Posted: 08 May 2011 at 5:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by FIZK6
Interesting topic Filza.
A real man is someone who is loving, caring and considerate of his wife and others. He doesn't need to get verbally and physically abusive to be considered a man. Anyone can do that. In fact it takes alot of patience and understanding to be a loving husband. A man stands by his wife at all times and doesn't degrade her in front of others.
Even in todays society people mock a man, like you said calls him Joru ka Gulam, if he shows abit more respect to his wife and listens to her.
In the Thakur family women have always been ridiculed. But since Krishna married Pratigya his family have been mocking Krishna for loving Pratigya. Parents want their children to be happy, so trying to get your daughter in law killed or drive a wedge between the couple, will that really make your son happy? Wont he suffer?
sum parents dont understand that coz their own ego is too high n they think what they're doing is right, but sumtimes its their own kid whose suffering coz of their behaviour...but coz the child is a child n a parent is a parent, the blame always goes to the child...but sumwhere its the outcome of the behaviour which the parents ever had!!!
i feel sum mothers cant stand that their son is giving more attention to his wife! sum mothers thinkt hat they hav all the right on their sons, coz they have raised them...but they dont understand that when a SON becomes a HUSBAND, he belongs to his wife aswell! besides being a son, he becomes a husband aswell...i feel a mother shouldnt make it difficult for his son to chose between his mum/wife...even a wife shouldnt make it difficult for his husband, to chose between her or his mother...coz both the ladies r important in a mans life! if a mother in law doesnt like her daughter in law, she keeps mocking her n she forgets that its his own sons wife, but coz shes the mother, she feels that shes right n she has all the right to mock her daughter in law...just coz she has become an important person in his sons life...
a mother should be happy when his son finds a partner who cares for his son n same is for the sasur..