Posted: 22 March 2011 at 12:34am | IP Logged
Psarada I agree she is wrong but the point here is she is mentally sick and want she told him did not come from her heart.This emotional blackmailing is due to the emotional hatyachar Manav did over his mom saying "I am not your son" and stuff instead of understanding first that her mom is sick.There is no point coming and asking forgiveness after you have driven your mom even more crazy.She wont listen,she is not in the right frame to listen.First she needs good proper treatment and care for her to realize that what she has been doing is wrong.Manav's inability to take correct decisions always puts him in trouble and again he is one of the reasons for this situation.Archu even always knew Savita was not alright but some reason Manav knew she was not alright but his anger blinded that fact and besides he was too much involved with K's to notice about Savita and Sachu.
We generally dont leave some one when they are mentally sick we stay by them no matter how worse they might behave as one knows this behavior is due to the mental sickness and if the patient is one's mom you surely cant.Manav's ignorance has cost his mom's health.
Who said for him to take Archu and go live there.You can always take care of ur mom by being away too.Had he given a thought about his mom's health and through Damo treated her with a good doc she would have gone better and would have started realizing her mistake.Manav's idea of making Savita archu is correct but for that Savita needs to be in good health both physically and mentally.You cant make Savita accepy by forcing Archu over her.She needs tome to recover first,what will be the point if Manav stubborness and ignorance leads to something happening to Savita.Then to whom will Manav prove what?Will he forgive himself.No
A mother son relationship is a pure and delicate one ,the point is how one understand each other.Manav knows that if he sees deeply inside Savita heart he will know she loves Manav like anything and is ready to accpet Archu but her ego wont allow it.Best thing get Savita treated first and then you can make make your point about Archu.Savita will then listen.No mom in the world is evil.
Mata pita Guru Devam is what the world preaches even God gives preference first to Mom so Manav needs to first get Savita treated before too late and then thingd automatically will fall into place which us rhe current track is leading where I think Archu will take initiative and Arman might eventually move in with Savita.