Originally posted by Tanyaz
Sowmya , I think we have a difference of opinion here ..I think totally different from you on two things , I will state them here ..
1. Manav is not happy to leave his mother ...not at all.He was crying and he is very miserable about it .He loves both Savita and Archana equally .I used to think he loved Savita more but yesterday he said that he wants to live and cannot do it without Archana and that makes me think that now Archu is just as inportant to him as his mother has been ...
He is the kind of a guy who would not have left his wife even if he did not love her ...He never left his fiance even though his father was angry about it ...
How can he give in to Savita's absolutely unfair demand of ' Choose me or your wife ' ....
He was very right in saying that if my mother truly loved me then she would have wanted to see me happy ....
He loves his mother a lot , tried to make it up , even ignoring the way she had abused his wife ...almost tried to kill her ...even after all that he went to apologise to her but that lady is so consumed with jealousy that she just cannot see her son's tears ...
I don't think Manav is happy at all........
2. I do not think that Savita's new idea of opening a stall is a good one .I think this will land her in trouble .She has a mental condition now when she is forgetting things and even she knows this ..There is a baby in the house whome she took responsibility of ....she hardly ever takes care of that child ..
She should be at home , trying to recover from her illness and also should take care of the child as she is the one who bought him home and seperated him from his mother .....Instead of hating Archana for seperating her from her child , how about thinking about the baby whome you seperated from his mother and a good healthy environment ....
Even if she was in good mental condition even then she should put Sachu before anything else .
The onl y way she can do business is , first to recover and also to send Sachu back to Shraavni ...then I will have no problem of her doing business.......in fact it would be nice and would set a good example in this otherwise regressive show that is so against working women ...
I know yo u have different way of looking at the story and I respect that ....As you had asked , I have put down my opinion here ...
We will have to agree to disagree .....
And thanks for giving value top my opinion by asking me about it , I appreciate it ...😊
Tanya, I'm not saying manav is jumping around with joy about the situation. You will agree that Manav doesnt think about savita all the time right? He
can be happy without savita-he is with archana. I'm not saying that's wrong-everybody deserves to be happy with their spouse. Manav thinks about savita when he doesnt think about anything else-vaishu's problems, varsha's probelms, sulo's problems, romanicing with archana et al. Again, I'm not saying this is right or wrong. But the fact is he doesnt think about savita al the time and only when he does, he's unhappy. But savita thinks about
him all the time. She is not able to be happy even with baby sachu in her home. Again, I wont get into the discussion if it is her fault or not that she's not happy. But the fact is, she's not.
About her recovering first, this is a matter of the mind first and then body. I'll tell you from personal experience. When my mom is busy, like when she has to care for guests or when she's surrounded by relatives or has a new hobby, she's very happy. The negative things are still there, but it's in the back of her mind. When she's alone, or not busy, each negative thing becomes hundred times more negative because she keeps thinking about it. So, I always encourage her to spend time with relatives or take up some new hobby or
something. Here savita did not set out to do business with the intention of insulting manav, she did it so that she can stop thinking about how much it hurts her. And that is absolutely the right track-I've maintained from the beginning that if savita's happy without manav, then manav's package deal idea, however long it takes, is fine. Because manav is very happy with just archana. It is when one party hurts all the time that it becomes unbalanced. If she has a distraction, she will stop hurting a lil bit and will be more welcome to accept manav's package deal. About baby sachu, while I know it's not realistic that CVs keep forgetting about him,
since they are, there is no reason why they cant forget about him for some more days. Whoever was looking after Sachu till now can look after him from now on, until savita is happy. Or Shravani can come and take him back. Its better for baby sachu if he's living with his grandma that she's happy and not bitter all the time.
