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Indifference and Forgiveness vs Anger and Hatred (Page 3)

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:11am | IP Logged
Originally posted by hamavand

A very good post. I agree with all the "facts" u have quoted. i always believe in one thing....U can forgive a person for all/any wrong he/she may have done to u, but u can never ever forget the wrongs done to u...so even if Geet forgives him she will never forget the wrong he has done to her.
Yes, it is easier to forgive but next to impossible to forget, unless you have short memory by nature.  With a scar as deep as the one Dev inflicted on her, there is no way Geet can forget it.  If the CVs show otherwise then they suffer from short memory.

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by spshastr

Opti Clap 
 
To err is human and to forgive is divine
 
Opti it takes a lot of strength to forgive a person who has wronged you like Dev has but then I agree if she has to live in the same house what is the use of the hatred? SHe should not forgetSmile
Well, I wouldn't confer divinity to Geet even if she does because I feel she would do it more for her own peace than because she wants to ease Dev's conscience. Moreover, Dev did not just err, he sinned and what he did was far from human.

Yes, with Dev living under the same roof, there is every reason for bitterness to creep in and with forgiveness that bitterness is washed away setting her free. 

I agree that she should not forget because that way she will never suffer again if he tries to take advantage of her.

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by jyoti06

Woww this is a post which really made me see the other side of the coin especially the way u hv used those perfect phrases with the current situationClapClap
 
 
The moral of the story is forgiveness is not equal to forgetting everythingThumbs Up....Also we dunno the context under which Geet will forgive Dev if at all she forgives him as per the articles.....and forgiving someone does not make one weak but it goes on to show the strength of character of that person and somewhere makes the real culprit more guilty of what he did...
 
 
Opti I hv pasted your link on the FB page as well where many feel Geet's character is weak just because she might forgive her culprit....


Thanks Jyo. I just wrote down my random thoughts in the den and you encouraged me to make a separate thread. This got me to think more deeply and do a little research to put down my thoughts in a more organised fashion.

Yes, we still do not know whether Geet will forgive him and if so under what circumstances.   If she does, I hope they show it more for herself than for him and yes, it requires strength of character to forgive a man as demeaning as Dev.   


Edited by Opti - 18 March 2011 at 9:23am

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by manashi

though i want donkey to rot in hell/jail forever.............but what you wrote is fantastic and one of the most intelligent and thought provoking posts ever..................

brilliant to say the least.....................Clap
Thanks Manashi. I cant stand the character too although I like the actor.  There3 are various ways to suffer and I'm sure Dev will get his due.

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sana_ar

Great post!!! It is so true! 
Thanks Sana.
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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by serialwatcher16


Opti

When a point of view is different from ours, we at first reject it but then the seed of the thought is sown the moment we read it and then the idea germinates and then comes acceptance of that POV.

I really loved your post and the way you have put the whole thing across. So I am ready to go the forgiveness but not forgetting route just so Geet heals herself and only for her own sake.

And i love this 

"The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget." - Thomas S. Szasz, a Hungarian psychiatrist.

It is excellent. Clap

Thanks Usha.  It is flattering to know that I got you think and understand my arguement. I loved the quote you mentioned too. It is not for nothing the guy who gave it is a psychiatrist. He does seem to understand the human psyche quite well.
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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:23am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rajeev the best

very good opti..i agree from what i have seen geet is totally indifferent to devil(we crazies call him that)...for her devil don't exists..
whether geet will forgive or not remains to be seen as most of the articles don't turn out to be true....
forgiveness does not mean she will forget or accept him...
thanks dear for showing us the other side of the coin...
Yes, she is indifferent as of now. I dont trust the article too but I was merely reacting to the animosity towards Geet because of the so called 'forgiveness' track. Acceptance is just out of the question. If they show anything like that I personally will tear the CVs apart ( at least verbally).
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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by 49erFan

Wow Opti, very very nice!  I bow down to ur writing!  Admire and love it!
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