Posted: 25 April 2011 at 7:39pm | IP Logged
very good insights from everyone so far. in my opinion, in matters of love and relationships, there is no black and white side. it's always shades of gray. we understand why guddu punished kalsanwali. as rani had pointed out, guddu is angry more at the fact that kalsanwali was trying to put a wedge between him and runjhun.
i believe, however, that even if runjhun had known about the fact that kalsanwali (and the other mammas and mamis) were all trying to break her and guddu apart, she would still feel the same way about the situation. i think that she is still right in saying that guddu hurt her more. we must never forget that kalsanwali was acting the way she is supposed to act, based on her character. also, runjhun does not have any emotional connection to kalsanwali, despit the fact that she is family. runjhun has come to accept that her family, minus her amma, did not, does not, and will not treat her well.
but with guddu, it is a different story. what guddu did hurt her more because, as what has already been established in previous weeks, the two are already trying to establish a relationship as husband and wife (well, sort of). even if they are trying to do so for the bet, or for their ammas, or whatever, they are still trying to be husband and wife (minus the physical part). and one of the things necessary in a relationship is TRUST.
guddu, two times in a row, has already shown that he does not trust runjhun. he can easily be swayed to believe that runjhun has done him wrong. maybe, it was also because of their past. but things are different already. runjhun got hurt by guddu more because, after she told guddu, in effect, to trust her more, he again thinks ill of her. and that after she lovingly prepared the food that was (unfortunately) sabotaged by kalsanwali.
if you ask me, when runjhun told guddu that he was wrong too, it was not really very objective on her part. i don't know, maybe i'm speaking as a married woman, but most of the time, when one relates with a spouse, you tend to base your actions on your emotions. runjhun does not have any emotional connection with her mammas and mamis, but i think that she is already having emotional connections with guddu. guddu punished her for something that she did not do. FEELINGS HURT. guddu wants to exact revenge the kalsanwali for trying to break them up. HARD CORE EMOTIONAL RESPONSE. runjhun tells guddu he hurt her more, even if guddu explains kalsanwali's wrong doing. BIG TIME EMOTIONAL RESPONSE IF YOU ASK ME.
which bring me to... runjhun is changing. remember, once upon a time, guddu says that she has no soul. well, right now, runjhun is being SOULFUL, and with that i mean that she is getting in touch with her emotions more. and all her emotions are inspired by guddu. fear, hurt, anger, betrayed... ONLY GUDDU can affect emotions on her.