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Will Bharti's friendship w/ Sudha be changed... (Page 2)

Poll Question: ... by the revealation that Sudha now adores Murli?

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Posted: 21 March 2011 at 12:37am | IP Logged
i disagree with one thing murli didnt marry her for his financial security or use it as a stepping stone to move up in life ..... only mirdala had that intention..for murli the sole reason is veena's marriage.....he never asked for anything from rupesh if so murli would have left bharti there itself when he came to know rupesh lost everything but he helped him with the money he gave him.....if rupesh hadnt given them that house they would have continued to live in their small house which might be uncomfortable for bharti.... only mistake is he should not have asked her house after deciding to divorce her....when he rejects bharti he must reject her wealth also Angry.....its weird why sudha is not asking murli how they r living in such a luxurious house Stern Smile ..she knows how poor they are Confused ..if she asks the truth about bharti will easily come out Confused

& whether bharti likes to marry only a normal guy or not will be known only if they show as amit who also saved her and supporting her, loving bharti and asking for her hand (but i doubt whether cvs will take that risk Stern Smile) coz when rupesh was tired of searching a var for bharti her emotional dialogues were something like she will remain unmarried coz God hasnt written anything like marriage in her fate so she will proceed with her studies and she was sad for not being able to fulfill her dad's wish.....she never asked her dad to search for someone like her so that he would accept her wholeheartedly and would never treat her differently....so bharti's wish is getting married or getting married to a normal guy Stern Smile

i dnt think there is any need to give bharli a second chance to reconcile coz the very reason for their divorce is murli not comfortable of bharti's short height ..unless bharti grows taller murli would never accept her wholeheartedly LOL

coming to y murli beleived prakash over bharti whereas amit beleives bharti is amit has nothing to lose by trusting her words whereas for murli veena's marriage was at stake .... unfortunately bharti's timing of revealing prakash's truth was wrong ...when neelam asked her she said nothing coz she is not her family member but at the end she disclosed everything in front of all guests ROFL  and she had no proof .... imagine if it was gau's trick to stop veena's wedding and prakash was genuine LOL ..so i dont blame murli for not listening to bharti that time with no proof....






Edited by --jas-- - 21 March 2011 at 12:43am

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Posted: 21 March 2011 at 1:40am | IP Logged
I don't see why he needs so much of proof to believe Bharti but he was willing to believe all the crap by Prakash at face value. Prakash isn't his wife, Bharti was.  Are you telling me, you will be asking for substantial proof from your husband, wife, mother, father, sisters because you think they are out to get you and  in this case ruin your sister's life??? Do you think your own family member wld find such joy in ruining another subling's life for heck of it??? Being family is all abt trust and I find it appaling that people don't trust their own family or use their god given brains to put two and two together! Stern Smile Murli's famlily and Veena were so excited abt the prospect of marriage like Prakash was something sent from the heaven's above that they didn't want to risk anything. For the love of god. *rolling eyes*
There is saying my nanima used to say  that you have to go to four different villages to find out about a guy before getting your daughter married, which Murli's family failed to do.
 
As for Bharti asking like you said wanting to marry a normal guy , I think is justified coz she sees herself as flawed, so it wld make sense she wants something better.  Forget Bharti is a dwarf, there are so many ppl in this world, who marry for money, and name because they think it is best for them to move up from where they are.  We always want someone better than us to compliment us, it's simple logic.
 
I guess we'll just agree to disagree.Smile


Edited by fuzzyface - 21 March 2011 at 11:10am
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Posted: 21 March 2011 at 5:48am | IP Logged
i completely agree with u fuzzyface! murli was wrong in the first place for actually marrying bharti and then treating her like some kind of dirt. I think after a week or so of their marriage, he had already made up his mind of ending the relationship without thinking abt her once. For him what only mattered was that veena getting married but since that didn't happen, he threw her out of his life.
 
 
 
 
I don't see why he needs so much of proof to believe Bharti but he was willing to believe all the crap by Prakash at face value. Prakash isn't his wife, Bharti was.  Are you telling me, you will be asking for substantial proof from your husband, wife, mother, father, sisters because you think they are out to get you and  in this case ruin your sister's life??? Do you think your own family member wld find such joy in ruining another subling's life for heck of it??? Being family is all abt trust and I find it appaling that people don't trust their own family or use their god given brains to put two and two together! Stern Smile Murli's famlily and Veena were so excited abt the prospect of marriage like Prakash was something sent from the heaven's above that they didn't want to risk anything. For the love of god. *rolling eyes*
There is saying my nanima used to say  that you have to go to four different villages to find out about a guy before getting your daughter married, which Murli's family failed to do.
 
As for her revelation, I suppose it was over the top.
 
"i dnt think there is any need to give bharli a second chance to reconcile coz the very reason for their divorce is murli not comfortable of bharti's short height ..unless bharti grows taller murli would never accept her wholeheartedly"----- This is exactly the point of the show, dwarfism is metaphor used to show how people should be able to look beyond what is physical and see the person for what they are worth inside really. If like you said Murli isn't comfortable with Bharti who is flawed in his eyes, then he is blind like most of us.
 
As for Bharti asking like you said wanting to marry a normal guy , I think is justified coz she sees herself as flawed, so it wld make sense she wants something better.  Forget Bharti is a dwarf, there are so many ppl in this world, who marry for money, and name because they think it is best for them to move up from where they are.  We always want someone better than us to compliment us, it's simple logic.
 
