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Posted: 16 March 2011 at 10:25pm | IP Logged

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Originally posted by ankita1605

Guess I'm the last one to make a comment on this threadSmile for a change iss bar soncha ke sabse baad mein reply karungi (after every one is on board with their annotation). lekin reply mujhe karna hi tha coz...Kabhi Kabhi Aditi...we get a nice occupying topic like this to discussEmbarrassed so first im gonna take the light to a little wider extent, then narrowing down to your ques...kindly bear with me!Big smile


We have some popular myths about Pyaar/Ishq/Mohabbat...thnx to yesteryrs bollywood movies, over melodramatic soaps n backdated novels!LOL

Myth No.1 Pehla pyaar bhulaye nehi bhulta...Ouch

Myth No.2 Humein zindagi mein ek hi bar pyaar hota hai...Shocked

Myth No.3 Indian women are bound to love their husbands, even if she wasn't willing to marry that person n loved someone else...Angry

May be I can agree with the first one...to some points...but the other two...no ways! Aha...here I begin with my psychoanalysis!Wink


I'll start with myth no.1...first of all...'pehla pyaar' is a beautiful, divine n magical feeling (though love  always have these 3 characteristic within , but in first love the degree of emotion is pretty higher...so things seems more specialLOL) and u may never forget it (whtz the need...aanchi cheezo ko bhulna bhi nehi chahiye!Smile). Lekin yeh kaha likkha hai ke...tum sari zindagi apne pehle pyaar ko yaad karke ansoo bahayogiCry and it will restrain you to fall in love again!Angry Aur 'pehle pyaar' ke yaadon mein sirf dard kyon hoga...aanchi yaadein bhi toh hongi na...unhe yaad karoDay Dreaming...and move on with your life, taking your past along with you...be proud of your past, don't disgrace it.Thumbs Up

Now, myth no.2...its totally insane!Wacko Kyon bhai...yeh koi vote hai kya jo ek bar cast kar liya toh, im not eligible for 2nd time...Jesus!Dead Love is so spontaneous n sudden...u jus can't plan it or take a resolution that "I'll never fall in love again"Shocked believe me, that dsnt work...u never know when it comes n swept u off ur feetEmbarrassed but the scenario is diff when u dnt realize its love or smthing holds u back to accept that u r in love! We come across many ppl in our life...and all of them may not be meant for us...It's a lifelong quest for everyone to find 'the one' for him/herself! And no rule specifies that 'the one' would be our first love every time!LOL Then why stopping here...search for ur soul mate, experience love, be happy and rule ur worldThumbs Up To love someone n to be loved by someone is really wonderfulEmbarrassed it sets you free...and U should never restrict him/herself from this.

Lastly, myth no.3...and I have only one word...pathetic!Angry Rest...u guys r smart enough to understand...then why wasting time!LOL I really hope they will never bring this 3rd myth anywhere near DLMH...if they do...trust me...that day I'll quitCry


Now coming to DLMH's account...

It goes like this..."Sometime when  u r not in love...you feel as if you r in love...coz u love to be in love with the idea of being in love and when its actually love...you jus not realize!" Complicated? Well...love is complicated...as always!Smile

Alka lived in America...she had leaded an independent life there...miles away from her home...and when u stay alone away from family...1st thing u look for is friendship/ companionship...u search for ppl with same frequency. In that course of searching u make frnds...casually date someone n u may eventually take it seriously! (May be bcoz of mutual attraction, good understanding, similar lifestyle etc etc) But the idea crashes when u have a face-off with actual loveShocked u get confused, restless (sometime guilty)!Confused Whatever...the truth should be accepted, coz that's the way it is...and if u wanna run away...its your loss!Wink

