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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 8:39am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Omshanti1111


 
 
I am wondering what story they tried to start in July and where they landed!LOL
 
 
 

After 4 months i tried checking on what's going on in what was once my fav serial......n i don't seem to recognize it at allDead................even i have come to the same conclusion.........the beautiful love story that ccbm began with on 28th June 2010..........is nowhere to be seen...........

Sid n his Putul........Lost forever??? what a shame!!!!

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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 9:03am | IP Logged
You know I was JUST thinking about this yesterday.

There are wayy too many posts here to go thru and read all of them.

but i agree with those of you who say "What about Sid?" he constantly thinks of other people's happiness. he's never given a proper apology or words of love. it's one thing to be thought of as the "favorite" but quite another to be happy with his own life. being a good son, husband, grandson, nephew...they're all great. but that can be done with the greatest turmoils within. who can HE really talk to? Divya will never understand him. she's too naive. WHO can he really talk to??

maybe now that's he's made peace with his destiny, the only people he can talk to are viren and nivi...but them too he cannot talk to, because it'll cause THEM pain and SID can never do that...so in reality, he has no one to talk to ....except for his mom....but he can't talk to her either...because she'll only cry for his pain and he would not want to give her any pain either.....

he needs a real friend, and one would hope that in your life partner you could find such a friend and find your happiness in that person....

i really hope that they develop a sid-divya track....both deserve their share of happiness.

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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 9:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by starz4me

Bani...........A wonderful post for Sid.

 
And yes i do agree with ur title when its says.........Sid is like a sponge.....who absorbs others pain......n anger.
Its true that there was injustice donw to Sid......but at one time it had been done to Viren....(misunderstanding it might be.....but still).
 
But i luv the way Sid has been such big-hearted true big brother......i mean he had accepted his life however it may have......with twists n turns.....happiness n sorrows...........n yet he had kept n valaued his family above all.
 
Its wonderful to see Sid playing a guiding light for Viren......in helping him to understand his own feelings for Nivi............only a true big-brother....n a true friend is capable of such doings.
 
I'm really touched by his actions in the past few episodes coz earlier then that i thought that he hardly cared for what was going on in Viren n Nivi's life.........but now i realized that he was trying to help them by giving them thier space so that they can work things out.......n when it didnt happen............he stepped forward.
 
As much as Viren has been appreciated......i also think that Sid shud be........n that will not make him closer to Nivi...(as its what many are afraid of)..........coz i think Sid (apart from the few stupid mistakes).....had been humble n persistent since beginning.
 
And a very big applause for him .... ClapClapClapClapClapClap
 
(But i wud rather not say anything about him with Divya (which is one contradicting character.......the less said about her....the more its better).
 
Thanks for your lovely reply. You know Sonal, when I opened this post, I never tried to find fault with others, but just spoke the truth from Sid's point of view. That everyone has punished him or taken back at Sid, sometime he was at mistake (about Nivedita and Keshav), sometime not (with Viren, CC and JW). Even the mistake he made about Keshav, that particular circumstance was created by CC and JW, and even an experienced person like DS could not keep his faith and misunderstood. But, when both DS and Sid understood, both tried to undo. This undoing is not with the intention that Nivi-Sid reunite (DS went to KS when there was no hope about Sid-Nivi and Sid also bowed down to DS's wish but still tried to apologise to Nivedita and NT dadi, Keshav was missing).
Nivedita blamed Sid for stalking and labelled him "characterless", but never apologised. Viren framed Sid, but never apologised. He just apologised to DS. May be, these days "seeking apology" it out of trend.
 
Sid deserves a person much better than Divya. I never write in terms of Nivedita-Sid romance, as I care least. They have moved ahead in their life, Nivedita was not forced by anyone to marry Viren, it was her decision,. But in Sid's case, he was literally forced by the family to marry someone against his wish. He could have parted ways with Nivedita, thats ok...but at least down the line, he would have found someone whom he could fall in love.
 
Sid and Divya are complete mismatches. Divya is no match to Sid's patience. Sid needs a wife, who can understand him just by seeing his face. I am sorry, whatever basic character Divya has, she can never fit into that.

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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 9:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by suzi_b

Originally posted by Omshanti1111


 
 
I am wondering what story they tried to start in July and where they landed!LOL
 
 
 

After 4 months i tried checking on what's going on in what was once my fav serial......n i don't seem to recognize it at allDead................even i have come to the same conclusion.........the beautiful love story that ccbm began with on 28th June 2010..........is nowhere to be seen...........

Sid n his Putul........Lost forever??? what a shame!!!!
actually, a nice love triangle could be sketched with Sid-Nivi-Viren with no negativity. This Divya character needed to be dumped long back.  That would have been worth watching. At the end, it could be Nivi-Viren united, as Viren needs a girl like Nivedita more than Sid.
 
Its unfortunate that CCBM showed such an example, that people who scheme and plan win, and people who become victims of evil people's schemes, need to adjust and accomodate. whatever is being shown about Divya, HL, CC and JW are forced incorporations. All of a sudden, Divya turns magically self-less, CC and HL turned full villains, after experimenting the same with DS....
 
People in these days do not like "soft love stories", or it could be the creatives could not make it appealing. These days, when songs like "Munni badnaam and Zandu balm.." become hits in place of soft romantic tunes, one can imagine what audiences want....Confused


Edited by Omshanti1111 - 23 March 2011 at 9:56am

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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 9:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kgh212121

You know I was JUST thinking about this yesterday.