I cld go on but I guess we'll just agree to disagree.Smile
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Posted: 21 March 2011 at 7:27am | IP Logged
Originally posted by fuzzyface

As for Bharti asking like you said wanting to marry a normal guy , I think is justified coz she sees herself as flawed, so it wld make sense she wants something better.  Forget Bharti is a dwarf, there are so many ppl in this world, who marry for money, and name because they think it is best for them to move up from where they are.  We always want someone better than us to compliment us, it's simple logic.

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If the USP of the show is to focus attention on the way people who are different are treated - be it b'cos of their height, or appearance, or whatever, it would have made sense had they showed Bharti & Amit being discriminated against in public - say @ employment, or social/public events (like the scooter incident).  Would have been perfectly in order.

But marriage?  Every guy and girl has a right to marry someone s/he is comfortable w/, no matter what the criteria.  At the start of the serial, they showed the obnoxious groom that Rupesh was grovelling in front of b4 he introduced Bharti.  Granted, the behavior of 'Sita' - the obnoxious bhabi - was uncalled for, but I don't hold it against the grooms for saying no.  Yeah, they could have been a lot more civil about it, but lets face it, Rupesh wasn't exactly Mr Manners the way he went about it.

Maybe, somewhere, there was a normal height guy who could/would have accepted Bharti - their job was to find him.  But instead, they were just subjecting different guys thru guilt trips if they didn't want to marry someone so short.  Murli too had the right to say no.  I do fault him for saying yes, and I don't give him a pass for Veena's marriage.  But all that said, now that they've recognized their mistake at least here, I'm all for them moving on.  Yeah, Murli can apologize to Bharti for not believing her about Prakash (and I'd like him to publicly kick Gau out of the house when he does that), but beyond that, I don't want the 2 of them ending up together.  Just separate on good terms, maybe agree to remain just friends while moving on - maybe Murli w/ Sudha & Bharti w/ Amit.


Edited by _Vrish_ - 21 March 2011 at 11:07am

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Posted: 21 March 2011 at 7:54am | IP Logged
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Bharti should concentrate on revealing Prakash's truth and Vrish like you said it is quite convenient that  Amit support her without any catch.

As far as Rupesh is concerned, he shld learn a lesson too because he was part of the root of the problem.




Edited by fuzzyface - 23 March 2011 at 11:00am
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Posted: 21 March 2011 at 9:07am | IP Logged
well guyz....
now comes the point TRUST. murli didn't believe bharti. this is the not the point. bharti should have first discussed it with murli rather than making it public. this was a mistake done by bharti & talking about why the family trusted prakash over bharti is the fact that prakash didn't come to see veena all by himself. he was brought over there. who brought him? of course mridang. who is mridang? - the elder son of the Lal family. 
who is prakash? - mridang's friend, they both were working at the same place. so how would the family think that mridang would do something wrong to veena. of course the Lal family trusted prakash but it meant that the Lal family were actually trusting their son mridang over their DIL bharti. the lal family didn't do any kind of investigation regarding prakash bcoz mridang had referred prakash as a suitable var for veena. so maybe the Lal family thought that prakash is a good guy & that's why was suggested by mridang.

now after mridang showed his true colors, the Lal family will not trust him anymore. but at that point of time, they definitely trusted him. so is the lal family suffering bcoz they trusted their son?

& talking about trusting one's father, bro, sis, wife, mother...well this is something that is seriously confusing in the TV serial world. whom to trust over whom is the question? for example, what happened when datta of Laagi tujhse lagan trusted his sister over his wife, he trusted his sister over his wife & the irony is that his sister kala was a vamp & his wife nakusha was good. another example of Jyoti, sushma trusted her husband brij over her sister jyoti & the irony is brij was evil & her sister was good.... in KMH, arjun poonj had trusted his father over arohi so & the irony is his father was actually playing games & arohi was the good girl... so we can't blame murli here. he's not only the only victim who's trusted the bad over good. we can find thousands of examples.

so whom to trust, we know it coz we're watching the serial so we know who's the villain who's the good guy but those who are playing the characters? they're not watching the serial. murli wasn't watching when mridala were plotting against the family by using prakash, so how he'll know who is speaking the truth.


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Posted: 21 March 2011 at 9:17am | IP Logged
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Didn't mean to offend you - I apologize if you read it that way.  It's just that I thought I read a double standard, and chose to address it that way.

I agree w/ Vik above - the Lals weren't totally off base to trust Prakash.  In fact, I find it somewhat curious that Amit chooses to trust Bharti over Prakash, when Bharti is nobody of Amit's but a colleague, while Prakash was his friend for a while.

Once Bharti is vindicated, the best thing the Lals could do for her is kick Mridala out of the house, and if possible, offer to return it to her.

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i want to add something here... what's BAVD about? it's about a girl who faces many obstacles in life bcoz of her short height. obviously the gist of the story is that people who lack height are also human beings just like us. they are not to be treated like aliens or abnormal people they are normal people. it's just the height but in that case every people differ in their height, some are tall, some are short, some are average. so what's the definition of a normal height then? is it 3 feet or 3.5 or 4 or 4.5 or 5, 5.1 or 5.2 or 5.5 or 5.8 or 6 or 6.2 or 6.4??? the thing is there's no specific definition of what a normal height should be? then why is there discrimination regarding height? this is what the story of BAVD is about - that those who have short height are normal people & should be viewed in that way. so in this case bharti is like any normal girl & has rights to dream of a normal guy & if we say this then the same theory applies to amit as well. amit too is a normal guy just like murli. so the conclusion is that there's no problem for bharti choosing amit coz amit isn't abnormal is he???

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