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awww...i don't agree or disagree really with your post...i loved that you put your thoughts out there...to me geet is behaving quite normal for a girl/woman in her condition...for all our dear maan has done...he has yet to address the real problem...
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Sadly Teji actions can be credited to his chauvinistic upbringing but we have no logic for such pathetic stubborn behavior from Geet. When that happened, a strong sensible mature geet suddenly had some 360 rotation in her characterization without any strong logical support. As viewers few supporters tried to justify her actions with overused yet very much flawed tool of Assumption assumptions and more assumptions. But did any of these assumptions come true, even touch reality through creative's attempt, none. Why, because creative themselves stopped caring for characterization of their most prominent lead character. May be I can credit these blind supporters of Geet who just to support her for any reason, that creative stopped caring for characters. When a child does his first mistake like stealing and parents choose ignore it for love they make pave for future criminal and his dark future. So this dark characterization of Geet is credited to blind love and adulation she has received till now for her mistakes so now all she does is blunders not mistakes.
Price is what you pay. Value is what you get. Same hold for Maan singh Khurana nowdays. Price is what he is paying for his selfless love and geet gets all value in this selfless love. For his true selfless love he deserved someone who would have loved him unconditionally above all abstract nouns of this world. He got conciliation prize in form of unlimited insults and humiliations at hands of her own love and her relatives. But for what he is praying this price? Price for saving her life, or its price for saving her from social disgrace, or its price for fighting for her self respect or its just for loving her unconditionally above his self respect. Or is it just for following her everywhere to help her or save her or to keep her out of trouble.
Geet journey from quiet sacred girl to independent women was not all simple, but a fellow companion like Maan at every corner of road not let made that difficult too. A support system like him allowed her to grow out of her dark past with no reminiscence of past allowed to intrude in present or future. But does she herself allowed that from her inner self. She still loves to live in self pity for her past destroying her present with no hopes for future. Geet whom he groomed and molded himself from a weak girl to strong woman and taught her to fight for self respect and principles has now raised big question to his own self respect and his own principles.His self respect is butchered everyday, his ethics principles are questioned, he is being treated like paid slave. But he takes all that to win back her love. But why he lost his love just because he questioned her on self respect.
Forgiveness is divine so why it's divine only when it's granted to a rapist or sinner why it loose its essence when you give to your own husband. A question on self respect can't be a sin nor crime anywhere equivalent to raping it. Nor the detrimental and harmful aftereffects of two are comparable. From being a young girl of school to pregnant lone unwed mother with family out to kill for pseudo self respect with noone on her side along with mental trauma. Other one had some mental trauma or shock , there were none in recent case. So why forgiveness granted on basis of repentance in one case whereas punishing husband is not enough in other case. Is there any logical sense that can defy that?
Pammi on other hand suffering at hand of family for her future but she knows how to keep family intact. Her priorities are straight and simple to live for her family as compare to geet which are difficult to understand without help of lot of assumptions. Like if she wanted to start afresh life with husband with clear past and for Maan happiness if she forgave Dev why not she try to forgave Maan for same reason. When Maan stood for your and your family respect and fought for you Why not you fight for his self respect. Why his pain was not visible to you but to yet to paami and biji? Paami can see and feel your love for him, does she know what your Maaan is doing for you but yet she feel for both of you. She feels for your love. But you blinded by your own ego, anger and arrogance, you chose not to see his love, his broken self respect and now his physical pain too. Is that the price of love and is that value of someone so precious in your life. Someone said it right we don't care for our most precious possession until we loss it. Truth is inside you around you but you chose to go blind to it.
Love Respect Care all Pammi carved never received and you received so much that you altogether stop caring for it. You yourself closed all door to happiness and beautiful futurein your anger. Anger Arrogance Ego of one can kill any relationship even if love and care of other try to flourish. A relationship is was and always mutual bond much above me, I and myself.
Learn to value love or this time you will pay price for not valuing it.
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