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Posted: 15 March 2011 at 4:00pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _charu_

earlier on , nandini was also nice to akshara, acted like her best friend and badi didi and now what? she's blaming naitik n akshara for pushing her towards mohit Dead it was akshara's duty to tell them, now it's upto gayitri and rashmi to decide..why should naksh take all the blame? shadi karni hai nahi karni hai, jisko karni hai woh kare, jisko karani hai woh karaye..we've seen that gayitri doesn't care two hoots abt daddaji also when it comes to rashmi's marriage..akshara ka kya haal karegi?Angry

i think Rashmi MUST marry Nikhil, i may sound mean but this should be a lesson to all the ladki wale who r over confident about the boy and trust the middle man (here ST) blindly ! they themselves did not do any enquiry about the boy .accepted , that there r too many fraud ppl. in this world n gayitri was lucky enuf to know it  from rajshri but instead of finding out herself (afterall it's the question of her daughter's life), she's blaming Rajshri for being jealous Dead that's too much
agreed here...but for her stubborness bechaari rashmi why should she be fallen in the trap
oh well she is a big adult..she can talk and do what she wants openly...

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Posted: 15 March 2011 at 4:01pm | IP Logged
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i think Rashmi MUST marry Nikhil, i may sound mean but this should be a lesson to all the ladki wale who r over confident about the boy and trust the middle man (here ST) blindly ! they themselves did not do any enquiry about the boy .accepted , that there r too many fraud ppl. in this world n gayitri was lucky enuf to know it  from rajshri but instead of finding out herself (afterall it's the question of her daughter's life), she's blaming Rajshri for being jealous Dead that's too much

And Rashmi herself is at fault here and definitely needs a rude awakening. If she had sincerely thought about marriage as a mature individual, she would have known what was best for her, had her priorities straight, and realized that Suraj was a good match for her. Her immaturity led her to this point - she's the one that wanted someone "who likes to have fun, ghoomna, firna, etc." - Gayatri and the rest of the family were very happy with Suraj. But not Rashmi. So you know what? Rashmi is not so innocent in all of this. She thinks Nikhil is the right match for her, so she should deal with all the risks and consequences that come with her own decision.
hmm yaah this is true also..but idk..rashmi is big enuf to say what she wants
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Posted: 15 March 2011 at 4:03pm | IP Logged
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i think Rashmi MUST marry Nikhil, i may sound mean but this should be a lesson to all the ladki wale who r over confident about the boy and trust the middle man (here ST) blindly ! they themselves did not do any enquiry about the boy .accepted , that there r too many fraud ppl. in this world n gayitri was lucky enuf to know it  from rajshri but instead of finding out herself (afterall it's the question of her daughter's life), she's blaming Rajshri for being jealous Dead that's too much

And Rashmi herself is at fault here and definitely needs a rude awakening. If she had sincerely thought about marriage as a mature individual, she would have known what was best for her, had her priorities straight, and realized that Suraj was a good match for her. Her immaturity led her to this point - she's the one that wanted someone "who likes to have fun, ghoomna, firna, etc." - Gayatri and the rest of the family were very happy with Suraj. But not Rashmi. So you know what? Rashmi is not so innocent in all of this. She thinks Nikhil is the right match for her, so she should deal with all the risks and consequences that come with her own decision.

