Posted: 19 March 2011 at 4:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by GVVN
Ooops apologies and no hard feelings,I am just feeling sorry for the character Maan Singh Khurana.
What is even more sad is I am feeling bad for a fictional character which will change according to the way makers want,so no issues,at the end of the day it is a fiction.
Hehehehehehe now that is indeed sad,writing for a fictional character which will indeed teach you something about how stupid women can be.
But still,Maan's nature justified from a man's point of view.
He is the ideal personality most men wud hate to follow,becoz he is too idolised by writers of Geet but he is the ideal man every women or most women wud love to have as life partner.
Geet giving credit to Dev for she being happy and smiling..
So what,any man who loves his women alot wud be happy and feel good to see his partner happy and smiling after a tragedy as big as what happened to Geet and wud bother least who made her happy and smile.
But if the person happens to be the one who slept with your wife and is her ex hubby,real father of the child and above all is the one who cheated her and left her alone and when she was left alone you were there for her,you accept her with her past,you stand by her and support her in every circumstances,you marry her and assure her that the child was his and after doing all this you hear your wife praising the one who did all the misdoings earlier,your heart wud bleed and wud bleed so badly that you wud even consider of taking the extreme step of getting seperated.
Simple human tendency and one of the seven sins "jealously"
No man or women wud ever entertain the opposite partner praising and giving credit to the culprit who ruined their life.
For some reason writers end up ruining Geet's character every 60 episodes.
Now she is praising the one who ruined her life and above all is making her own husband feel incompetant and not good enough to understand her when she was upset and in depression.
For some reason writers always potray Geet a bit selfish,some girl who feels her sorrow and pain is so high that anyone managing to make her happy is a hero.
Poor Maan Sing Khurana,he made a mistake of moving baby's memories and became a big culprit in eyes of Geet and on the other hand culprit Dev despite doing the worst possible misdoings is getting praises for his small gestures.
Well that is something you wud call selfishness by Geet and for some it is stupidity by Geet but trust me on this there are women in the society as selfish as Geet.
For those who feel it is ok to praise a person like Dev who also saved your hubbie's life,I am really sorry,no man can ever accept his wife saying what Geet said about Dev and that is why Maan Singh Khurana is such a great character.
Well Selfishness by Geet at pathetic best,she proudly tells Maan why she was happy and because of whom she was happy,forgetting the fact that her husband too was upset with the tragedy and above all was feeling guilty for moving the memories and she jumps in to make him feel even more guilty by praising the culprit in her life.
Maan and Geet were always loved for the fact
" Love for Geet in Maan's eyes and respect for Maan in Geet's eyes"
Something which drove fans crazy and make them feel they are real and someone to idolise.
It was November 2010 when I had suggested the makers to take day to day general issues and show the society how to deal with it taking Maan and Geet as characters and Drashti and Gurmeet as actors becoz it will have an impact.
But unfortunately the writers end up showing what I guess every daily soap does and rightly so to move the story forward.
It feels bad for a character like Maan and one feels Geet does not deserve a person like Maan Singh Khurana when she is shown doing such stupid acts,which offcourse is an outcome of someone's stupid thought who is just incapable of handling the real life situation in a better manner and despite knowing how highly fans feel for the characters Maaneet,somehow they manage to degarde the characters with some illogical plot.
Love for Geet in Maan's eyes was always shown but with time respect for Maan in Geet's eyes faded and made their pair look very substandard and nothing special.
1) Be it Geet running away from the engagement party.
2) Be it Geet rejecting Maan infront of clients and media
3) Be it Geet now,praising Dev despite knowing Maan hates it alot and all this when she knows she is married to the person who was there with her when she was in the worst possible condition and the one who gave her new dreams and taught her to fight and survive in society.
At the end of the day,one feels it is highly stupid thinking and writing for a character which is fictional,but mind it,people do keep in mind the things seen on TV and do develop perceptions in real life and if it happens to be an impact from Maan and Geet then many take it far more seriously than they shud.
The way writers potray Geet as one selfish girl who thinks about her own pain,one seriously feels bad and hopes a character like Maan Singh Khurana retaliates,but he wud not becoz that wud mess up things.
But certainly if I was Maan Singh Khurana,then the next plot wud be Maan certainly misunderstanding Geet for all right reasons and teaching her a good lesson and that would be,
" If you cannot understand your life partner and his or her feelings,and continue to prove your point without understanding its impact,you are bound to face its consequences and that too some serious ones"
It matters least what is shown in Geet these days becoz the writers have already killed and messed up with the characters Maan and Geet,but you certainly feel sad for the team which does not do justice to their USP.
GVN wishes everyone good night and is happy to see Manchester United win against Bolton in the 88th minute.
you wrote so good..............you wrote all I wanted to say..............with perfect words................