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Posted: 03 May 2011 at 2:05pm | IP Logged
Yesterday, when Gopi is talking to herself in the kitchen, I felt really bad for her. Her words that she won't cry, that me crying upsets maji, and that she will be strong. And then later in front of the mirror holding the sindoor nani gave, she says she won't lose. For the first time I felt that Gopi was indeed really strong. Think about it, here we all are screaming on the top of our lungs, wanting her to leave, to stop taking the abuse, to have self-respect. But in reality, to stay quite is the hardest thing anyone can do. I know that its Gopi's personality to not say whats in her mind, but any person will eventually lose it. Especially after all that has happened to Gopi, she still continues to lift her head high and fulfill her bahu and patni dharam. It also reminded me of my grandmother-in-law said. We were at her place and it was time for SNS to start. So she tells my husband to turn on her kokila...LOL...I was surprised and asked her you watch it too? She is like yes and said that its very interesting to watch Gopi, even after all she hears from her MIL and husband she still obeys, while today's girls would have left. At a point, it is correct to leave. But, if you think about it, its also brave to stay and solve the problem. Gopi doesn't probably have it as bad as many other girls. She has her MIL on her side now, the whole family in that matter. She just has to wins Ahem's heart like she won Koki's heart. So, I just wanted to bring out the other side of Gopi, that even in her simplicity she is very strong mentally. It takes a lot for someone to stay where they are not wanted, to continue to respect when all the get is disrespect, to listen when no one else listens to her.

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Posted: 03 May 2011 at 2:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by taral83

Yesterday, when Gopi is talking to herself in the kitchen, I felt really bad for her. Her words that she won't cry, that me crying upsets maji, and that she will be strong. And then later in front of the mirror holding the sindoor nani gave, she says she won't lose. For the first time I felt that Gopi was indeed really strong. Think about it, here we all are screaming on the top of our lungs, wanting her to leave, to stop taking the abuse, to have self-respect. But in reality, to stay quite is the hardest thing anyone can do. I know that its Gopi's personality to not say whats in her mind, but any person will eventually lose it. Especially after all that has happened to Gopi, she still continues to lift her head high and fulfill her bahu and patni dharam. It also reminded me of my grandmother-in-law said. We were at her place and it was time for SNS to start. So she tells my husband to turn on her kokila...LOL...I was surprised and asked her you watch it too? She is like yes and said that its very interesting to watch Gopi, even after all she hears from her MIL and husband she still obeys, while today's girls would have left. At a point, it is correct to leave. But, if you think about it, its also brave to stay and solve the problem. Gopi doesn't probably have it as bad as many other girls. She has her MIL on her side now, the whole family in that matter. She just has to wins Ahem's heart like she won Koki's heart. So, I just wanted to bring out the other side of Gopi, that even in her simplicity she is very strong mentally. It takes a lot for someone to stay where they are not wanted, to continue to respect when all the get is disrespect, to listen when no one else listens to her.
Tara  i agree we want her to leave but why should she leave has she done anything wrong her way of thinking is  a traditional way  if aham n gopi didnt even see each other she would have still loved him from day one her fight has just begun i am sure she will succeed when n if  thats a different matter ,kokila is now becoming her strength n she is helping her

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@taral...
lovely thought and m happy that u are still with the same viewpoint abt Gopi being in MM, not leaving just coz she has to...

she is indeed Strongest more than anyone else as Being silent is never the sign of being a Coward its a sign of intelligence as "leaving words unsaid at the most tempting moment" always keep u away from unwanted fights...and as we discussed during earlier days of SNS in family u have to be silent for the Sake of Family and to keep it intact.

secong thing...Gopi is not a Leaver...she is a Fighter...
till now she has just fought but in a different way...not by shouting or accusing or snatching anything...she has fought by giving and sacrificing...for which is her character is known.

here also she is not trying to force Aham to give her love for which she is eligible but by giving Aham all her affection and concern she is just proving herself on the higher side than Aham as she is Giving but not Expecting anything in return.

Hope I am able to conveyed what i  think abt Gopi and her Silent Fight.

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Ek Dhum Chup...ROFL Sorry wrong thread...lol, but yes agree with you Gopi shouldn't leave now, only because she has stuck it out during the worst part, the rest now with Kokila, Chirag and Hetal on her side, he can't push her out of his house, if he wants to leave he should bite the bullet and go...that is if what he has been blustering about hating her is true. 


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@taral...
lovely thought and m happy that u are still with the same viewpoint abt Gopi being in MM, not leaving just coz she has to...

she is indeed Strongest more than anyone else as Being silent is never the sign of being a Coward its a sign of intelligence as "leaving words unsaid at the most tempting moment" always keep u away from unwanted fights...and as we discussed during earlier days of SNS in family u have to be silent for the Sake of Family and to keep it intact.

secong thing...Gopi is not a Leaver...she is a Fighter...
till now she has just fought but in a different way...not by shouting or accusing or snatching anything...she has fought by giving and sacrificing...for which is her character is known.

here also she is not trying to force Aham to give her love for which she is eligible but by giving Aham all her affection and concern she is just proving herself on the higher side than Aham as she is Giving but not Expecting anything in return.

Hope I am able to conveyed what i  think abt Gopi and her Silent Fight.


