gopis life is miserable...

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Posted: 13 years ago

gopi will scared from ahem when she give the knife put the cake into the ahems mouth the reason is that ahem dont deal with gopi as a husband from the start he always yells gopi and shout at her so the darr is always in the gopis mind that ahem shouts again everybody writes that gopi be bold its right but i think its ahems duty to talk with gopi nicely and softly and see her normaly when ahem shouts at her and see her in anger mood she will be scared...

its normal thing if somebody scared from someone from his behaviour the scared person never feel secured in front of him ..i think its first duty of ahem dont be scared gopi talk with her politely and in calm manner gopi sure not scared and talk with him nicely actually in gopis life everybody used her and yells her 1 urmi always yelled her and scared her from her childhood when someone grow like that how come he or she will be bold from her childhood gopis life is very miserable torture and scared all this bad atmosphere impact on her life after marriage husband is the big supporter of the wife in susral if ahem dont like gopi then life will be more miserable ... gopi is not bold not educated is not her fault circumsantces do all this...

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Posted: 13 years ago
Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

You are right Simi.

i think its ahems fault he dont behave gopi nicely always in the anger mood and yells at her..without understand anything what happen...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Originally posted by: simibrar1990

i think its ahems fault he dont behave gopi nicely always in the anger mood and yells at her..without understand anything what happen...


If he would give her the rights of a wife, by respecting her, talking to her nicely and taking better care of her, she would have the authority to put into motion what her mother-in-law is telling her with regards to Rashi (at the moment the respect is afforded to Rashi, she does less work in the house, she takes afternoon naps, all because her mother-in-law and husband allow her to do these things), but at the moment with the way he behaves with her she feels not really at home, she even finds it difficult to go into the bedroom in-case she will disturb him, instead he should be more considerate that it's late, if he wants to carry on working her should do so from downstairs don't they have a study or office at home, the bedroom must be used for sleeping not working on his laptop and his files/papers. So poor Gopi she works so much (more than anyone else in the house) plus she can't even sleep well at night, most of the time she is awake on that floor...she hears all the sounds in the house etc.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms


If he would give her the rights of a wife, by respecting her, talking to her nicely and taking better care of her, she would have the authority to put into motion what her mother-in-law is telling her with regards to Rashi (at the moment the respect is afforded to Rashi, she does less work in the house, she takes afternoon naps, all because her mother-in-law and husband allow her to do these things), but at the moment with the way he behaves with her she feels not really at home, she even finds it difficult to go into the bedroom in-case she will disturb him, instead he should be more considerate that it's late, if he wants to carry on working her should do so from downstairs don't they have a study or office at home, the bedroom must be used for sleeping not working on his laptop and his files/papers. So poor Gopi she works so much (more than anyone else in the house) plus she can't even sleep well at night, most of the time she is awake on that floor...she hears all the sounds in the house etc.

yes dear you are 100% right bedroom is not a office ..bedroom is a calm room where the couple share the feelings about the whole day what they done... Edited by simibrar1990 - 13 years ago