Posted: 16 March 2011 at 3:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by April2007
I totally agree with you. Aai is passive aggressive, she refuses to listen to anybody. She doesn't care for her daughter future or for her other family members, who will be left with nothing after she spends all the money on Avni's marriage. Aai has no self respect, she is letting her daughter be married in the family who are constantly abusing her and her family.
I feel both Avni and her mother have some kind of deficiency. Avni gets so angry with Muskara for writing the note but takes all kinds of crap from Baskar...she doesn't come across even normal smart.
The whole show is lame..
Passive aggressive is the right way to put it. I understand that her views are largely informed by her own life experiences, but still, one would hope that she would grow stronger as both an individual and as the protector of the family after the situation with her husband with some time. It is unfortunate that she had to deal with so much torment from society after her husband left her, but that is no reason for her to force her daughter into marrying such a family. It would be logical character development for her to support her daughter in all her decisions and shield her from any such negative forces after her own expreriences, but the writers of this show seem a little clueless.
I agree that Avni is also at fault to some extent for ignoring some of Bhaskar's snide yet telling remarks, but I don't think that she would be so hell bent on believing him and wanting to marry him if it wasn't for her mother. She seems to have taken all the responsibility away from her mother at a young age...but it surprises me that her mother assumes no responsibility towards either the physical or the mental wellfare of her family. It is Avni that has to work her butt off to support her family, not her mother. The least she can do is be an emotional support for Avni, trust her decisions and not FORCE her into marriage by promise.
Edited by chronic - 16 March 2011 at 4:00pm