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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 8:52am | IP Logged
I watched from the beginning and I am not sure that I see what you see.  I don't see Sid as this mahaan person that you are making him out to seem.
1. DS did not force Sid to marry Divya.  He expressed his strong wishes, but Sid never stood up and told anyone (except his mother) that he was in love with someone else.  Sid in his mind cannot stand against his elders even if it's for the sake of his life.  I just wanted him to strictly say that he does not want to marry Divya.  It was a matter of his life, and he just couldn't muster the courage to say - no, I don't want to marry Divya!  He just went along with it, all while feeling miserable.
2. Nivi didn't force Sid to marry Divya.  Yes, she wanted Divya to get happiness.  But, I never saw that she was doing this to get revenge on Sid.  Instead, even after she is upset over the insult to her family, she still thinks of Divya's happiness.  She didn't get married to Viren because of revenge, but to make herself less accessible so that Sid would think about marrying Divya.  And, Nivi never thought of Divya as being unable to love someone ...
3. Divya is capable of loving ... she has changed and started to grow as a character.  I think you and I see very differently about her.  But, I don't see her as the completely selfish character you see.  And, I think that Sid and Divya have started to understand each other and can be happy together.  And, as Divya matures, she will learn how to fend off her mother and start to think for herself.
 

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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 9:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by samirah23

I watched from the beginning and I am not sure that I see what you see.  I don't see Sid as this mahaan person that you are making him out to seem.
1. DS did not force Sid to marry Divya.  He expressed his strong wishes, but Sid never stood up and told anyone (except his mother) that he was in love with someone else.  Sid in his mind cannot stand against his elders even if it's for the sake of his life.  I just wanted him to strictly say that he does not want to marry Divya.  It was a matter of his life, and he just couldn't muster the courage to say - no, I don't want to marry Divya!  He just went along with it, all while feeling miserable.
I remember well, Sid did express to Vandana and Vandana herself talked to DS when he was in hospital. Even CC was aware that Sid was in love with Nivedita.
 
2. Nivi didn't force Sid to marry Divya.  Yes, she wanted Divya to get happiness.  But, I never saw that she was doing this to get revenge on Sid.  Instead, even after she is upset over the insult to her family, she still thinks of Divya's happiness.  She didn't get married to Viren because of revenge, but to make herself less accessible so that Sid would think about marrying Divya.  And, Nivi never thought of Divya as being unable to love someone ...
True, Sid could have behaved adamant. Everyone could make out he was not happy.,But YD warned VD and Sis, that DS's wish need to be fulfilled. YD herself was not happy about Sharma daughter being married to Sood, but she bowed down to her husband's wish. Your interpretation might be right, but I look at Nivedita's intention as being revengeful towards Sid. That Sid made a mistake and needs to be punished by marrying a girl, he does not love.
3. Divya is capable of loving ... she has changed and started to grow as a character.  I think you and I see very differently about her.  But, I don't see her as the completely selfish character you see.  And, I think that Sid and Divya have started to understand each other and can be happy together.  And, as Divya matures, she will learn how to fend off her mother and start to think for herself.
Human beings know the best for themselves. Divya knew that somehow she had to get married to Sid, even HL and Nivedita knew that once Divya is married to Sid, Sid will never do anything to shrug Divya off. All the women knew Sid's nature that he is soft-hearted and will take all pain, but will never turn down the family's wish or reputation. Sid is adjusting, and he has no other way, as he is married to Divya, this is called "compromise" . He is dutiful towards his wife and his family. And Divya's best bet is to act dutiful and understanding, even if she is not. Divya wanted to marry Sid by hook and by crook and wanted to be known as "Mrs. Sid Sood". She just now needs to act a little smart, make some "good" statements, show a little understanding and time and again make Sid feel guilty. These three things are the keys to her controlling Sid.
 
to me, a "mahaan" person is someone who is dutiful and who can find happiness in others happiness. Like what Sid is doing, he never questioned DS, that why DS wanted Sid to marry Divya? He accepted DS's wish. As soon as he got married, he never did anything to defame anyone, rather Nivedita blasted him off with allegations of "Sid being characterless and stalking her".He kept all pain in himself, and at the same time bore his wife's allegations and tantrums (if u remember). He never had any complaint against Viren, despite knowing that Viren framed him. Rather he understood Viren's pain and felt his pain.

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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 9:34am | IP Logged
anyways, its better not to waste time of others and mine here....
discussions can be done when members can put off the actors and analyse the characters...which hardly happens here.

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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 10:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Omshanti1111

"a little knowing is a dangerous thing"...

