Talk about crushing a girls dream about perfect marriage  , but hes giving out good advise. Enjoy unmarried life when you've got it. When your married all the tension starts lol 

I was thinking that... Next time my mum asks me when I'm getting married I will say well I met this man and he seemed like a level headed smart man... he said don't get married yet  ...I don't know why but think i should listen to him  ... I can imagine my mum she'd be like 'huh' 

Wow a career change after meeting the guy. He must have been something. But teaching sounds good. You should go for it. And a good job too, lots of my friends have decided to become teacher too. I probably get bullied if I become a teacher.   Any other advice you want to share with me given by him? 

I can't think of any words of wisdom at the moment as I'm tired  but when I remember i will let you all I know.

 Actually I think I'm like that  , I like doing random stuff. I asked my friend once if she wanted to go to the airport and see what cheap tickets we can get...and go on holiday... she laughed and thought I was joking...

Honestly if she said yes...I would have packed my bags and gone 

Haha If i was your mate I would have so come with you, I'd be like forget packing let me grab my passport and bank card.... my parent's would have killed me when I came back though... they used to get annoyed when I'd end up staying in London for 2 nights unexpectedly... luckily i work now so i have set days that i have to be home... they don't need to stress... I can't wonder off anymore

But unfortunately  I cant drag my friends to random places  , especially since I'm the one with no car 

 Even since i got a car I'm rarely home... I finish work and if i got any energy I drive out somewhere find a nice place where i can go by myself or pick up a mate and go play badminton or table tennis am home at night though... Am only at home all day on most weekends or school holidays as i have family around then... I'm in the guest bedroom at the moment as I have been kicked out my room by my sister and her little one's  

Awww bless...I wish I was more like you. I am the quiet one...look like the quiet one and is...

I'm really loud with friends...  but with stranger I'm silent...

One of my close friend told me he was scared of me before he actually knew me...he was like onces you've opened your mouth and talked...thats it your a different person.

I guess...I give very bad first expressions 

haha...thats funny... i wish people would find me  a little scary... they used to before I changed my look... but back then i was actually scary... i went through my rebellious phase... now I'm known as the innocent one... its funny how quickly the labels change.

Then again get really nervous and quiet when I dont know people.

A little worried that I wont make any friends in the new uni...especially since I'm starting in the middle 

You'd be fine lots of people join late... is your uni local? ... I remember at Uni I was the student rep for the class & one of the student ambassdors for the Uni ... At lunch the canteen used to be packed...me and my 2 friends used to sit next to people who were sitting alone and start talking to them... my group of friends started off with 3 of us and in the end there were 17 people regularly eating lunch with us all from different courses... I remember once we had 26 people eating lunch with us... people who sat with us were bringing there friends and everyone was being introduced to one another... it was really nice... we had to grab 4 tables and push them together so we could eat together and loads of people were staring at us but no one really cared.  we were told we could move the tables as long as we put them back where they belong after we'd finished... hopefully they'd be someone like that at your uni and even if you don't get along with them you'd make friends through them...

Hehe You need to try the HTC Desire HD  , but have to say the iPhone has amazing screen res

 HTC Desire OOo... I will you tube that to see what it's like...

You sound like my sister...apart from the singing 

 Has she not got the Mariyah Carey/Whitney Houston vocal chord like me ... you should hear my version of Baa Baa black sheep... people cry when I sing ... 

Talking about marriage and kids...my uncle was giving me a lecture about getting married and having kids today...and I wasn;t paying attention...I'm still young...and where am I going to get the guy from?   Drop out of the sky...when I say I want to get married  

 If only it was that easy.... click your fingers and one drops from the sky... lets hope he's a good one... he fell out the sky for a reason

 Or even fly out of our dreams 

  Is your dream man superman???... coz mine can't fly 

 THIS IS WHERE I FELL ASLEEP ... so close to the end

Your right you cant compare books with movies... I haven't read many Jane austin book...just watched...I kinda had a Jane Ausin Marathon in last years valentine...haha was in bed ill. If you like period dramas...watch North & South BBC adaption...one of my favorites   

That's my favourite period drama too...The actors were all amazing...I like my period dramas so watch any if there on TV...but last year I went through a period drama phase which lasted roughly 5 months...I watched all the period dramas I could find...& if I couldn't find them on the net I brought them... In this phase I brought Daniel Deronda & The Catherine Cookson 24 disc boxset which cost me roughly 70... I watched them all in about a week... I don't think there is any period drama out there left for me to see unless it came out end of last year or this year... I love the fact the stories are simple yet amazingly told.

