Originally posted by lovetheserialNihu,
What if we get the repentant Dev back who for a while tries to be the loyal young brother to Maan, the good bro-in-law in bhabi, the good man grandson... till an evil returns to reinstate his vicious self again. So far the CVs are trying to tell us something of this man Dev where we are failing desperately to get ! We just want him punished. He has a lesson to teach through this. A man's life is in his hands for transformation, but his reputation and dignity in this world lies in the hands of the world and the people in it. Repentance of ones own self can be initiated, but forgiveness from others and trust in that transforamtion comes very steadily.
i would like to believe that Dev will always be that younger brother that will realise his follies after he has committed them.. right now he is cautious as he hasnt been absolved of his earlier sins.. and by the looks of it, something big or drastic is only going to make Maan change his mind, and being a good judge of character, Maan would not melt that easily .. when he met Geet for the first time he knew something had pulled him towards her, something had made him do what he wouldnt do with anyone else, and thats somethng thats always changed... they may have fought, there may have been instances of disagreement, but what Maan feels for geet has only gotten better..
hence now with dev maan knows he has erred for more than once, and the last thing he did was a sin! he will in that sense never forgive him.. though he may be forced and influenced by either dadi or even geet for that matter to let it be ..
as for annie and dadi, they dont understand the impact of what he did .. dadi may know, but age like you said and her experience, coupled with love for her grandson, dilute the matter a little... Annie should be the one empathizing with Geet at a time like this, since she was also a victim of something similar in the recent past, thank god she is not pregnant, but she does know what it is like to be betrayed by the man who claims to love you and turn your back towards you ..!! they can still work around this angle, where dev and annie have a convo and may be dev tells her what actually happened, and she turns against her brother, that would once more make Dev akela in the mansion and his sole aim would be to win back ! i wouldnt want him to turn evil.. but he can be shown as a misguided soul once more.. someone who like always has an error in judgment, and this time in the business... though he never intended it.. but it still costs them a fortune ..
Here again, honey, you mentioned the trust and confidence emotionally M&G needs to build in themselves steadily overtaking the Con factor or conceiving again factor. I wonder if COn and conceiving are to be taken as an instance of only sexual gratification, or as something of an inborn need. If looked at maturely, the con and conceiving are part of a deep need in a human being, and more so if married the lust factor does not always have to play. Con is confidence building in a couple.
ofcourse i didnt mean it with lust in mind, but i felt this should come in the story, when it takes their track to a meaningful phase after that .. after so much of baby baby baby and the loss if it, i am even shuddering at the mention of the word baby !! i am so dented if i were her, i would just take a while to come out of the shock .. and i would want fun, entertainment and light heartedness in every form that could , perhaps- i say perhaps-divert my mind for a bit