hhhmm yes rejecting suraj might be a wrong decision but here, rashmi didn't choose nikhil yaar, it was an arranged match...the elders have chosen this guy for her and she settled for him bec. he was her type....girls can get fooled very easily with these tactics which guys like nikhil employ...but here, the biggest culprit is gayitri, who even after knowing the truth (or knowing  something which raised suspicion abt the boy) turned a blind eye towards it and insulted rajshri Dead itna toh maan rakho, rajshri is her munna's saas..uski respect kam nahi ho jaati if she's girl's mom....i'm glad akshara defended her mom n told naitik everything..Clap
yup...gaytri will also be saas from rashmi side....then she will feel how it does..n Bma if it was Dj that did that  to nandini she would say this n that but munna...so she say rehnedo...double standards
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Ladies and Gentlemen, (same as on other topic)
With all due respect, I am going to play the devils advocate here and request all to take things in perspective.... I know we all love to hate G3 these days and first and foremost that means that she is a great actress and so convincing.... As mentioned, I never watched this serial or joined a forum until a couple of weeks ago, when my hubby suggested to find online friends to discss these things instead of hitting my head agains the laptop and telling him, which sounded like greek to him... (got him hooked to SGP and Gulaal.....)
let us put ourselves in her shoes for just a brief moment and analyze her psyche....
DJ as dominatrix in the household, and rules with an iron fist.
RB as husband, who is spineless and the above mentioned shadow or alterego. Being the chhoti dulhan,, (Been a few years since she was dulhan.... no offence), but she never had a say in this house....she had to do what she was told... could not wear suit and had to do palla...never got a chance to go out one on one with her hubby ..after all she is a woman with her own desires and wishes that never were fulfilled.... like a bird in a golden cage!
Sis in law who flips back and forth and she has to parade behind her kitchen, blue sofa....and round and round the mulburry bush, the monkey chased the weasel.... well you know what i am getting at.
Being the mother of the son, according to her, she should be on a pedestral.....but alas naitik is a headstrong opinionated person who likes doing what he feels like.... (been skimming through prev. episodes) ending up in station, temperamental, taking money for bungalow from wedding.... His lucky stars that he ended up with a scapegoat akshara as a doormat... his partner and to put things on, was shocked that he said that you should have stoppedthe tilak....hello....chit bhi apni, pat bhi apni i believe is the indian saying....
so son gets married, after all dramas and we get a beautiful, most importantly, well intentioned daughter in law who is too good for her own good and wants to put the house right her way..... come on guys, akshara crying about the ring, that she changed, to taking over nandinis wedding.....and talking down to her.... she is no saint....tries too hard, and these Ms. Goody  shoes can be extremely irritating characters...too sugary sweet stuff can have a bitter aftertaste.... we all know that!
her daughter rejects a guy, (after she went to meet suraj) because of too many romantic novels...and she gets the flak from dadaji...
seperation in the house.... from her own son and no matter what, he is part of her and she does love him....akshara seems to come and go as she pleases, even before batwara....her mom is paranoid and wants to interfere.... for their own good, but interfere nontheless. got a new kid and seems well and in middle of tilak, they want her to stop it.... come on guys....give the woman a break....she is only human.
she feels railroaded.... treated likethe youngest by dadaji and bua to suddenly being the mom of the family yuvraj but not paid attention to.....or her opinions taken seriously.... she is given lip service but....
end of the day, naksh have always made their own decisions.... by hook or crook.
honestly if i see akshara in the ruansi crying martyr face in one episode... i might stop watching.... but sadly becoming addicted to how pathetic they can get each time.....
 that she does not have her husbands full support and does not have the personality to create her own identity and unique place in the house....she has been relegated to the backburner and never got her true place in the limelight...... her kids are spoilt....and do not respect her decision and i know she is old fashioned.... but maybe it is envy that her son is giving all that freedom to daughter in law...that she never got..... dj would have thrown a fit, if she decided to take a off day and serve cornflakes or go for a movie.....
she is right, rajshri and akshara did mean well but it still is stressful and leaves a bad taste in your mouth just before an event to find out that your future son in law may be a potential a...hole! She wants her daughters happiness and is confused... pure and simple.... at the endof the day....it was rashmi who had a crying fit and refused suraj.... and likes nikhil becausehe likes movies.....
she has made herown bed and she can lie on it and suffer the consequences..... if she wants to be the proverbial bimbo housewife and all masti...and wants a husband who likes masti......Need i say more.....
G3 is a 3 dimensional character, and these arethe best stars....shades of grey not saints, not black or white.....not martyrs like aksh....dharmatmas that are self appointed as dj...or full of themselves like nandini or naitik, difference that naitik is nice of heart and nandini is manipulative and devious....
she made the decision to continue instead of going running to DJ...or her husband,,,,, which seems ok when akshara does it.... or rajshri....and we are painting her with the black brushstroke each time without understanding her role and standing inher shoes....
My humble thoughts and rajshri, no matter what she bungles up,....vishambhar is understanding and gets it neutralized, being the patriarch.....

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Posted: 15 March 2011 at 7:42pm | IP Logged
Rashmi is always there for them and I hope she knows the truth.
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Posted: 16 March 2011 at 10:24pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by prernacda