Don't get be started on x-men... ...they killed cyclops character...sooo badly...And Jeans too   Used to love watching the cartoons... the old ones and the new ones.

Cyclops dying didn't bother me that much...Jeans character annoyed me as soon as she became phoenix and  killed professor Xavier I was like kill the ... I really hated how evil they made her!!... I loved Rogue 2, she was my favourite in the cartoons and they destroyed her in the movies... She was strong and could fly in the movies she was just plain annoying!!

 Hehe I never paid attention to the Thor before so don't know anything...didnt even know what the movie was about when we walked in...so wasn;t bad  ...didnt have any expectations. But I did find it unbelievable that he learnt is lesson so fast...and didn;t even need to do much. Apart from fall in love...that too over night 

Haha... They should make falling in love compulsory in prison then all the inmates would learn to be good... I love how love is used to cure bad-ness in movies... if someone's on the wrong path all they need is love from another to bring them on the straight path again!!... I wonder who the genius was that first thought of that... I bet they didn't think it would be so popular 

That sounds like a better idea of how to end the series now 

Viren serial murderer leaves will a evil strange smile on his face at the end 

 I think we should suggest it to RS on his blog... the Viren fan's might kill us though... is it worth the risk?

Hello...wrote half of this last night and then fell asleep... I guess the laptop wasn't a distraction after all ... good thing it was written on word otherwise it wouldn't have saved & I'd be mega annoyed!! 

Atleast you didnt lose it 

I will reply to your other posts as soon as I can... I've got to sleep now as I'm going Birmingham tomorrow with my mate I need to be at the train station at half  9, so gotta wake up early...there's a recruitment fair at the NEC and she wants to try and get advice on employment... I'm going with her & browsing for myself... I love my job but wouldn't mind seeing if there is anything better out there for me!!

Chat Soon... Night xx

 Hehe take your time. How did the career event go? Made it in time?

Best of luck to both.

Night night x

She seems to be getting more and more desperate about me getting married. I'm not that old yet mum  

My mums like that & now my big sis is joining in too... she's told everyone I'm getting married next year & i'm like i haven't even met anyone i like yet... i guess her dreams are going to be shattered soon 

Your poor parents. My mum freaks out when ever I tell her I'm off on holiday, thats why I book the tickets and tell her last minute I'm going . My family are so paranoid that I'm going to get killed or something. Thats why I leave out that I'm only going on holiday with one friend not a group  

I always just tell it to my parents straight up where I'm going & who with...that way if something goes wrong and 90% of the time it does... they can't say anything... Also my best mate she a mixed martial arts grappler... She's scary... most men are scared of her ... i remember when i first met her about 10 years ago i thought her boyfriend or dad used to beat her up... coz whenever i'd see her she'd have bruises and injuries... When I told her she laughed and then told her dad...who even now still whenever he see's me makes jokes & tells everyone about how Im horrible because i think he's a woman beater ...

I always the one to get kicked out of my bed too , I went to uni got kicked out of my big bedroom to a tiny one , hardly any place to even put my clothes now that I'm back.

  i have the biggest room with 2 double beds in it...I have too much stuff that i can't be moved into the little room... My mum did try a few years back by shoving a industrial sewing machine in my room saying there was no room anywhere else for it and if i wanted to move in to the little room, which is the guess bedroom i could... i said no and with a little persistance the machines gone and im still here ... 

I'm sure your loving your sister there 

yeh i was a little tiny bit... everyone's gone home now holidays are over... It sounds so quiet when everyone leaves!!

