Posted: 13 March 2011 at 4:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anusarkar
I would like to ask you Cvs, is it ,only a women's responsibility to work towards a healthy marraige or is it presumed its women's job to stay in an unhealthy marraige due to the societal norms. You are showing exactly that ..........
This is not the first time Krishna has been physical with her. On the contrary, everytime he is angry or agitated he has manhandled her, as if she is a mere object . But instead of letting Pratigya confront him for his actions you have left the whole matter unresolved.
Do you think a woman should stay in an abusive marraige because the society, her parents and above all the presumed notion that it is the woman's job to forgive and forget ? Is it, her job to stay in marraige where she is physically manhandled by the man who is suppose to protect her, verbally abused by her in-laws, day in and day out, terrorized by her brother-in-law etc. Is it, still, her responsibility to stay at her in-law's ,even after she and her father gets humiliated by getting their face blackened. Why was an educated indian father, been showed so weak and feeble that even after his daughter's insult, he walked out without her ? Is it, still, her responsibility to stay in the marraige where she has to prove her innocence by eating chilli filled rice and tolerating the tantrums of her spouse ?
No, it is not, a marraige is a joint union of two people who have equal responsibilities. Each should be contributing in building a healthy marraige. So far, you have shown Pratigya doing all the hard work in keeping the marraige intact.
Cvs! You are the creators of the show and you are solely responsible for these characters: Would you want your daughter or sister, be in Pratigya's situation ? Would you suggest your loved ones to be in a house where she is abused on a daily basis? Please think. As a mother myself, I would not want my children abused in any way. I am sure you would definitely not want it too. So why are you making your protagonist suffer like this ? She is a strong woman and now she has a job.
Krishna needs to understand his mistake and he needs to appreaciate her.
I really hope he apologizes for his behavior and starts realizing her worth.
It is krishna's responsibilty too. Make him responsible. And above all , I want to see Pratigya working and becoming successful .
Thanks for the nice post."a
marraige is a joint union of two people who have equal
responsibilities. Each should be contributing in building a healthy
marraige. So far, you have shown Pratigya doing all the hard work in
keeping the marraige intact."
I guess they are showing classic power struggle over sex and money in marriage. Krishna was a typical MCP during their honey moon & came around after Pratz's reciprocated his love. The money issue will also be sorted I hope.
Regarding the way Pratz is treated by her inlaws, what can I say? I just wish they would show some positive changes in them, as it happens in Ekata's shows, it's long over due. If not by a change of heart atleast by compulsion like during the election track.May be Guruma should give some "gyan" both political & ethical.
Plus all the abuse against women don't have to happen in TN, they can show other charecters & weave them into. It's bit tiring to see Shakti going from bad to worse and Amma's constant tirade.