yes,maan does not understand geet or her pain becoz he severed all ties with his own brother for geet.
>>And bailed him out the very next day at the behest of his Grandmother without telling her that he was doing something like. She is not psychic, she is human- she cant always understand what his intentions are unless he talks to her
>>If I remember correctly, he had kicked out Dev and NT from Kmansion much before Geet came into their lives.
yes,maan doesn't understand geet ,thats why he accepted the baby as his own and felt guilty when he decided to save geet instead of the baby.
>> He accepted it after telling her that he thought only he had rights to her or rather she was only his! Only when she decided to walk out of his life that he realised that he could not live without her did he accept the baby! So please dont tell me he is bighearted- he had his own agenda as well!
yes,maan doesn't deserve or understand geet becoz even after geet insulted him infront of the media,he kept on loving her.
>>He loved her and thats why he dragged a pregnant Geet all through the office, almost ran her over with his car during the Indian Paints office track, physically assaulted her during the behke behke sequence.
yes,maan doesn't understand geet,thats why after commiting the one terrible mistake(his behaviour during the pool party) becoz he was drunk and extremely angry, he repented it and decided to stay away from geet's life forever and since then has never ever forced himself upon her,has always given her decisions priority.
>> Thats the point- he acts in haste and repents in leisure. If he wont communicate with her whats going on in her mind how will she ever know whats the reality. Not forcing himself on her or giving her decisions weight/priority is nothing special- that should be and is a component of any healthy relationship. She should not feel obligated as MSK "did not force himself on her"
yes,maan does not understand geet or deserve geet,thats why he kept himself away from her after the wedding becoz the doctor had told him to. btw he never said that geet married him becoz of money,i suggest u watch that scene again and chk the dialogues he said-tumhe khurana khandaan ki bahu banaya,izzat di,aisho aram diya...fir bhi...we all know why he said that,but why should we sonsider it,yes,geet did not waste a second in believing that maan did not love her anymore and thats why he was staying away from her....so what,she is only 18,right?that gives her the license to believe anything she likes.yes,any other woman would hv walked out on the man becoz he was trying to protect her........u r absolutely right!!!!
>> I have seen the scene- did you not find that dialogue insulting? Did it not mean that Geet should stay satisfied with the khandan ki izzat and paisa? I have said this before Geet is not a mind reader- and the way to hell is paved with good intentions!
yes,maan doesn't understand geet,thats why when maan was almost dying becoz of geet's childish behaviour,he woke up and said that geet,u saved me!
yes,maan is wrong becoz he was angry with geet for taking help from dev -why? becoz he knew that geet was hurt!and he apologized to her after that,but so what.he does not understand geet!
maan does not deserve geet becoz he can't see her crying and suffering for the baby and wants to make her happy!
maan does not deserve geet or understand her becoz he brought daarji to his wedding to make geet happy!
maan does not deserve geet becoz what has he ever done for her.....................wait apart from everything else,he has saved her life...um lets see how many times......well,i will hv to count!! and twice he saved her life when he didn't even love her!
>>I have posted this somewhere else as well-the fact that he saved her life time and again for that she must owe him her identity and self respect? Surely any relationship that is based on such expectations and obligations cannot be love!
of course maan does not deserve or understand the great Miss Geet Handa/mrs geet khurana..............after all she is the epitome of innocence(so what if most of the time,instead of innocence,her behaviour cms across as silly and irritating), the epitome of understanding(so what if she misunderstands the one person who has always been there for her,she sure does understand others-like dev ,arjun,who was a stranger, and even daarji). oh right,she chose maan over thebaby,thats why she blatantly enough once told maan that mere liye mere bachche se bada koi nahin(remember when maan told her about saving her life instead of the baby),yes,the baby meant everything to her(so what if she always jumped around when she was pregnant and maan always told her to be carefull and took care of her)!!
>>Are you trying to tell me that Maan has never misunderstood Geet, never blamed her/shouted at her in haste..in anycase I am not saying Maan is wrong...all I am saying is that Geet is not wrong. They both are right where they are standing...and I honestly cannot fault either Geet's actions or reactions.
Edited by -pixie- - 18 March 2011 at 12:29am