And I'm glad that Alka dint run away (though she was confused in the beginning). I feel she was lucky to have Chander...coz its very rare to find someone who loves you unconditionally. And the character of Chander is framed such a way that...he almos 'compel' (yea im using this word) you to fall in love with himEmbarrassed I mean who can resist the appeal of true love? No one! And from a girls' POV...I know every girl...let her be from any corner of this world...expect a very little thing from deep within...she jus wants unconditional love, the goodness of heart, respect, loyalty, understanding and accompaniment...that's allSmile Rest of the things like, financial status, social position, better life style, good looks...doesn't matter when u get what you really wanted from your heart...but never expected to get! Chander has it all whatever a girl actually dream for...and there he beats everyone!Embarrassed

And about Ralph...Alka was in an impression that she loves him but in reality he was jus a mere placeholder! Now Ralph is nowhere in her life...its bcoz she never actually loved him that much . But even if in future she gets separated from Chander...he will always remain in her life...forever...since he is the ONE for her!

Thanks for your patienceSmile Thnx Aditi...

100% agree with each and every word. very true...
and maybe she has some feeling towards chandar in her childhood days even. but cudnt realize it and in America she met Ralph and as u said alone away from home makies ppl vulnerable, and so she got attracted to him and thinks she is in love with him.
Anyways, lovely explanation.

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Originally posted by ankita1605

Guess I'm the last one to make a comment on this threadSmile for a change iss bar soncha ke sabse baad mein reply karungi (after every one is on board with their annotation). lekin reply mujhe karna hi tha coz...Kabhi Kabhi Aditi...we get a nice occupying topic like this to discussEmbarrassed so first im gonna take the light to a little wider extent, then narrowing down to your ques...kindly bear with me!Big smile


We have some popular myths about Pyaar/Ishq/Mohabbat...thnx to yesteryrs bollywood movies, over melodramatic soaps n backdated novels!LOL

Myth No.1 Pehla pyaar bhulaye nehi bhulta...Ouch

Myth No.2 Humein zindagi mein ek hi bar pyaar hota hai...Shocked

Myth No.3 Indian women are bound to love their husbands, even if she wasn't willing to marry that person n loved someone else...Angry

May be I can agree with the first one...to some points...but the other two...no ways! Aha...here I begin with my psychoanalysis!Wink


I'll start with myth no.1...first of all...'pehla pyaar' is a beautiful, divine n magical feeling (though love  always have these 3 characteristic within , but in first love the degree of emotion is pretty higher...so things seems more specialLOL) and u may never forget it (whtz the need...aanchi cheezo ko bhulna bhi nehi chahiye!Smile). Lekin yeh kaha likkha hai ke...tum sari zindagi apne pehle pyaar ko yaad karke ansoo bahayogiCry and it will restrain you to fall in love again!Angry Aur 'pehle pyaar' ke yaadon mein sirf dard kyon hoga...aanchi yaadein bhi toh hongi na...unhe yaad karoDay Dreaming...and move on with your life, taking your past along with you...be proud of your past, don't disgrace it.Thumbs Up

Now, myth no.2...its totally insane!Wacko Kyon bhai...yeh koi vote hai kya jo ek bar cast kar liya toh, im not eligible for 2nd time...Jesus!Dead Love is so spontaneous n sudden...u jus can't plan it or take a resolution that "I'll never fall in love again"Shocked believe me, that dsnt work...u never know when it comes n swept u off ur feetEmbarrassed but the scenario is diff when u dnt realize its love or smthing holds u back to accept that u r in love! We come across many ppl in our life...and all of them may not be meant for us...It's a lifelong quest for everyone to find 'the one' for him/herself! And no rule specifies that 'the one' would be our first love every time!LOL Then why stopping here...search for ur soul mate, experience love, be happy and rule ur worldThumbs Up To love someone n to be loved by someone is really wonderfulEmbarrassed it sets you free...and U should never restrict him/herself from this.

Lastly, myth no.3...and I have only one word...pathetic!Angry Rest...u guys r smart enough to understand...then why wasting time!LOL I really hope they will never bring this 3rd myth anywhere near DLMH...if they do...trust me...that day I'll quitCry


Now coming to DLMH's account...