Ladies and Gentlemen, (same as on other topic)
With all due respect, I am going to play the devils advocate here and request all to take things in perspective.... I know we all love to hate G3 these days and first and foremost that means that she is a great actress and so convincing.... As mentioned, I never watched this serial or joined a forum until a couple of weeks ago, when my hubby suggested to find online friends to discss these things instead of hitting my head agains the laptop and telling him, which sounded like greek to him... (got him hooked to SGP and Gulaal.....)
let us put ourselves in her shoes for just a brief moment and analyze her psyche....
DJ as dominatrix in the household, and rules with an iron fist.
RB as husband, who is spineless and the above mentioned shadow or alterego. Being the chhoti dulhan,, (Been a few years since she was dulhan.... no offence), but she never had a say in this house....she had to do what she was told... could not wear suit and had to do palla...never got a chance to go out one on one with her hubby ..after all she is a woman with her own desires and wishes that never were fulfilled.... like a bird in a golden cage!
Sis in law who flips back and forth and she has to parade behind her kitchen, blue sofa....and round and round the mulburry bush, the monkey chased the weasel.... well you know what i am getting at.
Being the mother of the son, according to her, she should be on a pedestral.....but alas naitik is a headstrong opinionated person who likes doing what he feels like.... (been skimming through prev. episodes) ending up in station, temperamental, taking money for bungalow from wedding.... His lucky stars that he ended up with a scapegoat akshara as a doormat... his partner and to put things on, was shocked that he said that you should have stoppedthe tilak....hello....chit bhi apni, pat bhi apni i believe is the indian saying....
so son gets married, after all dramas and we get a beautiful, most importantly, well intentioned daughter in law who is too good for her own good and wants to put the house right her way..... come on guys, akshara crying about the ring, that she changed, to taking over nandinis wedding.....and talking down to her.... she is no saint....tries too hard, and these Ms. Goody  shoes can be extremely irritating characters...too sugary sweet stuff can have a bitter aftertaste.... we all know that!
her daughter rejects a guy, (after she went to meet suraj) because of too many romantic novels...and she gets the flak from dadaji...
seperation in the house.... from her own son and no matter what, he is part of her and she does love him....akshara seems to come and go as she pleases, even before batwara....her mom is paranoid and wants to interfere.... for their own good, but interfere nontheless. got a new kid and seems well and in middle of tilak, they want her to stop it.... come on guys....give the woman a break....she is only human.
she feels railroaded.... treated likethe youngest by dadaji and bua to suddenly being the mom of the family yuvraj but not paid attention to.....or her opinions taken seriously.... she is given lip service but....
end of the day, naksh have always made their own decisions.... by hook or crook.
honestly if i see akshara in the ruansi crying martyr face in one episode... i might stop watching.... but sadly becoming addicted to how pathetic they can get each time.....
 that she does not have her husbands full support and does not have the personality to create her own identity and unique place in the house....she has been relegated to the backburner and never got her true place in the limelight...... her kids are spoilt....and do not respect her decision and i know she is old fashioned.... but maybe it is envy that her son is giving all that freedom to daughter in law...that she never got..... dj would have thrown a fit, if she decided to take a off day and serve cornflakes or go for a movie.....
she is right, rajshri and akshara did mean well but it still is stressful and leaves a bad taste in your mouth just before an event to find out that your future son in law may be a potential a...hole! She wants her daughters happiness and is confused... pure and simple.... at the endof the day....it was rashmi who had a crying fit and refused suraj.... and likes nikhil becausehe likes movies.....
she has made herown bed and she can lie on it and suffer the consequences..... if she wants to be the proverbial bimbo housewife and all masti...and wants a husband who likes masti......Need i say more.....
G3 is a 3 dimensional character, and these arethe best stars....shades of grey not saints, not black or white.....not martyrs like aksh....dharmatmas that are self appointed as dj...or full of themselves like nandini or naitik, difference that naitik is nice of heart and nandini is manipulative and devious....
she made the decision to continue instead of going running to DJ...or her husband,,,,, which seems ok when akshara does it.... or rajshri....and we are painting her with the black brushstroke each time without understanding her role and standing inher shoes....
My humble thoughts and rajshri, no matter what she bungles up,....vishambhar is understanding and gets it neutralized, being the patriarch.....

LOL earlier on i liked gayitri , whenever i saw everything from her perspective..abhi bhi she's not totally a vampish kind of MIL but a typical insecure, non-understanding, biased MIL....the one you find in every other household...i went against her bec. i expected her to support naitik and not daddaji when the division happened..she quietly accepted the division of the family, WHY ? naitik is her son not daddaji's....in a way, RB is a bigger culprit bec. the lady of the house can never have a say if she doesn't have her husband's support..STILL, she can show affection for her son and DIL, and not get trapped in bhabhi ma;s stupid reasoning "munna ko saza milegi" Dead OR else clearly tell Naksh that she doesn't have a say in whatever they do..STOP cribbing abt what they're doing each day bec. they have been given the freedom by Dino himself and gayitri HAS to abide by his decision....

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