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Posted: 26 March 2011 at 2:31am | IP Logged
@ Arjun.. really nice stories.. thanx for sharing... here are my views on those stories...(in blue font)

Originally posted by .Arjun



In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family or God. Even our pets!

There is no more precious possession anyone could hold than love.



really nice lines... u know in real life... like 2, 3 years age... i dint hav much confidence in me and i always had this feeling that people who are good to me on my face must be talking bad about me behind my back...this is why i was not able to trust any one completely... but then few incidents change my thoughts completely when some of my buddies supported me through my thick n thins :))

Originally posted by .Arjun


When some1 gives u an answer tht is different from what you expect don't think they are wrong. There may be an angle that you have not thought of at all. You will have to listen and understand, and not listen with a predetermined notion


i truly believe this one... almost every one has a logic or reason behind their answers & views... that could be different than us.... same thing applies to this forum too.. everyone has different choices and reasons to support their favorites and others have reason to ridicule their non-favorites

Originally posted by .Arjun


Some of us waste our time waiting for people to live up to our expectations. We are so concerned about what others are doing that we don't do anything ourselves
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when u trust some one and call him\her ur bestie... its natural to have expectations from him\her...and u feel shattered when that person doesnt come up to ur expectations... its easy to say that u shouldnt expect anything from anyone becoz expectations hurt... but actually its quite tough




Edited by Usman. - 26 March 2011 at 2:32am

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Originally posted by raju786



everyone loves to be loved..i do..if i know someone who doesnt like me, i get worried too fast..probably thats a diff problem lol..


lolss...  this happens to everyone i guess.. even i get worried if i feel a person doesnt like me.. i try to show as if it doesnt matter or i dont care at all but actually i do careLOL


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Posted: 26 March 2011 at 2:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by .Arjun


Learn to write in the sand, when you have differences and hurt feelings with your friend. Learn to write in stone when your friend had done some thing really good to you.


i agree with these lines but sometimes bad experience with frnz or huge differences between two frnz can never be lessened cuz something really bad or ugly had happened in the past which u cant forget or erase from ur memory even if u try too.. (i've had this experience in life)


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Posted: 26 March 2011 at 2:42am | IP Logged
@ worldcup 2011

next wednesday is gonna be a huge one.. Pak vs Ind.. as ishu said a match to die for... there is gonna be immense pressure on players of both sides... this match is not less than WC final.. the battle is gonna be between Indian batting & Pakistani bowling.. Indians have been great with bat & struggled with ball.. whereas Pakis have performed exceptionally well with ball but struggled a bit with bat....i m already so excited & nervous for that match...

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Posted: 26 March 2011 at 2:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweta01

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 nice posts Swetu..

 great lines but very hard to act on these... there are times when these things are not in ur hand... like if some one does bad to u ur ego hurts and next time u see that person u remember that whole incident... i think this comes natural to u.. u may forget it after a span of time as they said time heals everything...

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Posted: 26 March 2011 at 2:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweta01

Originally posted by Ishan.


ROFLOL... I did not get it at first.. until I read whats written in Hindi.... ROFLROFL


whats written in hindi???

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Posted: 26 March 2011 at 5:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Usman.

Originally posted by sweta01

Touchy Ego

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 nice posts Swetu..

 great lines but very hard to act on these... there are times when these things are not in ur hand... like if some one does bad to u ur ego hurts and next time u see that person u remember that whole incident... i think this comes natural to u.. u may forget it after a span of time as they said time heals everything...

Yes, Usman, it is difficult very difficult.... for that matter each thing in life is difficult at first.. it is the mind set which makes or break a person.

I agree with what pinku wrote on this...


Yep you are who you are because you choose to be that wayEmbarrassed 

I know people who are positive no matter what happens and they're always happy:) Everyone should be happy with what they have and no matter what happens:) It's tough but not impossible:)

Since childhood I have experience various incidents which to say were not pleasant. I used to get bogged down with it... It affected my overall personality and till date I am not out of it totally. But learning and growing. Nothing gets achieved overnight.. everything takes time and effort but achievable. Embarrassed

Also I believe if someone hurt you yes you will get affected but the trick lies in how soon you get over it. Do you let that incident affect your life or personality. Getting hurt is natural.. and dealing the hurt is a process.. how soon you get healed is the key. When you see the person next time yeah may be you remember that incident but it should not make you sad or hurt all over again. Moving on is the key. There is no point in harping about same things again and again. Life is too short for keeping grudges. Smile

And yes attitude towards an incident certainly help.. Recently @ some unpleasant incidents I just put on an Ignore Button.. and it certainly felt like wow.. those really did not matter and when I read this below line in that essay...

Then you will laugh at all the foolish things you have been doing, at all the resentments, reactions, revenges, with which you have been destroying yourself.

It felt true.. cos I was destroying myself with those thoughts and in the end it really did not have to be in that way.

So yes it is tough, hard, difficult whatever but it is achievable if we really try and this is from experience. For me learn grow learn grow is a process.



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Posted: 26 March 2011 at 5:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Usman.

Originally posted by sweta01

Originally posted by Ishan.


ROFLOL... I did not get it at first.. until I read whats written in Hindi.... ROFLROFL


whats written in hindi???

You dont know to read hindi askhar Confused

What is the hindi word for Rock? Tongue

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