It goes like this..."Sometime when  u r not in love...you feel as if you r in love...coz u love to be in love with the idea of being in love and when its actually love...you jus not realize!" Complicated? Well...love is complicated...as always!Smile

Alka lived in America...she had leaded an independent life there...miles away from her home...and when u stay alone away from family...1st thing u look for is friendship/ companionship...u search for ppl with same frequency. In that course of searching u make frnds...casually date someone n u may eventually take it seriously! (May be bcoz of mutual attraction, good understanding, similar lifestyle etc etc) But the idea crashes when u have a face-off with actual loveShocked u get confused, restless (sometime guilty)!Confused Whatever...the truth should be accepted, coz that's the way it is...and if u wanna run away...its your loss!Wink

And I'm glad that Alka dint run away (though she was confused in the beginning). I feel she was lucky to have Chander...coz its very rare to find someone who loves you unconditionally. And the character of Chander is framed such a way that...he almos 'compel' (yea im using this word) you to fall in love with himEmbarrassed I mean who can resist the appeal of true love? No one! And from a girls' POV...I know every girl...let her be from any corner of this world...expect a very little thing from deep within...she jus wants unconditional love, the goodness of heart, respect, loyalty, understanding and accompaniment...that's allSmile Rest of the things like, financial status, social position, better life style, good looks...doesn't matter when u get what you really wanted from your heart...but never expected to get! Chander has it all whatever a girl actually dream for...and there he beats everyone!Embarrassed

And about Ralph...Alka was in an impression that she loves him but in reality he was jus a mere placeholder! Now Ralph is nowhere in her life...its bcoz she never actually loved him that much . But even if in future she gets separated from Chander...he will always remain in her life...forever...since he is the ONE for her!

Thanks for your patienceSmile Thnx Aditi...



Hug You are a cupid, angel, love you for your postClapClapClap

Thanks for posting such a lovely postTongueTongueTongue you have explained  such a "complex"(you know what i meanWink)issue  very  beautiful yet simple way.Smile

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Originally posted by ankita1605

Guess I'm the last one to make a comment on this threadSmile for a change iss bar soncha ke sabse baad mein reply karungi (after every one is on board with their annotation). lekin reply mujhe karna hi tha coz...Kabhi Kabhi Aditi...we get a nice occupying topic like this to discussEmbarrassed so first im gonna take the light to a little wider extent, then narrowing down to your ques...kindly bear with me!Big smile


We have some popular myths about Pyaar/Ishq/Mohabbat...thnx to yesteryrs bollywood movies, over melodramatic soaps n backdated novels!LOL

Myth No.1 Pehla pyaar bhulaye nehi bhulta...Ouch

Myth No.2 Humein zindagi mein ek hi bar pyaar hota hai...Shocked

Myth No.3 Indian women are bound to love their husbands, even if she wasn't willing to marry that person n loved someone else...Angry

May be I can agree with the first one...to some points...but the other two...no ways! Aha...here I begin with my psychoanalysis!Wink


I'll start with myth no.1...first of all...'pehla pyaar' is a beautiful, divine n magical feeling (though love  always have these 3 characteristic within , but in first love the degree of emotion is pretty higher...so things seems more specialLOL) and u may never forget it (whtz the need...aanchi cheezo ko bhulna bhi nehi chahiye!Smile). Lekin yeh kaha likkha hai ke...tum sari zindagi apne pehle pyaar ko yaad karke ansoo bahayogiCry and it will restrain you to fall in love again!Angry Aur 'pehle pyaar' ke yaadon mein sirf dard kyon hoga...aanchi yaadein bhi toh hongi na...unhe yaad karoDay Dreaming...and move on with your life, taking your past along with you...be proud of your past, don't disgrace it.Thumbs Up

