Posted: 11 March 2011 at 2:19pm | IP Logged
From what Ritu said it will teach tolerance, as we saw Kokila wanting to gainsay Hetal's instructions to Gopi, because it's her DIL, she has taught her to be self reliant and work solitary, Hetal's way is to help also, so the DIL is not isolated and the work is finished quickly with two people doing it, that's so nice of her, Kokila was reminded by Naani to stay out of it, Gopi is not her responsibility, Sadhli you mentioned that both of them have equal right to instruct these two DIL's not only the direct Saas.
But the real issue is competitiveness, my DIL is better than yours, yours is worthless, you have to do her work for her, i don't do the work for mine, she does it all. So if Rashi became more accomplished and actually volunteered to work, Kokila would loose competitive edge. But as this will never happen, she will always win with Gopi doing all the work, so we are back to square one. So why have this experiment in the first place? Will Kokila put into practice Hetal's technique to help her DIL too, to make the workload less on her? Or will Hetal take on board the cracking whip style of Kokila works on Rashi better?
Does Hetal even realise the amount of work Gopi does, day in day out and if it's a fair share between Rashi and her, she seems a fair person, why isn't the work split evenly down the middle?