I think many who are hooked to CCBM, did not watch the beginning of CCBM ROFL and make ignorant comments... its good to be ignorant sometime thoughROFL...but its really painful to read ignorant comments...this was exactly what had happened in another lead show of the same production house, and its hilarious, to read different interpretations now.

CCBM had a full proof story before Viren was introduced and even before the "fight" had happened.
 
Those who have watched CCBM will know how Nivedita despite going out for midnight dates and hugging and kissing Sid, just shrugged off Sid even before she and her family was insulted by Soods. I wonder, if instead of Nivedita, Sid was in love with another girl and Nivedita after knowing that Divya loves Sid, what not she would have done to get rid of that girl from Sid's life?...I anticipate she might have played a game with HL to get that girl out of Sid's life and fix Divya into Sid's life.
 
The beauty of Sid's character is Sid married Divya, just to keep DS's wish, but at the same time when he came to know that Nivedita still loves him, he tried to rectify but Nivedita wanted to marry Viren, she also had her own good reasons. After that, he kept his pain to himself and tried to be a nice husband to Divya and also never ever questioned DS, why DS forced him to marry Divya? He could have easily schemed or planned against DS or shrugged off Divya, but he did not. He could have easily schemed and planned against Nivedita and Viren after knowing how theyt behaved with him but he did not.
 
My opinion is Nivedita is a "subconsciously" revengeful character, she does not believe in either apologising or forgiving....she will come back to Viren also, but she wants Viren to fall on her feet and cry buckets and then she will accept him.
 
 hi sorry if i made u feel bad with my comments  n u r right i am 1 of those ppl who dnt watch the serial when it 1st started coz i stay in south africa n the serial only started in nov- in my post i forgot to mention that i did realize that he got married to d coz of DS's wish. but i feel that most of the comments that i made ab him dnt actually relate to the love story that happened btw him n nivi from the beginning but rather his behavior during his wedding and afterwards.- n the comments that i made wnt ignorant coz i mean u just have to look at the wedding scene or when D had those dolls n wanted to float them in the river i mean he did hurt her-  even though D kn that he was marrying her 4 his DS sake she dnt kn the whole story n if she did she wnt have married her. but the truth is that i think the reason i dislike sidd is coz the actor who plays acted so bad, i just could not connect with his character -he just seemed unnatural in the role-he just dnt stand out 4 me- but after 4 months of watching him i realise he is nt 2 bad.( he is acting much better).
secondly i dnt think that nivi is a subconscious vengeful character i mean what did u expect her to do when on her cousin wedding day the husband 2 be  is telling her  he is going to  stop the wedding n he dnt care if her cousin is hurt or not- as for viren that dude needs to cry buckets n buckets of tears b4 she accepts him back after what he did.
oh i just wanted to kn since i dnt watch the serial from the beginning in yours n any1 else unbiased opinion who has watched the serial from the beginning whose chemistry is better sid/nivi or niviren

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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 11:18am | IP Logged

I don't know y ssome people think themselves as authority on CCBM coz they think they r the only ones who have watched CCBM from the beginning. Well we have also watched it from the beginning that's y we have this opinion coz if we had started watching the serial from the middle our sympathies would have been with S. coz he has been portrayed so goody goody after that. If anyone watches S. character with the eyes closed we really can't do anything abt it coz the people who watch it with eyes closed can see his character to be flawless.

- On a wedding day ur sis to be hubby wants to cancel the wedding any self respect sis would do the same what Nivi did coz if she would not have done it then she would have been selfish to let her sis and her family get humiliated by S.
 
- S. could have still refuse to get marry to D. when Nivi was leaving with Viren but he very quietly went and sat down in mandap.
 
- S. at that time told Viren that goess he not care abt the family honor and on the other hand he was also abt to do the same thing and not only play with his family honor but the bride side family honor as well.
 
- S. started looking for the truth only after Nivi blamed him for whatever was happening around her and he wanted to prove himself innocent and not to help Nivi coz otherwise he seemed totally fine when Nivi was being declared mad and was dragged.
 