There are wayy too many posts here to go thru and read all of them.

but i agree with those of you who say "What about Sid?" he constantly thinks of other people's happiness. he's never given a proper apology or words of love. it's one thing to be thought of as the "favorite" but quite another to be happy with his own life. being a good son, husband, grandson, nephew...they're all great. but that can be done with the greatest turmoils within. who can HE really talk to? Divya will never understand him. she's too naive. WHO can he really talk to??

maybe now that's he's made peace with his destiny, the only people he can talk to are viren and nivi...but them too he cannot talk to, because it'll cause THEM pain and SID can never do that...so in reality, he has no one to talk to ....except for his mom....but he can't talk to her either...because she'll only cry for his pain and he would not want to give her any pain either.....

he needs a real friend, and one would hope that in your life partner you could find such a friend and find your happiness in that person....

i really hope that they develop a sid-divya track....both deserve their share of happiness.
 
I am sorry but I can never think Divya can fir that "companion" status of Sid. They are complete mismatches. Divya will snatch her share of happiness, by hook and by crook.

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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 10:58am | IP Logged
Opps looks like I missed this thread somewhere when I was scanning through the forum.

I'm going to try not repeating anything....but I do have a goldfish memory Wink

I think your right Bani about Sid being a sponge for many reasons that you (and others) have already stated so I'm not going to repeat them.

But I think Sid character has not been developed properly and there were alot of chances in the storyline to give him more of a role....to make him stand out...especially as a brother but the CV just missed it all together.

Sid was mis treated in lots of ways

Nivi backing out of the engagement without telling him
Getting married to someone he did not want to
Getting accused my Nivi of being the stalker
Trying to be framed by Viren etc

He has also made his mistakes of not backing Nivi and her dad etc...not talking up...
But one can look at it this way...Nivi backing out of the engagement without telling him...will put a mark on Nivi character in his views. The person you love the most decides herself that she's going to sacrifice their love for another? Love that shared by two people sacrificed by one? After she does this...her dads issues comes out? And will all the manipulation done by CC+JW....he fell for it and didnt stand up for Nivi. 

But from what I hear he did go say sorry to Nivi...but she didnt accept it. She was right in her own way for not accepting. And Sid let it go too far when he let Kheshav get physically hurt. But he did have the heart to go say sorry, which is a good thing.

But when it comes to people saying sorry to Sid it just doesnt happen?

Nivi accused him of being a stalker....but never said sorry about that?

Did we get a sorry from Viren for his framing? (I'm not sure about this one)

But he had the heart to give Viren advice on Nivi being his love...(because he went through the same feeling)
I was hoping there he would shine alittle more but nothing much...(but I do like the CV are showing him to be the guide)
Also I was hoping Viren would feel sorry to Sid for kind of stealing Nivi from him....and that for the wrong reason....maybe a little sorry from Viren to Sid? I dunno something?

Would have been a better brother bonding. 

Nivi needed to leave the Soods house....and Viren needed to go through a lot of self regret and improvement....

Wanted to see more of his regret for his family and healing and also for Nivi...

But the way Nivi left the Soods house makes me do wonder as Bani said...is she subconsciously revengeful?  



Edited by peacefulblossom - 23 March 2011 at 3:07pm

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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 1:21pm | IP Logged
@bahar
 
actually, Sid made mistake, I do agree. His mistake was on that day, he could not solve the puzzle that JW and CC had sketched so diligently. And he saw Keshav getting insulted physically! But Nivedita also witnessed the same. When Sid came to know about Keshav's innocence from outsiders, Nivedita had her belief in herself, that her father was innocent and has been framed. So, both Sid and Nivedita did not do anything for Keshav's innocence. Sid needed proof about Keshav, but Nivedita as a daughter does not need proof, if indeed she believes in her father. After JW physically abused Keshav in front of Nivedita, Nivedita was still catering to JW and seek his and CC's blessings, as her obsession for Divya was more than her duty towards her father.
 
Nivedita while deciding, never ever considered Sid's views, whether before or after. She took a one-sided decision on the engagement day. Later, she just thought as Divya's sister, not as a human being, who can feel the pain of another human called Siddharth Sood. That Siddharth might not be her lover, but just she could have considered him a normal normal being, a friend of hers, who was passing through a tough time to accept Divya. Today, Sid is trying to adjust to Divya, but things could have been worse also. Sid might have failed to accept Divya's nature. Then? Is Nivedita not aware of Divya's nature? Marriuage is about compatibity and Divya and Sid are nature wise poles apart. Some time, since a guy is rich does not decide every happiness. Divya chose Sid, as Sid is rich, there is no mental match between the two. Sid loves his family and his subordinates so much, Divya is just concerned about her own comforts and happiness.
 
Creatives made a very bad story about this Sid-Divya. They are just mismatches.
 


Edited by Omshanti1111 - 23 March 2011 at 1:22pm

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Posted: 23 March 2011 at 2:55pm | IP Logged
@Bani

Everyone makes mistakes, doesnt mean one mistake should distroy your life. In one way the CV have done a good thing by showing everyone makes mistakes and no one is prefect....but they could have shown it in a better way.

I'm not even going to talk about Divya that girl is not worth it. I have no idea how Sid is dealing with her and actually falling for her >_<


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