Originally posted by LennieDesire is a word i think has been related to Gulaal alot (but we all know who and what Gulaal is and why she is like how she is and thats how i expect her to be, she isnt confusing but you just feel so much for her and you wish her hope, life, joy and colours in her life even if she doesnt see or want them), what does she desire, she must have some desires something that makes me think of when Daiba had a chat to her in the mahaepisode, in saying doesnt she have any desires (and i dont mean in an sexual way - i know how some ppl dont see depth in some words) as a person and what she wants and needs and craves for her but the way she has lived for 10 yrs and so long and she feels this is how she will live and do her duty or whatever like this forever... she's now use to it and sees her life like this
Gulaal has become kinda what Zaara had become in Veer-Zaara and i remember something that Veer said in his poem at the end
Mere Khwabon Ko Poora Karte Khud Ke Khwaab Bhool Chuki Hai Woh
Mere Logon Ki Saiwa Karke Apne Logo Ko Chor Chuki Hai Woh
Its true in a way, serving other ppl, also they are her family as well, she has forgotten about her ownself along the way, how she was way before - that certain aspect of her lost and those memories and childhood and what she liked... is still in her lost - faded away.
She knows her dislikes and likes, but she doesnt find its important and always second best to all
All i can wish that someone comes along, yep that someone is Kesar, and does and hopes for what Veer wanted to do...
Uska Daaman Ab Khushiyon Se Bharne Ko Dil Karta Hai
Uske Liye Ek Aur Zindagi Phir Jeenay Ko Jee Karta Hai
Kesar and Gulaal have a age-gap but not a big one (for me its not even important but ppl do notice it here esp the viewers sometimes but for me it over-rides it of the bond), and most important thing is their bond which goes beyond any relation or name tag given to it, even one of Husband-wife at the moment
Dil Ke Rishta they have which is more then any name given relation i find
As i said before or yesterday, that for Gulaal to ever feel more for Kesar will come to her as an utter shock, will rock her to the core which is natural esp for someone like Gulaal and wouldnt even acknowledge it fully and suppress it so much with her no acknowledging it - like you say someone will have to force her to see it and dwell on it
Remember Daibaa asked Gulaal to think about herself and in reply Gulaal said 'kya zaroorat hai?'. She's locked her desires away somewhere deep inside her heart without expecting for anyone to unlock them.
That poem from VZ is so pure. Those lines really do suit Gulaal!
That's why I feel only Kesar can give her the happiness she deserves because when he opens her heart towards her, no-one else will be visible to him and Gulaal deserves that sort of overwhelming love.
I told the story not so much for the age gap issue but the fact that the girl initially put an 'uncle' stamp towards this guy before actually giving the relationship a chance. Similarly, how some of the critics of a potential romance between Gul-Kesar automatically feel the yuk factor.
I'm waiting for the day where Gulaal's realisation hits her! That will be one heck of a scene!