Exactly, she is indeed strongest then anyone. In fact, she is stronger the Koki. Koki says how she feels straight to someone's face, even her husband, only making her the bad guy. Also, creating animosity that shouldn't be there. As they say, there is a time and place for everything.  I think Gopi will speak up one day, not in her defense but for the happiness of Ahem. In fact she already did when she packed up her bags to leave the first time. Her silence is her strength and her simplicity is her support...

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@taral...
lovely thought and m happy that u are still with the same viewpoint abt Gopi being in MM, not leaving just coz she has to...

she is indeed Strongest more than anyone else as Being silent is never the sign of being a Coward its a sign of intelligence as "leaving words unsaid at the most tempting moment" always keep u away from unwanted fights...and as we discussed during earlier days of SNS in family u have to be silent for the Sake of Family and to keep it intact.

secong thing...Gopi is not a Leaver...she is a Fighter...
till now she has just fought but in a different way...not by shouting or accusing or snatching anything...she has fought by giving and sacrificing...for which is her character is known.

here also she is not trying to force Aham to give her love for which she is eligible but by giving Aham all her affection and concern she is just proving herself on the higher side than Aham as she is Giving but not Expecting anything in return.

Hope I am able to conveyed what i  think abt Gopi and her Silent Fight.


Exactly, she is indeed strongest then anyone. In fact, she is stronger the Koki. Koki says how she feels straight to someone's face, even her husband, only making her the bad guy. Also, creating animosity that shouldn't be there. As they say, there is a time and place for everything.  I think Gopi will speak up one day, not in her defense but for the happiness of Ahem. In fact she already did when she packed up her bags to leave the first time. Her silence is her strength and her simplicity is her support...


yup...she does not need to show any one else wrong whether its Aham or Koki to prove herself Right...as she is "Right" in almost everything she does...
she needs not to say bad to others to prove that she "Can Speak"
as there is a saying in hindi that...
Kisi Lakeer Ko Chhota Saabit Karne Ke Liye Use Mitane ke Bajaye uske Saamne Ek Badi Lakeer Khhinch Do..
means instead of making someone else feel wrong by saying words against him one should just enhance their positive side n it will prove they are Right.


@bold...bang on target...yes Silence is Her Strength and one day Aham will be Defeated with her Silence only...
Simplicity...again its Easy To do Show Off to impress others but Very Difficult to Be Simple and impress others and Gopi has done the later every time till now and m sure soon Aham will be in her kitty...

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@taral...
lovely thought and m happy that u are still with the same viewpoint abt Gopi being in MM, not leaving just coz she has to...

she is indeed Strongest more than anyone else as Being silent is never the sign of being a Coward its a sign of intelligence as "leaving words unsaid at the most tempting moment" always keep u away from unwanted fights...and as we discussed during earlier days of SNS in family u have to be silent for the Sake of Family and to keep it intact.

secong thing...Gopi is not a Leaver...she is a Fighter...
till now she has just fought but in a different way...not by shouting or accusing or snatching anything...she has fought by giving and sacrificing...for which is her character is known.

here also she is not trying to force Aham to give her love for which she is eligible but by giving Aham all her affection and concern she is just proving herself on the higher side than Aham as she is Giving but not Expecting anything in return.

Hope I am able to conveyed what i  think abt Gopi and her Silent Fight.


Exactly, she is indeed strongest then anyone. In fact, she is stronger the Koki. Koki says how she feels straight to someone's face, even her husband, only making her the bad guy. Also, creating animosity that shouldn't be there. As they say, there is a time and place for everything.  I think Gopi will speak up one day, not in her defense but for the happiness of Ahem. In fact she already did when she packed up her bags to leave the first time. Her silence is her strength and her simplicity is her support...


yup...she does not need to show any one else wrong whether its Aham or Koki to prove herself Right...as she is "Right" in almost everything she does...
she needs not to say bad to others to prove that she "Can Speak"
as there is a saying in hindi that...
Kisi Lakeer Ko Chhota Saabit Karne Ke Liye Use Mitane ke Bajaye uske Saamne Ek Badi Lakeer Khhinch Do..
means instead of making someone else feel wrong by saying words against him one should just enhance their positive side n it will prove they are Right.


@bold...bang on target...yes Silence is Her Strength and one day Aham will be Defeated with her Silence only...
Simplicity...again its Easy To do Show Off to impress others but Very Difficult to Be Simple and impress others and Gopi has done the later every time till now and m sure soon Aham will be in her kitty...

@Bold-nice strategy, lets see how it's going to pan out, butter everybody, go out of your way to appear angelic after the incident and hopefully the result will be that person wins. 

This seems to be a long haul siege...major battleground. For Gopi incident being the big reveal that she is uneducated, she's led a merry dance by Aham, listen guys we all know in this serial eventually he will relent and love her, but he won't loose anything. Lets enjoy it.


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Posted: 03 May 2011 at 7:41pm | IP Logged
@Taral and Sadhli,

See your point completely.  Gopi has her quiet strength however, we have seen her stand up for things she believe are wrong. 

- she defended and supported Kinjal during the wedding fiasco.  She stood infront of her to prevent Aham for hitting herl.

- during one of the festivals she stayed up all night so that the light wouldn't go out.  Even though she was barred from the temple

- she refused to lie to Aham even when Koki asked her to.

She definitely has her beliefs and stands by them.  She may not say anything or defend herself...she has her own brand of silent strength.

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