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Posted: 01 April 2011 at 9:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by divmath

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Thanks so much for the information....I amappalled and shaken...this evil practice is called "tradition"Deadand is followed even now in villages.....how cruel people can get....why not just marry the girl off to a guy...why sell her? and its disgusting because the girl's parents and family are involved in this practice....A girl is treated like a commodity or cattle in this society....SAD !!Dead
Becoz of strong belief in villages dat a girl can take seven pheras only once in life she can't take again that's why such middle custom is made to do some justice to widows and left wives but ppl have used it as means of income and woman alws have to suffer in every custom. See da cruelity of society. Man can marry again why woman cannot.

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Posted: 01 April 2011 at 9:40pm | IP Logged
thanx sar56gesh...4 the info!!
ohh how disgusting is this!!
 
i can't tell u how distrubed i am rite now after knowing this!!
in the vid anandi didn't said clearly.......................!!
but live in type of relation!!...without marriage!!Angry
mujhe sunkar hi itna bura lag raha hai.......but this type of evil practice actually happened till now!!
 
ohh!!Dead
 
i think it is the master of evil practices!!


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Posted: 01 April 2011 at 10:46pm | IP Logged
so this is yet another cruel "custom" made to make women even more inferior...our society is just sad and pathetic i tell u..and if we voice sumthng like this,we are supposedly unpatriotic..

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Posted: 01 April 2011 at 10:56pm | IP Logged
Thanks for the explanation Sar56gesh. OMG this is disgustingDeadI thought whatever the matter may it be Phooli get a life for herself but thats not the case she is being SOLDShocked In a way its good but at the cost of her self esteem and her very excistence..Ouch
I dont understand, when the custom is done public then why does the society has to be cruel to the woman laterAngryBV is trying to go through all those CRUEL customs and problems in the society one by oneErmm

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Posted: 02 April 2011 at 5:35am | IP Logged
@ ammoos u r right dis custom is so cruel da women is treated like na ghar ka na ghaat ka. But one more info dis practice is done only in lower castes not in rajputs and thakurs they have right to take girls in form of nata (some do dis secretly like DS she have also bought gehna in nata but covered it by doing official marriage) but can't send their ladies in nata. Dis soceity has done so many cruelities if gal is widowed then she has to suffer widowness if not then sold herself as a commodity.

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Posted: 02 April 2011 at 10:11am | IP Logged
@Sar56gesh: Thanks for the info...so this means they will show two types of live-in relationships...one the village variety and other the city variety. Where is this show headed?Confused

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Posted: 02 April 2011 at 10:32am | IP Logged
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The village situation cannot be called a live in....Live in happens only with the consent of both partners! usually when they are in love..they decide to move in together...which is not wrong....However, here Phooli is being "Sold" by her parents to some random guy....in the name of tradition...both the thing's are world's apart...Smile


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Posted: 02 April 2011 at 10:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by divmath

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The village situation cannot be called a live in....Live in happens only with the consent of both partners! usually when they are in love..they decide to move in together...which is not wrong....However, here Phooli is being "Sold" by her parents to some random guy....in the name of tradition...both the thing's are world's apart...Smile
 
You are right...but I still wonder where is the show headed?
I dunno what the future holds for Gauri...but Phooli who was shown to get an education could have got a positive track. Atleast it would have given some people positive thoughts wrt child widows.

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