Posted: 08 April 2011 at 2:14pm | IP Logged
Regarding your trip to the disc at night..i dont know whether to laugh or be angry at you.. itne raat woh bhi uss city mein.. tu rukh, i will rant like your mum soon in private chal, be careful dear.. u know i worry.. but seriously, pls be careful..
ok.. firstly, not done.. this is by far the smallest update i feel. meaning we demand anotehr one this weekend, hopefully by tomorrow night, ok
i am going to be wuick as J coming home in 5 mins! dinner bhi serve karna hai
.. You got it absolutely right. i loved the kala-naku convo, esp how kala got naku ready, taking so much pride in her appearance just as a mum will do.also, she finally tells nakku about why she did nt want dutta for naku. thank god for that. she clears up naku's MU that she is not good enuf for dutta..and as expected kala is shocked that naku thinks like that.. but then what else would u expect a girl like naku to think..any other day i would have loved with happiness theuy way kala whispers uday in her ear! but today knowing how naku feels about dutta, it felt bittersweet. sweet for kala to say that and bitter for naku to hear .. well, u are so correct that these days with so many boys going abroad old parents are left on their own. i think the day is not far when old age homes will sprout everywhere in India just like abroad mein hai. it is a pity and shameful that there is no one to look after those parents that spent their entire lives on their kids. in that respect alone, Uday is a great guy..
i like the fact Uday is good looking, well mannered and basically a nice guy.. nothing that dutta could fault with. actually a great match for naku..though lil does Dutta know what was in Uday'smind. esp his thoughts on how neek and gentle naku is, she will never back answer his mum and do her service so that he can live peacefully!
wah.. kaisa hai yeh banda.. lil does he know what a livewire naku can be when she wants to ..i dont like the idea of him getting married to her just so that she looks the part from his mum's pov.. arre, is he marrying her or for his mum
chalo accha hai.. at least i found fault with him
anyway, kala so lovingly explains how dutta will never fit into life here and neitehr will she in Mumbai.. hmmm, sitting next to Uday Dutta thinks of Nakku and the bike ride..in spite of being surrounded by so many people, those thoughts seem to disturb him or shake him out of his comfort zone. i dont think such intensity/confusion would never be the case with his thoughts about Meghna! i loved how dutta in one glance noticed so many things about Naku.. how her eyes were downcast, how her sari fitted her, everything ek hi jhatke mein nazar aaya usse..
the whole scene/mahoul of the ladki dekhna episode esp from a small town pov is so well described. the to be MIL shooting off question after question and the son getting embarassed.. but here toh we have Dutta silently fuming at the questions posed to nakku
he is gussa ki no one is there to help her
he doesnt realise they are in fact trying to help her by asking her to spend some time with uday.. but obviously our dutta doesnt see it is time to do that..he recognises this fact but not why he feels so
and that is the beauty of this whole part where Dutta is reacting like any half smitten guy but without realising why he is doing that and the best part was that he left her alone and went to Meghna.. that truly shows how half baked/unclear his mind is regarding his relationship with naku.. he is getting to the part where he will realise why he is behaving in suhc a manner..and the journey to that destination sure looks great!
now my heart was see-sawing when i read that terrace encounter..she was there in body but her mind, heart and soul was with someone else..she was just a statue, listening, trying to nod and grunt out appropriate replies when her mind was wandering back to that one man.. wondering how he could have left her alone..how he chose to go to meghna.. no, not in accusation, but maybe as a fact that this is how things are..however much she loves him, he will never be hers.. i think at that moment in the terrace, she knew he had followed them, but then when the mobile rings, he chooses to go to whoever called him rather than be with her.. that probably drove home the point that she was running after a mirage or maybe even dreaming of getting a man who would never be hers.. and the only time she finally speaks is when she speaks her mind is when she doesnt want to hear his past, and would only want to think of their future together..to be honest, her accepting the rishta was a shocker to me esp as Uday was prepared to wait.. but naku i think has reached a point where she feels there is no point waiting for someone/something that will never happen..she doesnt care who she is getting married to, as long as keeps others happy and that is exactly how she accepts his rishtha too na.. now, if Dutta had heard that convo, he would know she did not agree wholeheartedly.. but then if he was still on that staircase, would she have ever consented
the dinner table convo was so perfect.. kala yakking away happily as she can finally see that her naku will be settled happily.. kishore also joining in..but dutta is miles away..kala cannot see it, but kishore is v astute and can see that dutta is restless..i am sure he would have noticed that he asks for tea sent thru with naku, but knowing she wont be coming, he declines any tea at all! it is so clear that he wanted to talk to naku rather than just have tea na?!
but she does come with chai na..i felt so bad for her..waise, my hubby also says i make great tea and not that great coffee though i drink/taste neither
there was such a cosiness to the convo betwen naku-dutta. he esplaining about surgery and she listening attentively..with her questions in between.. he is so concerned that he wants to hear from her that she knows what she is doing and is not doing it n haste..and this is where you have blended beautifully the prologue to the episode with naku's thinking and how aptly she says that manzil wahi rastey pe banna lo..
.how true.. but not all can think like that shilpi..
finally Dutta ke neendh ud gaye
..shukar hain.. no, on a serious note..i liked the lil bits u add like how he stopped a second before lighting that cig..almost like defying himself from what he was feeling.. almost like turning his face away from the fact she hates it when he smokes, but here like turning his face away from facing his love for her?! wahtever the case, ending kamaal ka tha the way he squashes the bud and not hurting her flowers.. so he can turn his face away, but can never see her hurt
Edited by prettywoman - 08 April 2011 at 4:32pm