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1up to now nafisa trust has gone due to kinjals kalakari n the u r but really how much time has aham spent with his wife non n forced into situations because of modi pride, she has helped him with kinjal when she decided to runaway, but that was it. after that he was cordial with her, then she left.Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossomsHe thinks she is manipulative and playacting to care for everyone.
Originally posted by: shobi12500in my opinion nafisa if the husband is not trusting u leave him because trust play most important part between husband and wife relation.
but here the case is different so u r right gopi needs to be stronge and bold and there is no need to cry
Originally posted by: hkhb17Interesting question.
I guess trust is gain slowly. Clearly actions speak louder than words. Right now ahem thinks she is play acting and crying on tap. Whenever there is a situation & she cries, he probably switches off thinking hear we go again. She needs to act differently to jolt him out of his usual thinking pattern. Then, he shall see her slowly for what she is and his perceptions and beliefs might change. Gopi also needs to be honest. Her problem is she is too timid (years of abuse) and too polite (fear of hurting people), so he mistakes her inconsistent actions at times, as lies and manipulative behaviour.
To rebuild trust, it usually takes longer compared to destroying trust within few seconds.
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