Now, myth no.2...its totally insane!Wacko Kyon bhai...yeh koi vote hai kya jo ek bar cast kar liya toh, im not eligible for 2nd time...Jesus!Dead Love is so spontaneous n sudden...u jus can't plan it or take a resolution that "I'll never fall in love again"Shocked believe me, that dsnt work...u never know when it comes n swept u off ur feetEmbarrassed but the scenario is diff when u dnt realize its love or smthing holds u back to accept that u r in love! We come across many ppl in our life...and all of them may not be meant for us...It's a lifelong quest for everyone to find 'the one' for him/herself! And no rule specifies that 'the one' would be our first love every time!LOL Then why stopping here...search for ur soul mate, experience love, be happy and rule ur worldThumbs Up To love someone n to be loved by someone is really wonderfulEmbarrassed it sets you free...and U should never restrict him/herself from this.

Lastly, myth no.3...and I have only one word...pathetic!Angry Rest...u guys r smart enough to understand...then why wasting time!LOL I really hope they will never bring this 3rd myth anywhere near DLMH...if they do...trust me...that day I'll quitCry


Now coming to DLMH's account...

It goes like this..."Sometime when  u r not in love...you feel as if you r in love...coz u love to be in love with the idea of being in love and when its actually love...you jus not realize!" Complicated? Well...love is complicated...as always!Smile

Alka lived in America...she had leaded an independent life there...miles away from her home...and when u stay alone away from family...1st thing u look for is friendship/ companionship...u search for ppl with same frequency. In that course of searching u make frnds...casually date someone n u may eventually take it seriously! (May be bcoz of mutual attraction, good understanding, similar lifestyle etc etc) But the idea crashes when u have a face-off with actual loveShocked u get confused, restless (sometime guilty)!Confused Whatever...the truth should be accepted, coz that's the way it is...and if u wanna run away...its your loss!Wink

And I'm glad that Alka dint run away (though she was confused in the beginning). I feel she was lucky to have Chander...coz its very rare to find someone who loves you unconditionally. And the character of Chander is framed such a way that...he almos 'compel' (yea im using this word) you to fall in love with himEmbarrassed I mean who can resist the appeal of true love? No one! And from a girls' POV...I know every girl...let her be from any corner of this world...expect a very little thing from deep within...she jus wants unconditional love, the goodness of heart, respect, loyalty, understanding and accompaniment...that's allSmile Rest of the things like, financial status, social position, better life style, good looks...doesn't matter when u get what you really wanted from your heart...but never expected to get! Chander has it all whatever a girl actually dream for...and there he beats everyone!Embarrassed

And about Ralph...Alka was in an impression that she loves him but in reality he was jus a mere placeholder! Now Ralph is nowhere in her life...its bcoz she never actually loved him that much . But even if in future she gets separated from Chander...he will always remain in her life...forever...since he is the ONE for her!

Thanks for your patienceSmile Thnx Aditi...


Hey Ankita!Thanks for replying!Glad you liked the topic...I agree with you on the fact that pyaar zindagi mein sirf ek baar nahi hota and honestly Thank God for that!!Tongue And maybe yes what she thought was love with Ralph was actually just very good friendship but I think Ralph did really love her as he came to India for her and even left for her happiness..All the same true love aka saccha pyaar aasaani se nahi milta hai and Alka has found that in Chander!And btw...wonderful post you know!Super actually..Big smile


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Hey Ankita!Thanks for replying!Glad you liked the topic...I agree with you on the fact that pyaar zindagi mein sirf ek baar nahi hota and honestly Thank God for that!!Tongue And maybe yes what she thought was love with Ralph was actually just very good friendship but I think Ralph did really love her as he came to India for her and even left for her happiness..All the same true love aka saccha pyaar aasaani se nahi milta hai and Alka has found that in Chander!And btw...wonderful post you know!Super actually..Big smile

Thanks AditiSmile it was you who started this thread n kind of provokedWink me to write this reply! 
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