I want a car tooo...then again I have very homely/workaholic  friends here  no fun lol

 you know what that means... time to get a job

You don;t want people to be scaried of you ...harder to make friends...but then again sounds like your a loud person 

 too loud for my own good... gets me into to much trouble

How was your old look? 

 gosh... believe it or not...I was a kind of desi goth...  not a depressed one though... i started wearing black punk rocker clothes. i had these amazing knee length boots that had spikes and chains on them...My hair was bright red and i used to braid it from the side, and let the other side loose, i wore dark heavy eyeliner & i on one side i used to draw a pattern from my eyeliner down my cheek. ... I'm just thankful that i didn't do anything crazy that i would have really regretted like get a tatoo or get extreme peircing or shave my head...i was going through a serious rebellious phase... my mum though I'd  lost it ... Mum told me burn all my goth pictures coz she was worried that if i saw them I would become a goth again... i call it paranoid mum due to watching too many serials... but i was all to happy to burn them as i looked awful ...

wow sounds nice , lets hope they are people like that in my new uni. The new uni is kind of local. Just trying to decide if I should move out or just travel there.

The first course I was doing we had a massive group like that and it was always fun. We used to randomly off to the park in the middle of the night (1-3 am) and play truth and dare in the dark  House parties until early mornings used to crawl back at 7 in the morning or something. And the funny thing was most of us didn't drink . Who said you had to drink to have fun.

Those were the fun days ...

I don't drink either... But I'm usually the one everyone thinks is drunk

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NYB2JK7s8rI

Check that one out. Looks epic...the new one coming out...only if I could afford it when it comes out     Probably the same price as the iPhone I guess.

It looks awesome... I want it... now i have to save up to buy it... I'm crap at saving 

 You haven't heard me sing...I am terrible  I used to get like 100s in singstar...when my friends were on thousands And that too in easy...

I'm like that when am at my mates and were doing karaoke on the playstation... we've competed so many times with lots of different people and I haven't won a single game yet... Im rubbish

Hes been dreaming about you in heaven ...had enough of dreaming and dropped out of the fly 

Ooohhh i like that... and here i was thinking he fell becasue he did somethng bad... i guess my glass is half empty and your half full ... i wonder who the chor was that stole the other half of our drinks 

Typing about dream man ...hence your body couldnt take it anymore...and off you fell asleep to dream land...dancing around with prince charming 

  My brain knows what I want

Any period drama you recommend? Since I'm free now I can watch 

 How much time do you have free as i know loads...These are the ones i can think of from the top of my head... most have about 4 different versions so I dated the best version ones.

Jane Eyre 2006

Persuasion 2007

Mansfield Park 2004 

Northanger Abbey 2007

Ever after (This ones a adapted cinderella story)

Emma 1996

Loorna Doone

The Way We Live Now

Wives and Daughters

The Forsyte sage

Daniel Deronda (It's about Jew's)

Anne of Green Gable 1, 2, 3 (3 different movies, these are pretty old but really good)

The black velvet dress, The glass virgin, Colour blind, The girl, The Dwelling place, Tilly Trotter (these are pretty old movie's -  Catherine Cookson collection) 

Im going througha chinese, Japanese and Korean movie phase at the moment.. I watched one movie without sibtitles...I couldn't understand a thing all i knew was when the sword swings someone dies... i got the basic storyline down

Period dramas are kind of dreamy...make you to go back. and live that life..and then then read the reality of how life was then and your glad your in the 21st century, with computers and cars and women can work freely 

haha So true... I'm always like i wish i lived in that time & then i think about it again and go Im neither rich nor white... and everyone in those period dramas is white... makes you wonder where I'd be at that time... 

I don;t think they will mind , they will make him a hero whatever he does 

Probably explain now the Sood family was the real bad people and good that Viren killed them off 

 That had me cracking up... Funnily enough I can imagine it happening

 Hehe take your time. How did the career event go? Made it in time?

I made it... almost caught the wrong train... but survived... the event was kinda useless for me...it only had one recruiter that worked with children and I had to pay to work for them. It was working in Australia or American with children but i had to pay travel and it would all be voluntary work... I would have loved to have gone but I don't think I could afford it .