I think the problem here is conflicting choices...
Rashmi always wanted a husband who is fun loving,out going,good looking(waise I dont think dracula has this quality..๐.).Rich toh woh hoga hi cause its an arrange marriage uski family kisi garib ko pakad ke nahin layegi. These are the foremost qualities she was looking in her life partner.She never bothered whether that person wld be well mannered,whether he is brought up with same values and tradition as hers. She is still in her la la land far away from the reality...๐ Uske liye marriage is freedom from DJ's rules and regulation...๐ She said no to the first guy( I dont remember his name) due to same reason...She is really immature to get married...
Singhania's wanted a Jamaisa who has same set of values and tradition, well mannered...thats the reason why I think the fault in fixing this rishta doesn't lie with Rashmi...but singhania's .
I agree with charu Di...that they should have done some enquiry...๐shankari tai ne boldiya achcha hai aur sabne gadho ki tarah haan boldiya...
Gay3 was also warned by congo abt nikhil's gf but she never bothered to enquire abt the same...Shoorpanakha ne kaha use Dracula par bharosa hai toh sab ne maan liya...๐RB toh kisi kaam ka nahin hai...na apne bete ke liye kabhi kuch kiya aur na hi apni beti ke liye...
Alarm bell started ringing when Dracula's mom told Gay3 abt Dracula's plan to settle in Canada...I don't think this is the right reason to cancel the Rishta...
They are stuck between a rock and a hard place...neither they have strong reason to cancel the rishta nor can they go ahead...๐คข
I m still not sure whether Nikhil is good or bad...we cant tag him bad just becuase he had a gf...
Edited by Asawari_naksh - 12 years agoSo far I am not sure Nikhil is a bad guy. Yes, he seems
modern compared to the Singhania's who are primitive. Yes, he was shown with a
girl but this day & age most girls & boys do seem to have had at least
a major crush if not a relationship. That one person you thought you couldn't
live without. Most often things do not work out for whatever reason & you
are forced to move onโฆTimes have changed & the one or none days are over.
Devdas & Paro kind of relationship is harder to find๐ So for now Nikhil
seems like a fine young man; serving drinks at a party doesn't make him a bad
person.
Rashmi doesn't seem to mind at all. She has always been shown
as Ms. Scatterbrains. Has she ever shown her smarts? She refused another guy
based on his likes & dislikes for thinks like movies, yoga, ghumnaโฆ.๐ So, no
expectations from Rashmiโฆ.RB is just a donor at conception, nothing more...๐ So
who else can we blame for this fiasco? G3! There were warnings right from the
Tilak. She was finding excuses to make this marriage happen. She blamed Rajsri,
Akshara & then just took Rashmi's word for it. Bacchone baath ki aur sab
sulaj gayaโฆShe stopped ST from looking into it w/o any of the elders concluding
that Nikhil indeed has moved on. I haven't heard of any marriages happening w/o
investigating, nobody goes by just a marriage broker๐Udaipur is a small town,
shouldn't be that hard.
Much was made of him going abroad instead but G3's concerns were rightfully dismissed by the others. That is really least of their concerns & G3 is worried over it๐ Major issue is to find out if the boy is really serious about Rashmi or not. Is there a culture clash?Are they just casual drinkers? Most often what starts of as casual drinking later on makes individuals alcoholics coz partying hard becomes a daily thingโฆThen the marriage crumbles coz your ideologies don't match. What was once stylish becomes a disgusting behavior๐คข Interesting track but I do not expect much from CV's, serious situations have never been handled the way they should have beenโฆRashmi's acting skills are questionable, so I don't have my hopes up. It's only a matter of time before maate gets involved, now uske paas kaam kum time zyaada haiโฆ. ๐ฅฑ
Thank you all for replying... I enjoyed reading all your comments...
and I agree with all of you at some point... Singhanias are the one to be blamed here as of now... they haven't inquired abt the guy nor about the family... they are still thinking that Rishta's can be done the same old way.. Shankhari can bring good one & all they have to do is to say Yes... but time is changing... it's no more Dadaaji's Jamane now... so, yes a proper inquiry shud be done... and now is the situation where Rashmi has fallen for that guy... if they find anything worng with family now... then it wud be difficult to call off for Marriage & it will be difficult for Rashmi too...
Another point I am loooking here is thru Rashmi... She sopke with Suraj & rejected him coz their likings are different... she felt Suraj is not a good match for her... she might be right... but the issue here is... is she right in selecting Nikhil?? Nikhil called her in Club and she didn't find anything worng in that in spite of coming from a conservative famiy... coz she is not in a state to think otherwise... she kinda likes the freedom & that she will get being with him... she is in her own world of Fantacies... is this the only thing matters in Boy to look for?
she isn't mature enough to think all this... and hence she reprents many girls at her age... falling for a guy just by outer chamak dhamak at age of 18-19 and later on ends up paying for the affection...
Thank you all for replying... I enjoyed reading all your comments...
and I agree with all of you at some point... Singhanias are the one to be blamed here as of now... they haven't inquired abt the guy nor about the family... they are still thinking that Rishta's can be done the same old way.. Shankhari can bring good one & all they have to do is to say Yes... but time is changing... it's no more Dadaaji's Jamane now... so, yes a proper inquiry shud be done... and now is the situation where Rashmi has fallen for that guy... if they find anything worng with family now... then it wud be difficult to call off for Marriage & it will be difficult for Rashmi too...
Another point I am loooking here is thru Rashmi... She sopke with Suraj & rejected him coz their likings are different... she felt Suraj is not a good match for her... she might be right... but the issue here is... is she right in selecting Nikhil?? Nikhil called her in Club and she didn't find anything worng in that in spite of coming from a conservative famiy... coz she is not in a state to think otherwise... she kinda likes the freedom & that she will get being with him... she is in her own world of Fantacies... is this the only thing matters in Boy to look for?
she isn't mature enough to think all this... and hence she reprents many girls at her age... falling for a guy just by outer chamak dhamak at age of 18-19 and later on ends up paying for the affection...