foot, he wasn't a child when he consummated with her and went on a honeymoon now was he? He could have left her then, when she came back from her mayka. He should have told her that then. Now that he saw grass is greener he just forgot all about his wife. I dont want to understand his POV, his POV is selfish, okay fine he felt like he grew apart he could have come back and really try hard instead all he did was be mean to Anandhi and be selfish to his family. 

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 12:20pm | IP Logged
From S point of view she was bang on target.

I agree that J is a victim of child marriage just like A and hence he should understand A situation more than anyone else. But he is so insensitive to her and blames her for all that he is doing. Yes he has the right to choose and I would have supported him whole heatedly if he was honest to start with. but he doesnt consider that someone else also has this equal right as he does. He has built his so called strong relationship with G on a mountain of lies. All who she knows and has fallen in love with is this imaginary person who J is striving to be. He claims to love G. Then when he knew that she was falling in love with him or before confessig his love for her why didn't he tell her his truth? She has the right to know who she is falling in love with or for that matter the reality of the person who is confessing his love for her. But he wants to feel secure and being selfish doesnt want to loose her. Is that HIS right to choose? For me his right to choose and him being a victim of child marriage was lost the moment he did not tell G his reality when they were getting close. By doing this he is trapping G and forcing her to make an emotional decision. Would she have gotten close to him if she knew his truth? Knowing her she would never. And J very well knows that and hence he kept lying to her. If he doesnt give due respect and appreciate the love that he received for all these years from his family what is he going to value G love. He just wants to slefishly keep her for himself. So no he has no right to do that and all my sympathy for him ends right there. If people do this for love its not true love but pure selfishness and no regard for the person you claim to love. And before confessing his love for G did he tell A that he no longer loves her? Why did he show his disapproval when she wanted to study? That's because if she educated herself he would have no reason or excuse to choose G over her.  In fact he kept both the girls on hold so that he has someone to fall upon if something goes wrong on one end. His justification for not loving A now is that she doesnt want to change and that she doesnt understand him. When the whole house was against his decision to study she was the one who understood him and stood by him. Does G understand him? She did not even understand why he was crying. Its no fault of her's. poor girl doesnt even know this guy's real name forget anything else. She will be surprised if she even knew him? That's not a victim of child marriage but an extremely selfish and manipulative guy.   So if the CV's are going to justify J actions saying that he is a victim of child marriage then they are also justifying lies, deceit and  cheating. That for me will be the end of their social message and the end of me watching this serial coz, sorry I cannot identify with such values.

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 12:58pm | IP Logged
I am watching this serial just for time-pass Smile now , not for any social messages. I am hoping my hindi will improve in the process...

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 1:39pm | IP Logged
great POints andv!!!

well said 

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 3:42pm | IP Logged
Sumitra is right..from her perspective...but jagiya is NOT INTRESTED in anandi...would anandi or any self respecting girl for that matter want to still be with a man who has so clearly stated his feelings..Wink...today i liked jagiya...he stated the facts to his mother..the only bit i am not in favour of is him repeatedly calling anandi anpad gawar etc..that is totally avoidable on his part..but ya..he is absolutely right..he should be given the right to choose his own life partner...there is no doubt about that!...

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 11:06pm | IP Logged
Sumitra said "Svarth aur Jhoot ka Pootla" that what jagya is and nothing else. I'm not at all upset by his behaviour with Anandi or his affair with Gauri. The things i hate about him are his constant lying, disrespecting everyone, behaving as if he is the only educated person in the world.
 
He called anandi "Anpad, Ganwar". then why didn't he support her education? He is the one who said - "see when she passed 10th exam, she is talking so much, if she studies more, she will not obey anyone" No educated person in his right mind will talk like this.
 
I see many Tapasya fans have jumped here to support male Tapasya "Jagya". Yes, when a devil like tapasya can have strong supporters, why can't jagya? So i guess with the kind of support male Tappu is receiving, BV is going to replace uttran as no.1 serial perhaps.
 


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Posted: 12 May 2011 at 1:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by intruderfast

i have to say here , jagya was right in his own way, if he does not love anandi there is no pint in being with her

i think he was right and wrong at the same time.he did try his level best to be nice and convince his mom to his viewpoint
and i did feel pity 4 him that nobody is trying to understand him, he is a victim of child marriage, no one can deny that,
and when nothing happened , he went back to his old self, abusing anandi ,  
jagya has the right to choose his life partner, he is right in leaving anandi but his methods r not right , he could have handled things more maturelyAngry
 
Maybe what you're saying is true... but why is he not applying the same logic for Anandi... if he has moved on... then he needs to make sure that Anandi also moves on... Support her education, make sure there are no problems in her remarriage... how can he expect everything to go smoothly his way... with everyone dancing to his tunes... he is the same guy who (after becoming a Doctor) told people that Anandi will not study because he didnt want Dadisa upset...
 
I have to agree with Gauri's reading of the character of Jagiya's 'fictitious friend' ... hypocrite who is taking the convenient route - a girl for him and another to take care of his house, his family!
 
PS: Incidentally, in MBA too one comes across many such men, who try and appear really cool and progressive in front of their peers and back home revert to being hypocrites who want their wives to wear a ghoonghat all the time... trust me... they are despicable! anybody who lives two separate lives lying to everyone is not justified in any decision they take...
 
MY POV, no offence meant to anyone


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Posted: 12 May 2011 at 2:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by subhas123

Sumitra said "Svarth aur Jhoot ka Pootla" that what jagya is and nothing else. I'm not at all upset by his behaviour with Anandi or his affair with Gauri. The things i hate about him are his constant lying, disrespecting everyone, behaving as if he is the only educated person in the world.
 
He called anandi "Anpad, Ganwar". then why didn't he support her education? He is the one who said - "see when she passed 10th exam, she is talking so much, if she studies more, she will not obey anyone" No educated person in his right mind will talk like this.
 
I see many Tapasya fans have jumped here to support male Tapasya "Jagya". Yes, when a devil like tapasya can have strong supporters, why can't jagya? So i guess with the kind of support male Tappu is receiving, BV is going to replace uttran as no.1 serial perhaps.
 
subhas ji, everyone has his own pov, and pls respect it rather than taunting those who came in support of jagya
 its just that here some ppl have this mentality that no matter what jagya is wrong hamesha, he can also be right sometimes, and thats what most of the members who wrote in favour of jagya said
i think nobody is supporting his khadoos attitude, his talks on anpad , ganwar to anadi
  regarding comparing him with tapasya , its too early to say that, till now he has not gone to such a low, i am curious as to how his character goes after his exposure to gauri(btw i am not a tapasya supporter)then only we can say anything


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