Posted: 21 April 2011 at 11:39am | IP Logged
Originally posted by edabella
Happy 100th episode anniversary!!!! The precap looks like it's gonna be painful to watch. Runjhun doesn't need to eat the whole
bowl of vegetable. Maybe Guddu will take the bowl out of her hands when he sees her tearing up while eating it. It would be nice if Guddu suspects that someone else is responsible for making the food taste bad. He needs to trust Runjhun more. Runjhun has dealt w/so much crap from him & he usually likes her food. The one time her food happens to taste bad, she gets a harsh trashing from him. No offense but I find Guddu to be a pretty high maintenence hubby. I didn't know he was gonna be like this after marrying Runjhun. My dad does more work around the house than him but some hubbies are more lazy than others & a lot of Indian serial hubbies don't do housework so seein' Guddu like this is not necessarily a weird thing. I don't know if I could deal w/being married to a guy who does as little as Guddu does in the house. I'd like to have 3 kids after marriage so doing so much w/o much help from hubby & having 3 kids would be a lot of work. On top of all this, I have this problem where there are times when I physically feel older than my age- I'm assuming Runjhun may not feel this way & her & Guddu don't have any kids. My mom said she had more energy than I did when she was my age. He is thinkin' of her seeking revenge on him for listening to the mobile people. To Guddu~ she is not the one that is seeking revenge. U are the revenge seeker. U caused her so much pain in the process of taking revenge. U've done things to her which are waaayyyy worse including causing her trauma- touching her behind closed doors, against her will. Anyways Guddu is a hardcore guy. More rough than some other serial heroes on Zee tv but it's good Zee tv at present, is showin' different types of male heroes- this reflects reality. Manav ("Pavitra Rishta'), Guddu, Rudra ("Sangini"), & Anukulp ("Ram Milaayi Jodi") are all different from each other which is nice to see
@ kurikaur~ I also like Guddu but I really didn't like how he behaved towards her after she served him the food. I agree, I would really like to see him feel bad about the way he reacted & do something sweet for her. I feel quite a bit of girls would not have tolerated him for this long. Runjhun has a VERY HIGH tolerance level. Her horrible family (when I say horrible family, I only mean her mamas & mamis) have been causing him trouble starting from the framing incident and our Runjhunia ends up gettin' thrashing from him, it's sooo freakin' sad
. She doesn't deserve all this. But I don't believe in the sayings- that mainly good things happen to good people (this is not the case w/all good people) & that marriages are made in heaven (if this was the case than, there would be no such thing as divorce & both hubby & wife would get along soo well) so this show does not condradict my beliefs. My uncle & aunt's marriage ended up being hellish. Now they're divorced & I feel like my parents might have gotten divorced if it was for me & my siblings. It's seems they're still together for our sakes. My dad can have quite a temper & like Guddu & Runjhun, they're quite different from eachother. He used to beat up my mom so seeing guddu treat Runjhun like the way he has been treating her in their marriage- I've seen worse in my family & better in my family as well. I will freak out out if Guddu ends up slappin' her even if he slaps her while he is intoxicated. Wow, I've been really goin' on & on. I need to shut up.
i agree with you about runjhun having VERY HIGH TOLERANCE. i dont think i can be like runjhun but sometimes i wish i was a little like her. I dont have even a tiny bit of tolerance. I dont like people that are fake and sometimes i dont think before acting and then i wonder what the situation would have been if i was calm and did not react. i can tell u it would have been much easier and stressfree. I have read a book called A NEW EARTH by tollen and he talks about how everyone should learn to take any situation in their life and just treat it like a small part of your life. I tend to overreact to things that dont really need my attention. like the book says, we should just let the phase pass by and learn to accept what is happening in our life. and i think this quality is what runjhun has. she sees everything as a phase in her life and doesnt overreact to it. even when guddu came home drunk and accused her, she didnt react but she handled the situation so well the next day. this is because she doesnt give little things much importance. this is something that i need to learn
now to the marriage, i know what you mean. I also sees families where are is so much stress and tension between husbands and wifes. im not married but sometimes i think it would be better not to get married. we watch these serials and imagine that might be like real life but real life is much different. I sometimes feel there isnt soemthing like real love.
the way guddu is acting really annoys me, but in actuality there are worse scenrios. guddu is very full of himself and blinded by his ego. I sometimes wish runjhun just yell back at him and then i wonder what would that achieve. Or i feel like she should just ignore him, but his ego will flaunt even more. i think i should stop now considering i keep blabbing on and on. haha