These r just the few incidents. I can also come up with the lot more. Still after doing all this he is being declared so innocent wowwwwwwwwwwwww

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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 11:42am | IP Logged
@sandiab
 
Thanks for your comment. I'ld read it in more detail later. I am sorry I gave a glance and I am writing you a reply. Please excuse me, if it does not fit your response.
 
actually, I think you are mistaken about me. I am not talking about Sid-Nivedita marriage or anything. I never did and will never do. By default, it is taken in the forum, whoever speaks anything other praising Nivedita-Viren, speak about Sid-Nivi marriageROFL. If you have read my comments and could really feel my comments, you would have understood that I do not speak about any love story. I talk about the story point of view. Kinshuk looking good with a girl is a different concept, that in no way, is related to the original story concept. I am talking about the story. I do not think too great about TV actors, except a few, and hence I am the last person to get woo-ed by a TV actor. I talk only about the story. The story was something different in the beginning and it has no relation to that now.
 
why i wrote about watching the show from beginning: because then only one can know the whole picture and one event led to another, how each character has been built. I myself started watching when the story has progressed a lot, but I was a part of that major group in that forum. But Ithen  could read some beautiful analyses from some other people who have watched from the beginning and that made me watch all the precious episodes and know what is what! ( those people were all chased away from this forum unfortunately).
 
 the main triumph card in this show is Kinshuk Mahajan. You cast him with any girl, the show will be a hit. But that does not determine right and wrong in the story track. This show would have reached a pick with the love triangle of Sid-Nivi-Viren, and there was no need of stalking or any negativity. But my guess is the story is being drastically altered lately and is being catered to show romanticisms, emotional drama more to increase TRPs. I was really hoping to see Kinshuk Mahajan in an "unique " role as was promised, but he was just reduced to less than a mediocre character.
 
My predictions are:
 
Nivedita will be proved to be a good sister through Yash's problems now.
Nivedita's caracter will be sketched like that of Kajol of that Anil-Kajol starrer Hum aap ke dil..,,
Nivedita will be shown a good daughter..
Divya's basic character will be altered and all of a sudden, she will become the best wife and sister of this world.
 
these are all to make up for the loopholes of the story, because the story needed to be altered.
 
I dont write much in this forum anymore, just because I dont get time and I can very well predict the story progression. And also, most of the sensible members who used to give analyses from a story point of view are all gone. May be, I wont respond to your reply anymore...thanks for the discussion.


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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 11:46am | IP Logged
I think creatives did not make a good concept by making Sid so understanding towards Viren and Nivi. If creatives had to show Nivedita the best, some alterations in Nivedita and Sid's character were necessary. Like, if Sid had schemed and planned instead, that would have been easier to point finger at him...
 
because, all through, Nivedita and Viren and Viren's parents were instrumental in defaming and accusing Sid. Despite being accused, framed etc etc , Sid does not hold anything but good towards Viren and Nivedita. Thats the best answer Sid could give to them, good wishes against their accusations and wrongdoings.

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Posted: 22 March 2011 at 9:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by zarmeeno

I don't know y ssome people think themselves as authority on CCBM coz they think they r the only ones who have watched CCBM from the beginning. Well we have also watched it from the beginning that's y we have this opinion coz if we had started watching the serial from the middle our sympathies would have been with S. coz he has been portrayed so goody goody after that. If anyone watches S. character with the eyes closed we really can't do anything abt it coz the people who watch it with eyes closed can see his character to be flawless.

- On a wedding day ur sis to be hubby wants to cancel the wedding any self respect sis would do the same what Nivi did coz if she would not have done it then she would have been selfish to let her sis and her family get humiliated by S.
 
- S. could have still refuse to get marry to D. when Nivi was leaving with Viren but he very quietly went and sat down in mandap.
 
- S. at that time told Viren that goess he not care abt the family honor and on the other hand he was also abt to do the same thing and not only play with his family honor but the bride side family honor as well.
 
- S. started looking for the truth only after Nivi blamed him for whatever was happening around her and he wanted to prove himself innocent and not to help Nivi coz otherwise he seemed totally fine when Nivi was being declared mad and was dragged.
 
These r just the few incidents. I can also come up with the lot more. Still after doing all this he is being declared so innocent wowwwwwwwwwwwww
 
Dear i watched from the beginning with my eyes open but  I don't know who is S? My guss is Siddharth...right!
Well Siddharth did not have any choice...Viren used Nivi to get even with Sid. See look at Nivi now she doesn't care about society any more. So why would worry about what others talking about and their family honor. Sad to say sometimes people have to go through difficult time inorder for them to understand what life is. What Nivi did to Siddharth is wrong....Sidharth was trying to shout her up while she was rasing her voice infront of his family.See I think Siddharth knew the consequenses....also Nivi's grandmother she slapped her after that incidence.  If you know about the family hounor and rich people like YA...U need to be very carefull. I am 100% sure Nivi realized her mistake by now. She is going to be better person now own...no flute and candle light dinner going make her happy anymore. She is her own....finally!!.......*sigh*

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