Originally posted by maan-ki-sanjana
Interesting post...I disagree with you though, even if I can understand your POV.
Irony of life is we never care nor value those who love us
Firstly we can't really compare the two situations. Geet and Maan share a completely different sort of relationship from Tej and Pammi. Do we even know whether Pammi loves Tej? The difference in the relationships apart from love is that Maan and Geet have expectations from each other and have equality in their relationships.
Geet does care and value Maan. Maan's love has never been in question, its whether he respects her or not. This respect is very important to Geet because that is all she had at one point.
A relationship where only one partner is caring and loving other at
receiving end will ultimately go through slow death. Valuing the importance of
your other half and respecting is basic essential of any relationship
Just like love mutual respect is essential in any relationship. If Geet feels that Maan doesn't respect her, it will create an imbalance in their relationship and eventual disintegration.
self respect is butchered everyday
Maan chose to join as Beeji's driver. If one makes a conscious decision, than their self respect is usually intact.
And Geet does feel pain at the way Maan is treated but the only way she knows how to respond is to tell him to go back because she fears her families reaction. I really don't know how else she is meant to react. Why would "Balwant" be treated any differently for Lachi or Yashpal? Its a totally different situation from the office scenes where Maan supported Geet, because he was the boss there where as Geet is a guest.
are straight and simple to live for her family as compare to geet
Sorry I can't really condone Pammi's actions, even though I like her.
She needs to speak up for herself (which I know is very difficult given
her upbringing and society) otherwise she will be undermined forever. I
think she needs to get her priorities fixed.
Hey you again got me wronged...I never said their relationship is same when did I...All I said they both share common trait nowdays chose to see their spouse being insulted, Their relationship is different I know that...They are different I know...I mentioned that in my post
A relatioship is mutual so is self respect. Geet too questioned his self respect in front of media. But he forgave her on her heartfelt apology. So when he is repenting where is forgiveness. I have already addressed that issue in my write up not want to repeat it
Yes sure he can leave but for him love is bigger than self respect. And the way all other servent were treated were not right too. Thanks I would add from my next post why she is quiet in seeing other human being insulted on basis of sex or profession.
I compared priorities of two geet versus hers to say her priorities are straight and simple. Never did I said she is right. I definitely not want her to be like this doormat for forever. She need to learn to fight for her rights,,,,
Thanks for replying I know no 2 people cant have same vision of prospective, ...I am perfectly fine that you disagree with my post and I respect your decision and I expect same from other. Only point is I dont see things your way nor you see my way. But probaly we both are right in out own prospective.I dont question your way of seeing thing...as its your vision .. Neither I hold any right to contest your choice...