Price for love, Value of love (Page 9)

my dear pessimistic Kul... there is a joke which I would like to share..
a man is lying on a death bed, and the wife says 'He's half dead' vs the girlfriend says 'he's half alive'... :)

Either way nothing can be changed about the man on the death bed. It's like how you stated earlier the "Some people think of the glass as half full. Some people think of the glass as half empty" but I think of the glass as too big!

To your point I do hope there is some justice to Geet/Maan characters.




Edited by night13 - 22 April 2011 at 10:36am

Dhwani I was looking for more comic incidences like these...as it has necessary comic touch nowdays we will this in new track

A physical reunion without any self realization can never touch divinity which we see on their first confession. A never tocuhed eptiome of selfless love from both side...which I do see missing nowdays

Yup glass is too big...as our expectation are too big ...may be they themselves taught us to fly from june to November and now trimmed our feathers...

I do remember 2 incidence clearly you dont have to back up for that one was before Kurban Hua party when sasha fooled her...another CHopra party when MAAN was fooled by underestimating her mettle.  He was wrong that time when he lashed her out without listening to complete facts.

I cant support him for he was wrong I dont support wrong until myself convinced. He was wrong .

But wrong to wrong doesnt support any justification Does it? . Two wrong doesnt make one right if Geet is not doing right thing now for once he was wrong.  If you believe Geet is doing right thing to counter for all those wrong act .  Than I would definitely say you chose your path right or wrong and follow it according to your own vision.  Its all on judgment of individual, but according to me I respect and appreciate someone who stood for my self respect  (may be he too hurt me before it) and I will try to return that gratitude as soon as possible.
 I will try to remember his behavior pattern with me in chronological order   Like from recent to past  if his attitude changed from bad to good  or its other way round good to bad . On that My reaction will depend on his actions. From my point of view I expect Geet to do same. As I said its all my way if seeing thing ...I might be wrong for you but I am definitely right in my prospective


Edited by kuls11 - 22 April 2011 at 11:24am

Interesting post...I disagree with you though, even if I can understand your POV.

Irony of life is we never care nor value those who love us selflessly.

Firstly we can't really compare the two situations. Geet and Maan share a completely different sort of relationship from Tej and Pammi. Do we even know whether Pammi loves Tej? The difference in the relationships apart from love is that Maan and Geet have expectations from each other and have equality in their relationships.

Geet does care and value Maan. Maan's love has never been in question, its whether he respects her or not. This respect is very important to Geet because that is all she had at one point.

A relationship where only one partner is caring and loving other at receiving end will ultimately go through slow death. Valuing the importance of your other half and respecting is basic essential of any relationship

Just like love mutual respect is essential in any relationship. If Geet feels that Maan doesn't respect her, it will create an imbalance in their relationship and eventual disintegration.

His self respect is butchered everyday

Maan chose to join as Beeji's driver. If one makes a conscious decision, than their self respect is usually intact.

And Geet does feel pain at the way Maan is treated but the only way she knows how to respond is to tell him to go back because she fears her families reaction. I really don't know how else she is meant to react. Why would "Balwant" be treated any differently for Lachi or Yashpal? Its a totally different situation from the office scenes where Maan supported Geet, because he was the boss there where as Geet is a guest.

Her priorities are straight and simple to live for her family as compare to geet


Sorry I can't really condone Pammi's actions, even though I like her. She needs to speak up for herself (which I know is very difficult given her upbringing and society) otherwise she will be undermined forever. I think she needs to get her priorities fixed.



Edited by maan-ki-sanjana - 22 April 2011 at 11:30am

@ kulls11...i guess the common theme through all of this is that this is a matter of perspective...believe it or not i agree with a lot of your main ideas for general circumstances...maybe i would not apply them to maaneets situation...but as fundamental thoughts they do seam right to me...

Edited by undisclosed - 22 April 2011 at 11:30am

Hey you again got me wronged...I never said their relationship is same when did I...All I said they both share common trait nowdays chose  to see their spouse being insulted,  Their relationship is different I know that...They are different I know...I mentioned that in my post
A relatioship is mutual so is self respect. Geet too questioned his self respect in front of media. But he forgave her on her heartfelt apology. So when he is repenting where is forgiveness. I have already addressed that issue in my write up not want to repeat it
Yes sure he can leave but for him love is bigger than self respect. And the way all other servent were treated were not right too. Thanks I would add from my next post why she is quiet in seeing other human being insulted on basis of sex or profession.
I compared priorities of two geet versus hers to say her priorities are straight and simple. Never did I said she is right. I definitely not want her to be like this doormat for forever. She need to learn to fight for her rights,,,,

Thanks for replying I know no 2 people cant have same vision of prospective, ...I am perfectly fine that you disagree with my post and I respect your decision and I expect same from other. Only point is I dont see things your way nor you see my way. But probaly we both are right in out own prospective.I dont question your way of seeing thing...as its your vision ..  Neither I hold any right to contest your  choice...