Originally posted by mysterygurl1427
Aray eh kaha agaye hum? Eh ka hai? Oh ha....eh idiotswa threadwa....oh ka haina......hum budhay hogaye hai..... (screams) Bahuria paaani la
Episode was another heartwrenching one. I loved the first maaneet part where Geet is cryin her heart out....and maan still surpressing his feelings and looks lost thinkin whether all of this has happened really took place or is it another dream.
He was soo lost that he didn't notice geet cryin her heart out in silence.....but then finally got out of his reverie and i LOVED the way he put his face on her cheek and both together had a little moment understandin each others pain....and i loved how they both held each other's hands.
Gosh i am still not over that bed hug from yesterday it gave me shivers when they did.
Agree Shivz.. that whole scene was soo touching... yesterday's bed hug especially reminded me of the "Khoon bhari maang" scene.... that night after maan puts his blood in Geet's maang, and how Geet is so shocked and startled and confused and scared... all those feelings were showing on her face.. and she didn't want Maan to leave her side that night.. and she couldnt fall asleep in the fear that maan will leave her... and then finally she found her solace in his arms.. she slept just the way they did yesterday.. beautiful! Serene! Comforting! As if they found the whole world in each other's arms...
U guys, this show is showing a difference between the pain of a man and a woman. I kind of feel bad for the man. Woman can express their hearts out and show how they feel, but the man for the sake of the woman they love sooo dearly cannot and wince in pain even a wee bit. Why is there such a huge difference between men and women? Why can't men express just as openly as us? However, the real fact is that do that do it on purpose?
Here I feel that Geet is taking out her feelings and is sharing her pain by crying, by not leaving her room showing that she is in grief that she is hurting.
Maan ka kya? He can't even show that he is hurting, that he has broken, that he has lost! Yes, he has lost; for the first time ever Geet has asked him to get her something and he CAN'T! The look of loss is clearly evident in his eyes. He was sitting with his head bowed yesterday when he was weeping alone and then had broken completely like a baby into his dadi's arms. Dadi was cradling him if anyone noticed.
Again today, in his office he is crying, tears are streaming down from his cheeks in his OFFICE! Maan Singh Khurana is a broken Man! Yes, THE Maan Singh Khurana whom never showed any emotion, even today with his back turned had showed his grief to Adi. Adi too felt his boss's pain and was cryin silently. Both men wipe their faces and try to make it seem like everything is normal. Adi is hurt but is smiling......Maan is hurt, but smiling.
Both men here are shown doing the same thing hiding their feelings. So it is sooo clear that men hide their true feelings for a reason such as Maan's. He has to stand as a pillar for Geet. This is a lesson learned for all women today......apnay gham main itna bhi na khojao....ke saamnay wale ka dard aapko dekhai na de. Geet is hurt no doubt, but she is not seeing that Maan to is hurt and is burning.
I feel that they both should comfort each other.....
Yes - they expect themselves to be the tough ones... actually in sensitive situations like these, I have really seen Men break down and women being strong to handle them.. but it depends on the scenario.. we know maan is sensitive... and extreme natured. So hard... but so soft at heart... so him breaking was very natural. I just love the way they have shown this in the show... but... in this case Geet was more attached to the baby.. even though Maan was soooo closely bonded with the baby, he realizes that the kind of history Geet had with this baby, it surpassed everything he felt... so he took it upon himself to become tough... Plus we know from day one how uneasy maan feels everytime Geet is distressed
You are right that they both should comfort each other... Geet needs to acknowledge his pain. Which she did yesterday. When she apologized to him. But today, she is lost. She will come out of it soon.
I feel Geet's pain and want to cry with her, but why do I want to cry with maan more? The reason is because Geet is easily expressing her pain by crying; however, Maan is holding his pain for the sake of Geet so that he can handle her. If he cries and breaks down in front of her, how will she handle herself?
Shivz I am with you on that one.. I feel like crying everytime I see maan crying... for that matter every time I see any man crying.. but Maan more cuz he is my darling!!!
My question still...why are women allowed to express and it looks normal in society, but when men express and cry it is not accepted in society?
One more thing, why do i shudder when Dev said that he will be Maan's shadow?
Naah nothing to it for now.... let's wait and watch.