Posted: 15 March 2011 at 3:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000
Originally posted by Dabulls23BTW why I don't think Anyone should take madhuri's side here is my reason..
OK Vaishu made stupid decision of not telling anyone for the month and helped FBD flee the country thanks to her airhead sis and bro ArMan's support in that decision..
But think folks Madhuri being legal wife, knowing abt FBD's illegal marriage to Vaishu for last several months and knowledge of Vaishu being prego she still decides to sleep with FBD and get prego in the hope new baby will be a match for BMT...Why did she not feel for Vaishu than??? Why did she not think of divorce than?
Archu yet does not know Madhuri is prego...Wait until she finds out abt this pregnancy will she support madhuri or should she be on Vaishu's side? How abt neither...stay out..
If Vaishu was my sister no matter what stupid mistake she made once finally my loyalty will still remain with my sister no matter how I feel abt Madhuri and her sick son's situation...I would let my parents and Vaishu's IL handle this situation..I will not take the stand of being on Madhuri's side who knowing the fact her husband had duped my sister and now pregnant slept again with him to have a baby...
What kind of crap is this? Why didn't madhuri feel bad for Vaishu and her pregnancy b4 she decided to sleep with that creep of her husband again??
If Vaishu is @ fault than Madhuri as a human being @ a bigger fault IMHO...FBD is a biggest creep IMHO
Why she did not feel for Vaishu then and yet why she slept with Dharmesh ................coz her son is sick and dying ? Coz That took precedence over EVERYTHING ? Her own dignity , self respect , sympathy for Vaishali as a woman ..........all was deprioritised due to the child's sickness ?
She did nOT sleep with Dharmesh for fun or coz she fORGAVE him . She slept to take a chance to save her child .
She had come to Mumbai expressly for THAT only . Neither was Vaishu important to her nor Dharmesh .Varun was MORE important than ALL 3 in Madhuris eyes ..............She , Dharmu and Vaishali all 3 took a backseat .
Tomorrow if Vaishali gets a baby I bet u she will do ANYTHING to save it .
Dharmu has left Madhuri yet Madhuri is going to use that credit card till the last penny .Why ?Coz she CANNOT AFFORD SELF RESPECT .God took away that option from her . She can probably aaford to show it when Varun DIES . Coz then nothing will have the TAAKAT to hold her back or make her bend .
Today she is the TRULY MAJBOOR ONE . Im talking strictly AFTER Varuns sickness .
The question shud not be WHY SHE SLEPT with DHARMU and DIDNT THINK OF VAISHU .The question shud be WHY VAISHU KEPT QUIET AND THOUGHT OF SULO who ALWAYS had asthma attacks . If vaishu can be MAJBOOR for her mom , Mads can do ANYTHING for sick baby .
As far As Satish goes ..........True he is Vaishus BIL .But who is he punishing ?Dharmu has absconded .A pregnant woman with sick child ? Use ur expertise to give Vaishu as much money as u can from business etc ..........but show compassion for that lady and DROP the case . Everything cannot be THIS CUT THROAT and BLACK and WHITE . Its GREY .
I agree with Kool. As far as I remember, Madz had never any intention to continue being with Dharmesh. She had given up on him, but also needed him for Varun. She was very clear that she was going away permanently as soon as Varun's condition was stabilized. So I dont think she wanted to cheat Vaishali; it was more like she was disillusioned by the institution of marriage and was no interested in being Dharmesh's wife anymore, so there was no reason to disrupt Vaishali's. And her son was the only and most important thing in her life-nothing else was her's. Any mother would do anything in her power to save her child, I think this is especially true for mothers like Vaishali who really have nothing/nobody else in their lives. Nobody's right or wrong here except Dharmesh; Madhuri is wrong if she decides to divorce Dharmesh now though. That is not needed and doesnt change anything for anybody. While legally she may be an accomplice in fraud, I think she has the best reason for being an accomplice anybody in the world could have. Like Vaishu hid the truth for so long after
she knew about Dharmu's two-timing due to the silly reason of her mother's probable asthma attack, Madz hid the truth when she
knew due to her son's far more serious illness. Dont think she knew about Dharmu's intentions before/when he was getting married the second time-she got to know after
the second marriage. Both are stupid
, both have enabled Dharmesh, but only Madz is taken in by the police coz she is the legal wife and has no one to support her.
Btw, if Madhuri divorces Dharmesh, will Vaishu-Dharmu marriage automatically become legal? Or will it remain illegal since he was already married when they
were married? Is it possible that if madhuri divorces Dharmesh, then any woman he marries later will actually be the legal wife?