Posted: 07 May 2011 at 3:56am | IP Logged
So our doubts are cleared. It will be an interesting track when Gaurav does come out of his closet. For Vidya it will be an alien concept and I am dreading to see her pain. A woman can fight for husband when there is another woman in his life although it isn't easy but if the husband is not straight she has no chance in hell.#
I do agree it is Dev and Gaurav's fault for the way they have messed Vidya's life. But I think the cvs are trying to show that it is much more than that. Although homosextulity is becoming more acceptable in India but it is still considered as a taboo in most part of the India. I mean how many celebrities in India who would come out in the open like George Micheal or Ricky Martin or Elton John and openly claim they are homos. In general it is not easy to disclose openly such things and it becomes although more difficult if you are from an Asian background.
I have a British collegue and he doesn't hesitate from telling everybody openly that his 19yr old son has come out of the closet and claimed he is gay whereas at the same time I have another collegue with an asian background who is almost 30yrs of age but finds it difficult to tell his own parents he is not straight as he is afraid he will be an outcast. So despite the fact the asian family lives in the UK where people are more tolerant towards homosexuality he is scared he will be an outcasted by his own family and will bring shame to his family.
I am not saying that Dev and Gaurav did the right thing by getting Vidya in all this mess but I can understand why they did what the did. I think that is the whole theme of the drama as how long are we are going to make compromises in our life in the name of Maryada. When are we goid to break from the shackles of tradition which bring misery and unhappiness to our lives. Hats off to cv's to bringing such concepts into our living rooms. Hope people all over the world be more tolerant towards same sex relation.
Now that they have messed Vidya's life, I think the redemption for them would be make her independent so that she can move on with her life and hope she finds a man of her dreams as she deserves a guys who loves her and gives her all the happiness in the world.
As far as Dev goes she has been shown who will a hypocritical life in the name of her Maryda and family. I want see her break free from all these shackles and be herself where she supports Gaurav with his same sex relation, supports Priya when she discloses Brhama's act with her in the past