Posted: 18 March 2011 at 10:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rani712
Exactly, the bride side have kept giving stuff to the groom side. The only thing the groom side bought was a dress for sheenu for the engagement. Also, I think the bride side does need more money in general because come on i bet the amount of money spent combined on Ishu, his dad and his mom's wedding outfits i think you probably need that much for just sheenu. Like there is so much jewellery heavy clothes ( that are ridiculously expensive ) for all the functions and especially wedding. The the make up artist, the Hair person, other accessories liek shoes handbag etc. Plus, since the bride side paid for teh entire engagement decor and food same thing will happen at teh wedding... i dont think its 50 50. I agree the groom side have more relatives and more ppl in the immediate family but still. And these Relatives of ishu, so annoying. they got a 20000 Rs budget for their wedding outfits and they think thats less are the insane. The most expensive sari I have in my closet atm is like 6000 Rs and its so damn heavy i dont think i can wear it to any parties unless its a wedding ( esp of an immediate family member). Also the prices they seem to show for those suits I dont know if they are real prices or they have exaggerated because i dont think i'd buy it if the suits were these expensive. I dont understand which high end mall have they been shopping at. And looking at sheenu's engagement suit that that expensive I think my sister has a suit similar to that ( not exactly like that) but i know its half the price.
Another thing for the ring. I liked Ishu's ring that sheenu's family picked out. Simple, elegant, modern class. Sheenu's ring was just too big! and too bling bling so heavy I dont think you can wear that on a regular basis. they should have just gotten a simple but a diamond ring. I dont understand why they have to ask advices from every memeber of the family. During th ring shopping, ishu was in the corner walking around while the buas and aunts picked the ring and he just said YES! Are you crazy, you know the modern world, you should know what girls like these days like you have been to college your aunts and other elders have this believe of heavier it looks better it is and more expensive. NOT necessarily. I dont think I have noticed the engagement ring on sheenu's finger after the engagement. I swear Ishu's family is just too much drama, if everyone else is living with sheenu I feel so sorry for the poor girl.
Exactly my words-the heavy weight buas/masis whatever of the groom are damn so interfering yeh lena hai-and always comparing what my family got versus what bride got!!!! Disgusting you have come for a wedding enjoy ,love what u get and leave-My wedding trosseau was finished exactly in 1lakh or so (incl jewellery)Seriously now a days u get even ritu kumar's outfits starting 4-5k onwards which designer they went to christian dior/ YSL???? itni mehengi???kya heere jawarat stuuded they-they looked quite ordinary to me 20000 for plain salwar suits-i got 3 times heart attack-why couldnt they gift some money as FD to the couple.